@xangsane we need to have an intervention

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

How long will it take me to see the benefit? Whenever I do nofap, I become very restless and feel some sort of inner turmoil and become angry at the world and myself for my lack of success with womens

Tbh my issue is similar to his, I’m too kind, the last foid I was speaking 2 told me “your a great guy you really are but” it’s fucking over when a foid says this just fucking over completely fucking Ovr some of us were not made to be cunts @Xangsane is one such dude. Though I’m not as fucked as him

xang like me is too pure for western women, he needs a nice third world woman who was raised traditionally and who isn’t courrpted by the taint of Chaos that is the west. She will give him “true love” and will be good for him

 

[whiteissuperior]

which guy, your friend? Link please?

Tyrone Spits out the blue pill after Stacy tells him the TRUTH [ultimate black pill story, redpill debunked GTFIH]

My core friend group is a trio, with this these three ppl. We are all black Me - 6'2", lanklet, 3.75-4 psl face, (normie halo'd by height) darkskin B - 5'8", 4 psl, gymcel, chubbyish, baby faced with small frame (natty lifting is cope) (low tier normie, failo'd by height) darksin C - 5'11"...

looksmax.org

 

[the BULL]

2022 and niggas here still talking about personality, falling for larps
You like xangsane because you want to think you're mentalcels too Deep Down your heart

 

[Xangsane]

There’s obviously a line bro, but being afraid to say no, believing everything she says, letting her in control. All that shit is cucked.

If your gf was going around and being a bitch to a guy and slapped him, and the guy hit her back. You’d be a cuck if you’re not telling your gf to calm down and diffuse the fight.

I would never let her be in total control, but at the same time I don't want to hold her on a leash. She also should be able to make her own decisions.

In that case you described, I'd pull her into a corner and tell her what she did was unacceptable, force her to apologise to the guy and force her out of the room/zone with me.

I'd then ask her to talk it out with me, explain why she did what she did and apologise to me, making sure it doesn't happen ever again.

 

[Xangsane]

Tyrone Spits out the blue pill after Stacy tells him the TRUTH [ultimate black pill story, redpill debunked GTFIH]

My core friend group is a trio, with this these three ppl. We are all black Me - 6'2", lanklet, 3.75-4 psl face, (normie halo'd by height) darkskin B - 5'8", 4 psl, gymcel, chubbyish, baby faced with small frame (natty lifting is cope) (low tier normie, failo'd by height) darksin C - 5'11"...

looksmax.org

Thank you for the link!

 

[Sigmamale]

That's what I honestly fear the most. How could I detect a larper from a true HQNP woman?

Idk myself brother it is one of my greatest fears in life as well.

 

[Xangsane]

Idk myself brother it is one of my greatest fears in life as well.

What would you do in this situation?

I would never let her be in total control, but at the same time I don't want to hold her on a leash. She also should be able to make her own decisions.

In that case you described, I'd pull her into a corner and tell her what she did was unacceptable, force her to apologise to the guy and force her out of the room/zone with me.

I'd then ask her to talk it out with me, explain why she did what she did and apologise to me, making sure it doesn't happen ever again.

 

[the BULL]

Thank you for the link!

!

 

[Xangsane]

Tyrone Spits out the blue pill after Stacy tells him the TRUTH [ultimate black pill story, redpill debunked GTFIH]

My core friend group is a trio, with this these three ppl. We are all black Me - 6'2", lanklet, 3.75-4 psl face, (normie halo'd by height) darkskin B - 5'8", 4 psl, gymcel, chubbyish, baby faced with small frame (natty lifting is cope) (low tier normie, failo'd by height) darksin C - 5'11"...

looksmax.org

Just read that story. I think I might have been used good fashion like the black foid in your story by my half Indian ex gf.
She loved rough sex.

 

[Sigmamale]

What would you do in this situation?

If she slapped a guy?

 

[Xangsane]

If she slapped a guy?

Yes

 

[Sigmamale]

Yes

If I thought she was in the right and he slapped her I would try to beat him. If she was in the wrong I would have to scold her publicly tbh and still try to beat the guy to not look cucked.

