wtf do you say on tinder

[Harold O'brien]

I am aware this is the most generic cringe garbage thread possible

seriously though not autism or cringe pickup lines or doesnt matter if ur chad

 

[ropemax]

doesnt matter if ur chad

this is the truth though. If you don't wanna hear it, oh well

 

[Harold O'brien]

this is the truth though. If you don't wanna hear it, oh well

clearly I am not chad

 

[Pendejo]

You downloaded Tinder?

 

[ropemax]

clearly I am not chad

it's the same protocol whether you're a chad or not - ask to meet up immediately. If she ghosts you, this wasn't going anywhere no matter what line you would have used

 

[the BULL]

Face down, ass up. And pancakes in the morning

 

[Deleted member 15577]

I already answered this

“Hey I like that x on the x pic on profile”

“What’s your ethnicity” foids love talking about how many different niggers have ejaculated in their whore mothers

“I’m not really a texting type of guy haha, wanna grab drinks?”

“That (fact) in your bio, can you tell me more about it?”

“woah you study x? Must be hard ”


Chad will always win tho, remember that

 

[Deleted member 5818]

I have coke

 

[spam_artist]

I am aware this is the most generic cringe garbage thread possible

unlike all your other threads

 

[Deleted member 15748]

I already answered this

“Hey I like that x on the x pic on profile”

“What’s your ethnicity” foids love talking about how many different niggers have ejaculated in their whore mothers

“I’m not really a texting type of guy haha, wanna grab drinks?”

“That (fact) in your bio, can you tell me more about it?”

“woah you study x? Must be hard ”


Chad will always win tho, remember that

this is actually legit good advice with two caveats imo

asking for meet up too early is very low success rate, you need to establish NT. girls are actually pussies that are afraid of guys its not just a reddit meme. Only do this if you dont really give a fuck about that match

if the girl has nothing interesting you can literally just say 'hows the weekend going' or some such and thats fine.

The way to look at it is;
if a girl is attracted to you, she will talk to you and meet up if you just demonstrate BASIC NT

if a girl isnt attracted to you or has better options, there is no possible combination of words that will save you

so dont think about text convos too much, just talk like a normal human, dont try game or neg or whatever cringe shit in a tinder text.

Also for dates, anytime you 'try' to perform a behaviour like negging or any kind of trp bullshit it will come off as incredibly cringe , non NT and unattractive. These things only work when they are totally naturally done by you. This is only possible if you feel comfortable, high self esteem and non anxious, which can only be achieved by repeated exposure and desensitisation to dates

and you never consciously think about doing that you just perform it naturally

its just a fact that your first few dates will be flops, I am way better at dating now and getting lays/second dates/ltrs than i was a few years ago, and none of that is trp game 'learning' nonsense it is just like playing an instrument or a video game or anything else in life. just expose self to it repeatedly and you will naturally improve up to your genetic potential.

 

[Pendejo]

The way to look at it is;
if a girl is attracted to you, she will talk to you and meet up if you just demonstrate BASIC NT

if a girl isnt attracted to you or has better options, there is no possible combination of words that will save you

so dont think about text convos too much, just talk like a normal human, dont try game or neg or whatever cringe shit in a tinder text.

Also for dates, anytime you 'try' to perform a behaviour like negging or any kind of trp bullshit it will come off as incredibly cringe , non NT and unattractive. These things only work when they are totally naturally done by you. This is only possible if you feel comfortable, high self esteem and non anxious, which can only be achieved by repeated exposure and desensitisation to dates

and you never consciously think about doing that you just perform it naturally

its just a fact that your first few dates will be flops, I am way better at dating now and getting lays/second dates/ltrs than i was a few years ago, and none of that is trp game 'learning' nonsense it is just like playing an instrument or a video game or anything else in life. just expose self to it repeatedly and you will naturally improve up to your genetic potential.

I am probably too neurotic for this

 

[Deleted member 15674]

I already answered this

“Hey I like that x on the x pic on profile”

“What’s your ethnicity” foids love talking about how many different niggers have ejaculated in their whore mothers

“I’m not really a texting type of guy haha, wanna grab drinks?”

“That (fact) in your bio, can you tell me more about it?”

“woah you study x? Must be hard ”


Chad will always win tho, remember that

totally different approach to me.

1st message I shoot is only their name
Then I make a comment on their bio - if the pic is funny or interesting I will too.
If there is nothing in bio, I usually say something like "I was wondering, if I ate all the food in your fridge what would you do?" or some other autistic question.
Laugh about it
Then ask for number

 

[Deleted member 16474]

your face and body will do the heavy lifting, just don't appear weird or unhinged aspie

 

[Deleted member 15674]

this is actually legit good advice with two caveats imo

asking for meet up too early is very low success rate, you need to establish NT. girls are actually pussies that are afraid of guys its not just a reddit meme. Only do this if you dont really give a fuck about that match

if the girl has nothing interesting you can literally just say 'hows the weekend going' or some such and thats fine.

