WTF should I do? Marriage?

[Jesus_ist_König]

Okay so I have 2 ND things diagnosed and I had to take meds since kindergarten.
I do not have the love, empathy nor the fucking patient to get a son or a daughter that is also ND. I was so annoying as a child. I don’t have the nerves for that shit.

Since I already have not only one, but 2 fucking mental illnesses the chances of my child having them are 70-80% genetical and 30-20% environmental (Wikipedia.de)

So in the worst case scenario the chances of my kid being ND is a whopping 80%

Yeah no nigga I won’t gamble 10 minutes of pleasure for 30 years of burden or smth.

“But use a condom”, no they aren’t allowed in orthodoxy since “kids are a gift of God” yeah I don’t know man, if they r NT okay but what if I get a ADHD, Bipolar and autistic mf nooooooooooo

I will discuss it with my priest but still I wanna ask here what the fuck am I supposed to do ?

Option 1: Never get a wife
Option 2: Have sex (high cortisol) and pray to God
Option 3: Adopt some indo Germanic mogger
Option 4: Get a wife that doesn’t want kids (very unlikely to happen)

I wanna have kids but I just want my kid to b NT

@Datto29 @Jensonsahighlander @DrMd @Brava @lockedaway

 

[Gobnull]

too long bro

 

[ragingmanlet]

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

too long bro

Sorry. It’s about me wanting NT kids but i probably will get a ND kid since it’s like 80% likely to happen

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Okay so I have 2 ND things diagnosed and I had to take meds since kindergarten.
I do not have the love, empathy nor the fucking patient to get a son or a daughter that is also ND. I was so annoying as a child. I don’t have the nerves for that shit.

Since I already have not only one, but 2 fucking mental illnesses the chances of my child having them are 70-80% genetical and 30-20% environmental (Wikipedia.de)

So in the worst case scenario the chances of my kid being ND is a whopping 80%

Yeah no nigga I won’t gamble 10 minutes of pleasure for 30 years of burden or smth.

“But use a condom”, no they aren’t allowed in orthodoxy since “kids are a gift of God” yeah I don’t know man, if they r NT okay but what if I get a ADHD, Bipolar and autistic mf nooooooooooo

I will discuss it with my priest but still I wanna ask here what the fuck am I supposed to do ?

Option 1: Never get a wife
Option 2: Have sex (high cortisol) and pray to God
Option 3: Adopt some indo Germanic mogger
Option 4: Get a wife that doesn’t want kids (very unlikely to happen)

I wanna have kids but I just want my kid to b NT

@Datto29 @Jensonsahighlander @DrMd @Brava @lockedaway

You don't have a mental illness. You just grew up in a stupid Western country.

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

You don't have a mental illness. You just grew up in a stupid Western country.

Tales

 

[Gobnull]

Sorry. It’s about me wanting NT kids but i probably will get a ND kid since it’s like 80% likely to happen

this is a genuine concern to have. The simple solution is don't marry, don't ruin nor ur or ur kid's life

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

this is a genuine concern to have. The simple solution is don't marry, don't ruin nor ur or ur kid's life

Hm okay

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Tales

No, tales are just what those fucking psychiatrists and the society you grew up in told you. And you believed them.

They wanted you to think something was wrong with you so you could be subdued. They didn't want you behaving like a normal, masculine little boy so they diagnosed you with some non existent bullshit so they could hop you up on pills. You were chemically lobotomized.

Go to a developing country where "adhd" is treated with a beating and see how it isn't real.

 

[Gobnull]

Hm okay

i won't marry too cuz i am in a way responsible for all the suffering my kid faces for my fuckass genes. Also even general suffering

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

No, tales are just what those fucking psychiatrists and the society you grew up in told you. And you believed them.

They wanted you to think something was wrong with you so you could be subdued. They didn't want you behaving like a normal, masculine little boy so they diagnosed you with some non existent bullshit so they could hop you up on pills. You were chemically lobotomized.

Go to a developing country where "adhd" is treated with a beating and see how it isn't real.

True

 

[tansel]

can i ask like why ur religious if god nerfed you?

 

[Gobnull]

No, tales are just what those fucking psychiatrists and the society you grew up in told you. And you believed them.