 

[Xangsane]

If I thought she was in the right and he slapped her I would try to beat him. If she was in the wrong I would have to scold her publicly tbh and still try to beat the guy to not look cucked.

This sounds like a brilliant idea, well done!

 

[exeight]

I think he does not need to act more masc if it is not in his nature. Plus he is already more vigilant about people taking advantage of him. If he doesn't let anyone take advantage of him he doesn't have to take advantage of others if it is not in his nature to be dark triad.

I think he should have hardcore anal sex with @FailedNormieManlet

 

[TopzCat1]

Just inject tren theory

I’m on that now im
Low inhib as fuck

 

[poopmaster22]

Quit giving him ideas I’m trying to dom him in bed(no homo)

 

[Chadethnic101]

@Xangsane bro I like you, but you got 4 fingers shoved in your ass, your mother took bbc, you believe in true love, got fucked over by some alt whore and truthfully bro.

MOST OF YOUR PROBLEMS ARE CAUSED BY YOU.

You are too much of a “nice guy” and think being moral and nice is enough when in reality the universe isn’t just, life is unfair and morals can only you get you so far

Read no more nice guy, become more dark triad and abandon your current ideas of morality. Allow the misogyny to flow through your veins.

Nigga you literally cried and whimpered during sex because your gf bit your lip too hard.
HOW MUCH OF YOUR BEHAVIOUR WAS MASCULINE? You behaved like a feminine bitch, you got dominated by your gf and now look at you.

Nigga START ACTING MORE MASCULINE

Wow his mother admitted to dating different men and fucking a black guy?

Damn maybe I should've been about when his mum was younger, @Xangsane could've been my son, and I'd of turned you into a high T ethnic beast ngl

 

[Chadethnic101]

I couldn't look at my mum same way if I found out she fucked other men ngl

I wouldn't wanna know that shit weird man

 

[Xangsane]

Wow his mother admitted to dating different men and fucking a black guy?

Damn maybe I should've been about when his mum was younger, @Xangsane could've been my son, and I'd of turned you into a high T ethnic beast ngl

She did date him yes
What's wrong with dating black people?

 

[Chadethnic101]

She did date him yes
What's wrong with dating black people?

Nothing but just a weird thing to tell your son jfl

Why would you wanna know?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Nothing but just a weird thing to tell your son jfl

Why would you wanna know?

he is bluepilled and can't deviate away from the approved morals of society

 

[Chadethnic101]

he is bluepilled and can't deviate away from the approved morals of society

Yeah I suppose true, unfortunately as you said irl being too nice is a recipe for disaster

Yeah it's cool to be a fun cool good guy, but when you identify people trying to fuck you over etc you don't let that shit slide either call them out or cut them out your life

He has a big ceiling but as long as he's happy it's fine I guess

Like bro o ly now in later 20s I'm hitting my potential, been practically incel throughout due to shit logistics and family despite being NT etc

 

[Xangsane]

Yeah I suppose true, unfortunately as you said irl being too nice is a recipe for disaster

Yeah it's cool to be a fun cool good guy, but when you identify people trying to fuck you over etc you don't let that shit slide either call them out or cut them out your life

He has a big ceiling but as long as he's happy it's fine I guess

Like bro o ly now in later 20s I'm hitting my potential, been practically incel throughout due to shit logistics and family despite being NT etc

Big ceiling?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Yeah I suppose true, unfortunately as you said irl being too nice is a recipe for disaster

Yeah it's cool to be a fun cool good guy, but when you identify people trying to fuck you over etc you don't let that shit slide either call them out or cut them out your life

He has a big ceiling but as long as he's happy it's fine I guess

Like bro o ly now in later 20s I'm hitting my potential, been practically incel throughout due to shit logistics and family despite being NT etc

Do you have any pics of you when you were my age? I'm hoping when I get older I start looking better

 

[Chadethnic101]

Big ceiling?

Big potential to do well in relationships slaying etc

 

[Chadethnic101]

Do you have any pics of you when you were my age? I'm hoping when I get older I start looking better

I did on my phone that broke but think I actually PM'd someone a younger pic ages ago I'll dig it up

 

[Xangsane]

Big potential to do well in relationships slaying etc

Oh I don't do slaying.