The way to look at it is;
if a girl is attracted to you, she will talk to you and meet up if you just demonstrate BASIC NT

if a girl isnt attracted to you or has better options, there is no possible combination of words that will save you

so dont think about text convos too much, just talk like a normal human, dont try game or neg or whatever cringe shit in a tinder text.

Also for dates, anytime you 'try' to perform a behaviour like negging or any kind of trp bullshit it will come off as incredibly cringe , non NT and unattractive. These things only work when they are totally naturally done by you. This is only possible if you feel comfortable, high self esteem and non anxious, which can only be achieved by repeated exposure and desensitisation to dates

and you never consciously think about doing that you just perform it naturally

its just a fact that your first few dates will be flops, I am way better at dating now and getting lays/second dates/ltrs than i was a few years ago, and none of that is trp game 'learning' nonsense it is just like playing an instrument or a video game or anything else in life. just expose self to it repeatedly and you will naturally improve up to your genetic potential.

TRP game did help, some of it is legit. Shit like knowing how to tease girls and having the mindset of not being afraid to lose them helps a lot. Things like negging are just dick moves though imo, everyone has their own approach to girls. For some guys dickhead game might work

 

[Pendejo]

your face and body will do the heavy lifting, just don't appear weird or unhinged aspie

So just do the opposite of what you do?

 

[germanlooks]

This one is legit as opener

„Ok, I’ll be your boyfriend.“

 

[Deleted member 15577]

totally different approach to me.

1st message I shoot is only their name
Then I make a comment on their bio - if the pic is funny or interesting I will too.
If there is nothing in bio, I usually say something like "I was wondering, if I ate all the food in your fridge what would you do?" or some other autistic question.
Laugh about it
Then ask for number

If it works, it works. Seems like UK has different rules compared to here lol.

 

[the BULL]

I am probably too neurotic for this

Jfl
It's Simply ass up face down

 

[Deleted member 16474]

So just do the opposite of what you do?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

If it works, it works. Seems like UK has different rules compared to here lol.

the name thing works 9/10 times.
When I fully gymcel and ascend, I plan to make my approaches even more direct.

 

[Deleted member 15748]

I am probably too neurotic for this

i doubt that. you will get better with exposure and age. i was so anxious and bad socially as a young teen, like honestly 95th percentile of those traits. I used to sit in the back of class with long hair covering my acne infested face and never say anything and had like 1-2 other non nt friends max.

now i am probably above average in terms of extroversion , and can talk to any kind of person, woman etc and hold a good conversation and make friends/flirt if needed. I come across as much better socially adjusted and intelligent than the average dude my age now. and now obviously i find it relatively easy to get ltrs with my looksmatch. its still hard obviously cus the dating market is fucked, but it is totally doable now if i put the time in to meet new girls regularly. eventually one will be attracted enough to me. Also im not chad but i am above average looking. WW gave me 7 and I am tall athletic and white. But my standards are high and I only am interested in ltr girls around 6-7/10 looks wise that are also NP, as in, have decent job, interests, hobbies, friendship group

and there was no 'training' that had to be done or learning. it was just a matter of my physical brain developing, and desensitising from forced exposure.

 

[Deleted member 15748]

TRP game did help, some of it is legit. Shit like knowing how to tease girls and having the mindset of not being afraid to lose them helps a lot. Things like negging are just dick moves though imo, everyone has their own approach to girls. For some guys dickhead game might work

I could never force a behaviour that wasn't natural to me without it being very tryhard and cringe, maybe your different. Honestly, 'just be yourself' advice worked for me.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

I could never force a behaviour that wasn't natural to me without it being very tryhard and cringe, maybe your different. Honestly, 'just be yourself' advice worked for me.

"just be yourself" would have killed me tbh. I was majorly bluepilled and retarded with women before. Now I am a lot more understanding of their nature, like before I thought during dates I should treat her as my equal, etc. Now I know that women like being submissive and guys have to act a bit more dominant. Before I was unable to really sexually escalate with girls or be flirty, but like now I have a basic understanding of it as well as understanding when girls like me

 

[Deleted member 15748]

"just be yourself" would have killed me tbh. I was majorly bluepilled and retarded with women before. Now I am a lot more understanding of their nature, like before I thought during dates I should treat her as my equal, etc. Now I know that women like being submissive and guys have to act a bit more dominant. Before I was unable to really sexually escalate with girls or be flirty, but like now I have a basic understanding of it as well as understanding when girls like me

i get that but i could never personally be that trp guy it just wasnt my nature.

just be yourself more jst means, be true to yourself as in, talk about what ACTUALLY is your own interests and hobbies, and your own mannerisms and idiosyncrasies, and your own sense of humour, and looksmax your own personal aesthetic, as oppose to try and fake be something ur not.

it doesnt mean be a dog with no self respects of course.

