Would you rope if you were me (srs)

[soulless_npc]

You got a diagnosis or something dude. At the end of the day sex literally isn’t a problem. You can always just betabux some mtb or go buy hookers. I don’t believe you aren’t able to get a girl to agree for you to stick it in. You ain’t tall okay I get it. Height can literally be the factor for women. Your face is slightly below average sure. But literally look at the bright side you are a white man, you basically have garuanteed htb Asian girl if you tried hard enough. But I’m convinced you have some mental problems causing you to be a mentalcel. I see niggas everyday with your physical stats same height same face ranking hairline etc etc and they get women. You sure this isn’t a brain chemistry/mentality thing

Idk I probably don't have a dominant enough personality. I don't go out of my way to be an asshole. As far as I can tell women want to be put in their place by an asshole. But they want so from a guy who has the right energy. If it isn't about looks it's about energy. And I'm reeling from a traumatic and lonely upbringing still and I probably am not emotionally available even if I tried, not that I think sex is about being emotionally available, but it takes playing on emotions to get sex I believe. Maybe I lack that bandwidth because I am too stuck in my head.

Of course I struggle with depression I don't know anyone in my situation who wouldn't. The difference is that they tried to diagnose me with clinical depression, when the reason I feel depression is BECAUSE I am 32 and basically have never had sex nor had a girlfriend. Again, who tf wouldn't feel the same way?

 

[eon]

NO, NEVER OVER

 

[rrg]

relocate to china they cream for white boys

 

[ronluk]

Idk I probably don't have a dominant enough personality. I don't go out of my way to be an asshole. As far as I can tell women want to be put in their place by an asshole. But they want so from a guy who has the right energy. If it isn't about looks it's about energy. And I'm reeling from a traumatic and lonely upbringing still and I probably am not emotionally available even if I tried, not that I think sex is about being emotionally available, but it takes playing on emotions to get sex I believe. Maybe I lack that bandwidth because I am too stuck in my head.

Of course I struggle with depression I don't know anyone in my situation who wouldn't. The difference is that they tried to diagnose me with clinical depression, when the reason I feel depression is BECAUSE I am 32 and basically have never had sex nor had a girlfriend. Again, who tf wouldn't feel the same way?

Don’t worry dude, many here feel your pain. Me as well being a decade younger than you I feel it. I usually don’t engage in incel shit as I focus more on just self improvement but yeah I know the feeling ur talking about. Missing out on experiences love parties it sucks. And yeah it’s not gonna come back. Your personality being lacking of being dominant might be the issue for sure. I have a friend who’s around your height. He says he doesn’t wanna be a burden for women and that’s he doesn’t approach. At this point dude you need thicker skin do whatever u can. Lyrics/pregab could help if you are NT enough and that it makes u more outgoing/rude/narcy then druggie/tweaker/autist. I diagnose the cause of your inceldom due to abused dog personality. Remember that men are literally supposed to be dominant in the relationship

 

[soulless_npc]

Remember that men are literally supposed to be dominant in the relationship

And yet how do you establish that? Being an asshole? Beating her? Making the decisions?
For being mild mannered and respectful and kind all I ever got was used for attention and then mocked. So I'm long past being a nice guy or thinking that kindness pays off as I grew up around shitty people who still had sex. I'm not an idiot, it doesn't have fuck all to do with personality or being a good person.

I'm heartbroken and pretend to be indifferent, because apparently anything else is unacceptable. I don't talk to girls, I don't acknowledge their existence and they don't acknowledge mine. And I won't until I get an inclination that anything is headed in the right direction.

If I'm ugly then I'm ugly. If I'm short then I'm short. Now what? Do I just sit around for the rest of life as an incel now that I've missed out during the years I was supposed to have sex? Fuck that I have been through far too much to settle. I don't want to die until shit goes the way I want it to go.