 

[Chadethnic101]

Oh I don't do slaying.

Relationships then with a hot cool girls they fuck you over because they cause turmoil and you don't know how to deal with it

You should study redpill ngl

 

[Xangsane]

Relationships then with a hot cool girls they fuck you over because they cause turmoil and you don't know how to deal with it

You should study redpill ngl

I don't like redpill...

 

[LightSkinNoob]

True love exists for him as he is a chadlite, there is no true love for your height and race boyo

 

[Deleted member 15674]

I did on my phone that broke but think I actually PM'd someone a younger pic ages ago I'll dig it up

thanks man, I am curious how you looked

 

[Dodld]

I don't like redpill...

How religious are you @Xangsane?

 

[Xangsane]

How religious are you @Xangsane?

Moderately I'd say.

 

[Sociobiology]

you believe in true love

high T

 

[Deleted member 9801]

He's too pure for this world

I wish a tradstacy finds him and starts dating him, despite the fact that he acts like a bitch/cuck.

True, he’s a gentle soul

I’m rooting for this nigga @Xangsane

 

[Xangsane]

True, he’s a gentle soul

I’m rooting for this nigga @Xangsane

Thank you!

 

[Dodld]

Moderately I'd say.

It seems to me like your problems would be solved by going the more islamic route (Muzmatch, whatsapp, mosque and marriage etc.), looks like you'd more likely be able to find the girl you're looking for there - [Committed/Kind/Attractive/Shy/Intelligent] if that's what you're looking for. These women will generally not larps as HQNP and will usually be the real deal.

Hear me out

You must get married though since girls like these are no sex before marriage.
Regarding her religiousness you should aim to match that too.
They would likely have a problem with the virginity thing though, if you show change in religiousness then this could be circumvented

And it wouldn't take too long to find someone since you're hella good looking and becoming a future doctor, legit dream son in law

Two birds with one stone imo. You'd solve your girl problems and become and you become a stronger muslim and you would be able to develop true love with her Insha Allah.

No pressure boyo but what do you think?


Also if what others are saying in here is true then yeah you should also focus on being a bit more aware, assertive and dominant (not aggressive or dark triad jfl), this will help as you as you will be the head of the household in an Islamic marriage and sometime you gotta be assertive, plus, I doubt most religious women would be trying to take advantage of you or manipulate you. Still also be your soft and caring self of course this is not a bad thing at all , in fact it a good thing and will be for your marriage.

 

[Xangsane]

It seems to me like your problems would be solved by going the more islamic route (Muzmatch, whatsapp, mosque and marriage etc.), looks like you'd more likely be able to find the girl you're looking for there - [Committed/Kind/Attractive/Shy/Intelligent] if that's what you're looking for. These women will generally not larps as HQNP and will usually be the real deal.

That's what I'm thinking of doing. My way of life vs the typical UK girl's way of life (of any ethnicity) are polar opposites to one another, and I'm worried about uncertainties on the stability of our marriage/relationship if I date a girl outside the muslim route. Just like what happened with the other girl I was with, who was from a Muslim background (half indian half white) but actually lived with her white single mother.

At the moment how small would you say my dating pool is and if I go down this route how much smaller would it become?

You must get married though since girls like these are no sex before marriage.
Regarding her religiousness you should aim to match that too.
They would likely have a problem with the virginity thing though, if you show change in religiousness then this could be circumvented

I'm completely happy to do that. I would never want to pressure a girl into sex if she doesn't want to. Would these girls be extremely religious and usually not from the uk? At the moment I'm moderately religious (just pray on Fridays, I don't drink or smoke, or eat pork) but I won't mind becoming even more religious to suit her needs

Virginity? I only have a laycount of 1, and I don't intend to increase it anytime soon. That laycount was with a girl (half indian, half white girl from a Muslim background) who lived with a single mother (lied about coming from a strict loving Muslim family - in fact she never let me visit hers!) and larped as HQNP. I thought she was the real deal because I was so blinded by her. I tried for an LTR with her by giving her everything I can but it was unsuccessful when I unfurled red flag after red flag after becoming official. How bad is this dating history?