 

[Deleted member 15748]

"just be yourself" would have killed me tbh. I was majorly bluepilled and retarded with women before. Now I am a lot more understanding of their nature, like before I thought during dates I should treat her as my equal, etc. Now I know that women like being submissive and guys have to act a bit more dominant. Before I was unable to really sexually escalate with girls or be flirty, but like now I have a basic understanding of it as well as understanding when girls like me

bare in mind i am in mid twenties and i date women my own age generally, because i find them the most attractive, and interesting. I honestly dont see the appeal of 'jb'.

seems most of the forum is cradle snatchers so maybe that requires a different advice. idk, i was shit in my teens and early early twenties.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

i get that but i could never personally be that trp guy it just wasnt my nature.

just be yourself more jst means, be true to yourself as in, talk about what ACTUALLY is your own interests and hobbies, and your own mannerisms and idiosyncrasies, and your own sense of humour, and looksmax your own personal aesthetic, as oppose to try and fake be something ur not.

it doesnt mean be a dog with no self respects of course.

Yeah I know what you mean, tbh I don't go TRP autism mode 24/7. If you aren't capable of talking to a girl normally, then TRP is useless. You are right in the sense that you need to have your own style, there are things which TRP says you should do, which wouldn't work for me for example. Like being very silent and not speaking a lot, I am naturally a wordy person and like debates and picking people's brains, being silent would be unnatural

 

[Deleted member 15674]

bare in mind i am in mid twenties and i date women my own age generally, because i find them the most attractive, and interesting. I honestly dont see the appeal of 'jb'.

seems most of the forum is crib snatchers so maybe that requires a different advice. idk, i was shit in my teens and early early twenties.

I am 21, all of the girls that even show me interest now are like 18-19. Rarely girls my age show interest in me

 

[Pendejo]

i doubt that. you will get better with exposure and age. i was so anxious and bad socially as a young teen, like honestly 95th percentile of those traits. I used to sit in the back of class with long hair covering my acne infested face and never say anything and had like 1-2 other non nt friends max.

now i am probably above average in terms of extroversion , and can talk to any kind of person, woman etc and hold a good conversation and make friends/flirt if needed. I come across as much better socially adjusted and intelligent than the average dude my age now. and now obviously i find it relatively easy to get ltrs with my looksmatch. its still hard obviously cus the dating market is fucked, but it is totally doable now if i put the time in to meet new girls regularly. eventually one will be attracted enough to me. Also im not chad but i am above average looking. WW gave me 7 and I am tall athletic and white. But my standards are high and I only am interested in ltr girls around 6-7/10 looks wise that are also NP, as in, have decent job, interests, hobbies, friendship group

and there was no 'training' that had to be done or learning. it was just a matter of my physical brain developing, and desensitising from forced exposure.

How old are you now? I can relate to your experience as a teen, and while I definitely feel less uneasy and anxious around people now my social skills are still severely lacking.

I just have no idea how I am supposed to get exposure when I am out of HS with no social circle or friends at all and won’t go to college tbh, my situation feels like a dead end…

 

[Deleted member 15748]

I am 21, all of the girls that even show me interest now are like 18-19. Rarely girls my age show interest in me

that could be a looks thing also. i have a masculine physical appearance naturally with a little norwood and scars, but also wide frame and square jaw, so i think older women (23-28) find me more gl than the prettyboy lovers

 

[Pendejo]

I am 21, all of the girls that even show me interest now are like 18-19. Rarely girls my age show interest in me

Oh no, the girls who show interest on you are 2-3 years younger, poor you

 

[Deleted member 15674]

that could be a looks thing also. i have a masculine physical appearance naturally with a little norwood and scars, but also wide frame and square jaw, so i think older women (23-28) find me more gl than the prettyboy lovers

I look quite young for my age. I look about 18, my frame is quite small too and almost looks childlike in comparison to adults. I am very boyish in my looks

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Oh no, the girls who show interest on you are 2-3 years younger, poor you

You are a chad who height mogs me, why do you deny my inceldom? I am 21, I won't be encountering 18 and 19 year olds after uni anymore

 

[Deleted member 15748]

How old are you now? I can relate to your experience as a teen, and while I definitely feel less uneasy and anxious around people now my social skills are still severely lacking.