They wanted you to think something was wrong with you so you could be subdued. They didn't want you behaving like a normal, masculine little boy so they diagnosed you with some non existent bullshit so they could hop you up on pills. You were chemically lobotomized.

Go to a developing country where "adhd" is treated with a beating and see how it isn't real.

kind of true, in my country Afghanistan I have never met an ND, granted it's a very backward country

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

can i ask like why ur religious if god nerfed you?

A peace and security the world can’t give

 

[Van]

You don't have a mental illness. You just grew up in a stupid Western country.

unironically he might have something, for as long as I've known him he's been shizoposting

 

[tansel]

A peace and security the world can’t give

nice man

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

unironically he might have something, for as long as I've known him he's been shizoposting

My psychologist says I’m just making voices up so that I can schizophrenia diagnosed. I do gotta say I took inspiration from psychosis ppl but yeah I don t know. I’m not schizo since schizos don’t question the realness of their voices

 

[Lefty Rankin]

kind of true, in my country Afghanistan I have never met an ND, granted it's a very backward country

It's not backward. Modern Western society is backward. Just because most people believe it's backward doesn't mean that's the truth. The entire world can surely be wrong about something.

I've spent almost a decade teaching thousands of children in mainland China and have never heard of ADHD there. Never heard of anyone going to "therapy" or experiencing "post pardum depression" either.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

unironically he might have something, for as long as I've known him he's been shizoposting

Nah, he just needs a good old fashioned ass whooping to tune him up.

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

It's not backward. Modern Western society is backward. Just because most people believe it's backward doesn't mean that's the truth. The entire world can surely be wrong about something.

I've spent almost a decade teaching thousands of children in mainland China and have never heard of ADHD there. Never heard of anyone going to "therapy" or experiencing "post pardum depression" either.

China is ropefuel

 

[Lefty Rankin]

China is ropefuel

Not really. I wouldn't mind being from there.

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Nah, he just needs a good old fashioned ass whooping to tune him up.

Are parents legally allowed to hit their child until they get bruises?

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Not really. I wouldn't mind being from there.

I would mind. Everything that isn’t Europe is shit imo

 

[Van]

My psychologist says I’m just making voices up so that I can schizophrenia diagnosed. I do gotta say I took inspiration from psychosis ppl but yeah I don t know. I’m not schizo since schizos don’t question the realness of their voices

Im not saying that you have schizophrenia, but your posts have that feature. Maybe you're little artistic

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Are parents legally allowed to hit their child until they get bruises?

Who cares? How the fuck's anyone gonna know?

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Im not saying that you have schizophrenia, but your posts have that feature. Maybe you're little artistic

Okay

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Who cares? How the fuck's anyone gonna know?

Reputation I don’t know man

 

[Van]

It's not backward. Modern Western society is backward. Just because most people believe it's backward doesn't mean that's the truth. The entire world can surely be wrong about something.

I've spent almost a decade teaching thousands of children in mainland China and have never heard of ADHD there. Never heard of anyone going to "therapy" or experiencing "post pardum depression" either.

I get what you're saying but also there's so much wrong with their societies. And Im not talking politics, just look at beauty standards and obsessions over retarded shit they have. They are antisocial society in general, at least the younger generation.

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Who cares? How the fuck's anyone gonna know?

Parents can’t hit child’s in most European countries I searched it up

 

[Gobnull]

It's not backward. Modern Western society is backward. Just because most people believe it's backward doesn't mean that's the truth. The entire world can surely be wrong about something.

It is backward because of the extreme lack of facilities. Otherwise it's a good country to live in.

I've spent almost a decade teaching thousands of children in mainland China and have never heard of ADHD there. Never heard of anyone going to "therapy" or experiencing "post pardum depression" either.

Mirin for ur work.
I myself who have been raised in this country, don't have deep trauma. even though there was literal war in our town and currently that i'm writing this, they are shooting some Pakistani jet. These western problems seem very far away

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Reputation I don’t know man

You should never care about social/societal pressure. Especially after having kids.

I don't give a flying fuck about looking like a good parent. The entire world can go straight to hell for all I care. I care about actually being a good parent.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

It is backward because of the extreme lack of facilities. Otherwise it's a good country to live in.