And it wouldn't take too long to find someone since you're hella good looking and becoming a future doctor, legit dream son in law

Two birds with one stone imo. You'd solve your girl problems and become and you become a stronger muslim and you would be able to develop true love with her Insha Allah.

No pressure boyo but what do you think?

Thank you! I'm hoping to become a paediatric surgeon. I'll be in my early 30s once I'm properly qualified to do so!
I think this sounds like a great idea. I asked my dad about this and he told me if I remain volcel for now and go down the muslim route, I could be married pretty quickly, hence a shorter time taken to "date".

Also if what others are saying in here is true then yeah you should also focus on being a bit more aware, assertive and dominant (not aggressive or dark triad jfl), this will help as you as you will be the head of the household in an Islamic marriage and sometime you gotta be assertive, plus, I doubt most religious women would be trying to take advantage of you or manipulate you. Still also be your soft and caring self of course this is not a bad thing at all , in fact it a good thing and will be for your marriage.

I'd actually like my future wife and me to have an equal share in responsibilities, because cooperation is key to making a stronger relationship than dominance. I do know that I need to be more assertive though, and my dad's been giving me some pretty solid advice on this matter (without being a dark triad psycho - that would not only feel unnatural but it's not good for long term stuff).

 

[Dodld]

Sorry for replying late Ive been a lazycel

At the moment how small would you say my dating pool is and if I go down this route how much smaller would it become?

Your dating pool will go down obviously but nothing will change since there's plenty of muslims in the uk plus you can use apps/dating sites for worldwide reach

I'm completely happy to do that. I would never want to pressure a girl into sex if she doesn't want to. Would these girls be extremely religious and usually not from the uk? At the moment I'm moderately religious (just pray on Fridays, I don't drink or smoke, or eat pork) but I won't mind becoming even more religious to suit her needs

No worries there are plenty of religious girls in the uk

Virginity? I only have a laycount of 1, and I don't intend to increase it anytime soon.

By this I mean, religious girls will have a problem that you've had sex out of marriage (since its prohibited) and it might be a dealbreaker. Not virginity necessarily, my mistake.

But if you show/explain that you have changed then they might be fine with it.

That laycount was with a girl (half indian, half white girl from a Muslim background) who lived with a single mother (lied about coming from a strict loving Muslim family - in fact she never let me visit hers!) and larped as HQNP. I thought she was the real deal because I was so blinded by her. I tried for an LTR with her by giving her everything I can but it was unsuccessful when I unfurled red flag after red flag after becoming official. How bad is this dating history?

Not bad at all honestly, this is because you were not the cause of this and you were manipulated.

Thank you! I'm hoping to become a paediatric surgeon. I'll be in my early 30s once I'm properly qualified to do so!
I think this sounds like a great idea. I asked my dad about this and he told me if I remain volcel for now and go down the muslim route, I could be married pretty quickly, hence a shorter time taken to "date".

Proper

I'd actually like my future wife and me to have an equal share in responsibilities, because cooperation is key to making a stronger relationship than dominance. I do know that I need to be more assertive though, and my dad's been giving me some pretty solid advice on this matter (without being a dark triad psycho - that would not only feel unnatural but it's not good for long term stuff).

You have a caring dad btw!!

Cooperation is definitely a strong factor to a happy marriage and a happy wife, i guess to better say it, i meant that, you are given the role as the head of the house in islam so sometimes when you take that role on , assertiveness will be required. Dominant might not be the appropriate word to use here tbh.

 

[Dodld]

That's what I'm thinking of doing. My way of life vs the typical UK girl's way of life (of any ethnicity) are polar opposites to one another, and I'm worried about uncertainties on the stability of our marriage/relationship if I date a girl outside the muslim route. Just like what happened with the other girl I was with, who was from a Muslim background (half indian half white) but actually lived with her white single mother.

At the moment how small would you say my dating pool is and if I go down this route how much smaller would it become?