I just have no idea how I am supposed to get exposure when I am out of HS with no social circle or friends at all and won’t go to college tbh, my situation feels like a dead end…

older side of mid twenties now. time is moving fast. I meet girls mostly from hinge. I meet social circle from hobby activities like cycling, bouldering, board game cafes. I also have old friends from uni/school. I dont enjoy drinking which makes it hard in the UK but it is doable.

I rotted a lot during early covid years, but since we are back to normal, im as social as ever.

 

[Deleted member 15748]

actually to be fair to myself i didnt rot during covid years lol I got into really good physical shape and finished my grad school but still i wasnt very social

 

[the BULL]

How old are you now? I can relate to your experience as a teen, and while I definitely feel less uneasy and anxious around people now my social skills are still severely lacking.

I just have no idea how I am supposed to get exposure when I am out of HS with no social circle or friends at all and won’t go to college tbh, my situation feels like a dead end…

 

[Pendejo]

You are a chad who height mogs me, why do you deny my inceldom?

*I am an average height chadlite tops

I deny it because it is simply false lmao.

 

[VenomGT3]

Make a comment about their pics or bio

 

[Pendejo]

I meet social circle from hobby activities like cycling, bouldering, board game cafes.

Fuark so many hobbies, NTmogs me to oblivion.
But tbh can you actually get a proper social circle from hobbies?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

*I am an average height chadlite tops

I deny it because it is simply false lmao.

PLEASE STOP, I AM 5'5 I AM A BIGGER INCEL THAN YOU.

"YOUR INCELDOM IS FALSE!" COPE! I AM AN INCEL. Girls only like me because of gay shit like being funny or NT or having social circle. I am not slaying, I am living the life of a dalit shudra in the west.

You on the other hand can live a good life if you decided to just step out of your room for once

 

[Pendejo]

PLEASE STOP, I AM 5'5 I AM A BIGGER INCEL THAN YOU.

Your experience with girls obliterates mine, therefore I am a bigger incel than you, as simple as that.

Girls only like me because of gay shit like being funny or NT or having social circle.

Consider yourself lucky, you clearly meet a looks threshold for these things to matter so I don’t see why you are whining about it tbh.

You on the other hand can live a good life if you decided to just step out of your room for once

You can live a good life if you decided to just grow and become better looking

Do you realize how stupid that sounds now?

 

[Deleted member 18086]

idk, never got a match

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Your experience with girls obliterates mine, therefore I am a bigger incel than you, as simple as that.


Consider yourself lucky, you clearly meet a looks threshold for these things to matter so I don’t see why you are whining about it tbh.


You can live a good life if you decided to just grow and become better looking

Do you realize how stupid that sounds now?

JFL, I CANNOT GROW TALLER. ALL I CAN DO IS LIFT WEIGHTS. I LITERALLY MADE A POST ON HOW YOU SHOULD ASCEND

 

[Pendejo]

JFL, I CANNOT GROW TALLER. ALL I CAN DO IS LIFT WEIGHTS. I LITERALLY MADE A POST ON HOW YOU SHOULD ASCEND

Nigga and I can’t just “step outside” and my problems will be magically solved either.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Nigga and I can’t just “step outside” and my problems will be magically solved either.

Are you just socially anxious, autistic or a little shy?

 

[Pendejo]

Are you just socially anxious, autistic or a little shy?

Quiet would be the more fitting word, and socially anxious in certain situations.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Quiet would be the more fitting word, and socially anxious in certain situations.

that isn't even that bad, you can deffo overcome it

 

[Amnesia]

Hey _____ wanna come over and watch some episodes of _____, I’ve been on a binge recently

I just spoofed my location and did an experiment with my own pics and used that line as my first line and like 90 percent of girls were like “so down,when do u want to hang”

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Hey _____ wanna come over and watch some episodes of _____, I’ve been on a binge recently

I just spoofed my location and did an experiment with my own pics and used that line as my first line and like 90 percent of girls were like “so down,when do u want to hang”

chad

 

[spam_artist]

the taliban gave the best advice

i dont use this lame 2nd tier net stuff, tho, real life mogs

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

I am aware this is the most generic cringe garbage thread possible

seriously though not autism or cringe pickup lines or doesnt matter if ur chad

Okay. I'll bite—help you out—pearls.

Suppose the convo goes something like this:

Tinderwhore: HI!
Sorry excuse for a man, you: Hi!
Tinderwhore: You'll need to say something other than Hi, you know.
Sorry excuse for a man, you: [send her dic pic]