 

[nier]

delete that shitty hairstyle from the world and dont rope

 

[zygosmasher]

I don't believe I can change anything besides looks personality and the ability to make money, and even then I'm limited by how much I can change each of those. Making money is generally empty and soulless unless you do something you love, and does nothing as far as making you actually happy. Everything feels so empty. And yet if I am truly god fuck ugly I don't have any choice but to make money, even though it slowly kills you. To think that everything I have gone through is so I can just get no sex for the rest of my life is enough to make me want to rope, so I try to believe I still can, even if it doesn't look like it. I've been getting treated like shit and had people tell me what I am incapable of all my life, it's nothing new.

prove them wrong

working hard doesnt correlate at all with being successful

smart work is better than hard work

 

[soulless_npc]

prove them wrong

working hard doesnt correlate at all with being successful

smart work is better than hard work

Yes I've done a lot of hard work but it was stupid work. Smart work generally means having an education so I would have to go back to school, or do a trade as suggested.

No no matter what I lose though because I can't get back time or youth. So it doesn't even feel like there's a point in killing myself to try to get ahead. Why? Because people who don't work hard and have contributed fuck all have relationships and have sex.

Look at the influencers who are now famous and get women. They don't come from this sort of background. They either had shit handed to them, or they got lucky.

Being able to do "smart work" is a privilege that I have yet to know. I would kill to have a job that doesn't break my back and looksmin me. But it's inaccessible to me.

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

And yet how do you establish that? Being an asshole? Beating her? Making the decisions?
For being mild mannered and respectful and kind all I ever got was used for attention and then mocked. So I'm long past being a nice guy or thinking that kindness pays off as I grew up around shitty people who still had sex. I'm not an idiot, it doesn't have fuck all to do with personality or being a good person.

I'm heartbroken and pretend to be indifferent, because apparently anything else is unacceptable. I don't talk to girls, I don't acknowledge their existence and they don't acknowledge mine. And I won't until I get an inclination that anything is headed in the right direction.

If I'm ugly then I'm ugly. If I'm short then I'm short. Now what? Do I just sit around for the rest of life as an incel now that I've missed out during the years I was supposed to have sex? Fuck that I have been through far too much to settle. I don't want to die until shit goes the way I want it to go.

Tbh all i can say is eat raw meat and never cut your hair again

 

[zygosmasher]

Yes I've done a lot of hard work but it was stupid work. Smart work generally means having an education so I would have to go back to school, or do a trade as suggested.

No no matter what I lose though because I can't get back time or youth. So it doesn't even feel like there's a point in killing myself to try to get ahead. Why? Because people who don't work hard and have contributed fuck all have relationships and have sex.

Look at the influencers who are now famous and get women. They don't come from this sort of background. They either had shit handed to them, or they got lucky.

Being able to do "smart work" is a privilege that I have yet to know. I would kill to have a job that doesn't break my back and looksmin me. But it's inaccessible to me.

I quit in secondary school

I used to live on a council estate for 10 years

Where and when you start doesn’t matter, ofcourse rich kids will be ahead of you, but it doesn’t mean you can’t climb your way up

Ofcourse you will now never experience teenage love or anything of the sort, but getting into a financially stable position will be a good start and you can probably find a single mother that will be with you if you can provide for her

It’s gonna be tough to find real love but you definitely have a chance, just fix up and atleast give it an actual go

 

[soulless_npc]

I quit in secondary school

I used to live on a council estate for 10 years

Where and when you start doesn’t matter, ofcourse rich kids will be ahead of you, but it doesn’t mean you can’t climb your way up

Ofcourse you will now never experience teenage love or anything of the sort, but getting into a financially stable position will be a good start and you can probably find a single mother that will be with you if you can provide for her

It’s gonna be tough to find real love but you definitely have a chance, just fix up and atleast give it an actual go

I just want to have sex dude

Of course I want more than that but if I can't even get sex what am I? I'm nothing and dating and marriage is out of the question it's the cart before the horse

And I don't want to have to settle for a single mother, that's just chads leftovers and that is gay and shitty

And I don't even think I believe in love, I believe people confuse infatuation with love and I believe relationships are transactional whether it's money or status clinging or just validation and attention, or even worse two mentally ill people pinging off each other.