Yeah my mom will have dementia in 5 years

[IronMike]

not just black men
having a succsesfull marige in today society is almost imposible for both men and women
white, black, asian dosent matter

In my friend group, older Gen X parents (55+) who are divorced are all black

 

[austrianpsycho]

In my friend group, older Gen X parents (55+) who are divorced are all black

might be a US thing idk
in austria the race dosent matter like 50% of couples officially divorced and 30% of the ones that dont divorce quietly hate eachother

 

[larptilldeath]

60 years old, already mixing me and my brothers name up, paranoid that people are stalking her, afraid to use the phone and just texts, divorced my dad at 59 because she thought he was hiding stuff that she just misplaced.....enjoy your parents while they are here.

hoping the best for her bro

 

[Qeiea]

Assisted Living is much better than nursing homes, but they cost a fortune. Destroying your finances to make parents who never prepared more comfortable is not something I would do.

Luckily my folks have pensions and 401ks so it likely wont be an issue but my grandma (born in 1938, and African American) was

World is just unfair to many. Good looking out by your parents and they hopefully won't end up in the same situation