Mirin for ur work.
I myself who have been raised in this country, don't have deep trauma. even though there was literal war in our town and currently that i'm writing this, they are shooting some Pakistani jet. These western problems seem very far away

Comfort and amenities are a disease from what I've gathered. I'll give up all the comfort in the world for freedom and practicality.

When people are too comfortable, like in Western countries, they create problems that don't really exist. And for a society, fake problems are far more dangerous than real problems.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Parents can’t hit child’s in most European countries I searched it up

How is anybody gonna know?

 

[Brava]

Why have sex now?
Also just money maxx kids won’t be a problem if you are rich. I’m playing rise of nations right now lol

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

@Lefty Rankin so in ur opinion schizophrenic ppl just need a beating and then their voices disappear?

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

How is anybody gonna know?

The blood and then bruises and the cuts on the body?

 

[Gobnull]

When people are too comfortable, like in Western countries, they create problems that don't really exist. And for a society, fake problems are far more dangerous than real problems.

agreed

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Why have sex now?
Also just money maxx kids won’t be a problem if you are rich. I’m playing rise of nations right now lol

Wtf ur Giga iq nigga. If I really get an ND child imma just buy some woman that takes care of him

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

The blood and then bruises and the cuts on the body?

@Lefty Rankin so in ur opinion schizophrenic ppl just need a beating and then their voices disappear?

@Lefty Rankin answer or silent cuz u don’t know what to say?

 

[MumbaiFoidSlayer]

Im Orthodox as well idk train ur pull out game if u get a wife and if you fuck up ur gonna have to take care of a nd kid for 18 years lmao

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Im Orthodox as well idk train ur pull out game if u get a wife and if you fuck up ur gonna have to take care of a nd kid for 18 years lmao

I’d stay a virgin than having a replica of me

 

[MumbaiFoidSlayer]

I’d stay a virgin than having a replica of me

I got diagnosed with adhd as a baby they told my mom either i take meds or i stay nd for the rest of my life she didnt give me meds which im thankful for but my kid if i have one is prolly gonna be the same

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

I got diagnosed with adhd as a baby they told my mom either i take meds or i stay nd for the rest of my life she didnt give me meds which im thankful for but my kid if i have one is prolly gonna be the same

But didn’t u get despised by society whilst being nd???

 

[Lefty Rankin]

@Lefty Rankin answer or silent cuz u don’t know what to say?

Find a woman who's full time mother material, and not some worthless career chasing bitch. I have a 4 year old and my wife doesn't work. She only takes care of our son and me. Having a child has never been an annoyance, and I have a very low tolerance for irritation.

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Find a woman who's full time mother material, and not some worthless career chasing bitch. I have a 4 year old and my wife doesn't work. She only takes care of our son and me. Having a child has never been an annoyance, and I have a very low tolerance for irritation.

Whaaattt the fuckkk who said that I need to take care of that fucker

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Find a woman who's full time mother material, and not some worthless career chasing bitch. I have a 4 year old and my wife doesn't work. She only takes care of our son and me. Having a child has never been an annoyance, and I have a very low tolerance for irritation.

Do u sleep at night? Like the screaming isn’t it annoying?

 

[MumbaiFoidSlayer]

But didn’t u get despised by society whilst being nd???

Nope when i was younger it was obivous i was nd i was acting like a retard now that im older and stopped craving for attention from retards i couldnt care less abt no one notices + i havent told anyone

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Whaaattt the fuckkk who said that I need to take care of that fucker

My wife does all the child rearing and housework. Of course I'm instrumental in teaching him how to be a man, and playing with him here and there, but that's a joyful thing.

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Nope when i was younger it was obivous i was nd i was acting like a retard now that im older and stopped craving for attention from retards i couldnt care less abt no one notices + i havent told anyone

No like my question is if people talked to u?

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Do u sleep at night? Like the screaming isn’t it annoying?

She keeps him quiet, and he doesn't want to see Daddy get pissed. For the first 6 months she only slept in a chair, in a separate room from me, holding him. She didn't sleep in a bed and he never slept in a crib. Yes, I sleep very well.