I'm completely happy to do that. I would never want to pressure a girl into sex if she doesn't want to. Would these girls be extremely religious and usually not from the uk? At the moment I'm moderately religious (just pray on Fridays, I don't drink or smoke, or eat pork) but I won't mind becoming even more religious to suit her needs

Virginity? I only have a laycount of 1, and I don't intend to increase it anytime soon. That laycount was with a girl (half indian, half white girl from a Muslim background) who lived with a single mother (lied about coming from a strict loving Muslim family - in fact she never let me visit hers!) and larped as HQNP. I thought she was the real deal because I was so blinded by her. I tried for an LTR with her by giving her everything I can but it was unsuccessful when I unfurled red flag after red flag after becoming official. How bad is this dating history?


Thank you! I'm hoping to become a paediatric surgeon. I'll be in my early 30s once I'm properly qualified to do so!
I think this sounds like a great idea. I asked my dad about this and he told me if I remain volcel for now and go down the muslim route, I could be married pretty quickly, hence a shorter time taken to "date".


I'd actually like my future wife and me to have an equal share in responsibilities, because cooperation is key to making a stronger relationship than dominance. I do know that I need to be more assertive though, and my dad's been giving me some pretty solid advice on this matter (without being a dark triad psycho - that would not only feel unnatural but it's not good for long term stuff).

Update:
Regarding where we are talking about you and getting married. and how girls would have a problem that your not a virgin

I was wrong in assuming that you would have to reveal that you're not a virgin if a potential spouse asked. I'll link the islam qna article

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/137...virginity-or-should-she-cancel-the-engagement

 

[Xangsane]

Sorry for replying late Ive been a lazycel

No need to worry.

Your dating pool will go down obviously but nothing will change since there's plenty of muslims in the uk plus you can use apps/dating sites for worldwide reach

No worries there are plenty of religious girls in the uk

The majority of Muslims here are South Asian, and most women within this demographic I'm not open to dating (only Pakistanis, Pashtuns, Indo Caribbeans (if mixed with black or some other race) should be fine). I'm happy with MENA/Black Muslims.
Though I am fine with marrying my own kind (Levantine Arab) I actually prefer darker skin and therefore more mixed-looking children, hence I prefer Gulf Arabs, mulattas, Blasians, etc. I like Central Asians, Latinas and hapas too. There's just something about very light skin on women that puts me off (including fake tanned skin).

By this I mean, religious girls will have a problem that you've had sex out of marriage (since its prohibited) and it might be a dealbreaker. Not virginity necessarily, my mistake.
But if you show/explain that you have changed then they might be fine with it.

I've been told by my dad to own up right away, the circumstances of why it happened, and that I repented and had no sexual relationships after that girl.
He said 1 lay is better than 40 lays if I want to not be dismissed by a woman who is religious or with high moral standards.

not bad at all honestly, this is because you were not the cause of this and you were manipulated.

Yes this; I was told to explain to her that this was the cause of me having sex outside of marriage (and to stress that I only slept with one girl).
He told me only do halal dating from now on.

You have a caring dad btw!!
Cooperation is definitely a strong factor to a happy marriage and a happy wife, i guess to better say it, i meant that, you are given the role as the head of the house in islam so sometimes when you take that role on , assertiveness will be required. Dominant might not be the appropriate word to use here tbh.

Thank you!
I'd prefer it if she shared responsibilities with me and we'd help each other out from time to time.
Noted the thing about assertiveness; no woman wants to be around a cuck.

Update:
Regarding where we are talking about you and getting married. and how girls would have a problem that your not a virgin

I was wrong in assuming that you would have to reveal that you're not a virgin if a potential spouse asked. I'll link the islam qna article

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/137...virginity-or-should-she-cancel-the-engagement

Thank you for the link. I'll tell you in DMs what I think.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I didn’t realise he cried during sex- that’s utterly repulsive to women.

Even at his looks level he will not get away with such behaviour

And I’m a stern advocate of looks>behaviour

 

[Xangsane]

I didn’t realise he cried during sex- that’s utterly repulsive to women.

Even at his looks level he will not get away with such behaviour

And I’m a stern advocate of looks>behaviour

I guess that's what happens if one is starved of love and affection.