Ritalincel
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Dude, why is it so hard to not be gross?
We all been there, did stupid shit, make social missteps that blow our chances with the fairer sex. But you're supposed to learn from it.
I'm not Don cassanova by any stretch of the imagination, but I have had enough experience with women to know what mistakes to not make at the best of my experience. Especially online.
I'm not the type of guy who go out drinking to get laid. That works for some dudes, yes, but that's not my style.
I have had dates in real life, dated girls I met online and I even have girls who sexted with me. This is me with no online photo.
How? I'm not a douchebag.
The playing field is equal in that regard. I'm literally an avatar and people go by my words.
A couple of girls saw my comments and wanted to sext with me.
I don't initiate or creep into their DMs either (that's a hint, you don't ask for sext, they do)
I did ask why me, being curious. And the general response is that I don't come across as creepy or needy.
And I believe in that heart and soul. Women don't owe me anything and I don't expect anything. Even on the Internet where they can't see what I look like, my opinions and words alone speak give them an impression of my character.
My point? Even before girls see your physicality, they can get turned off by how you act. It's not all about being ugly or not.
This is getting too tl;dr but I have so many other observations niceguys and incels seem to do that put women off.
incels do you mind not trying to block up my DMs? They're kinda reserved for the ladies messaging me and it's ruining our vibes
We all been there, did stupid shit, make social missteps that blow our chances with the fairer sex. But you're supposed to learn from it.
I'm not Don cassanova by any stretch of the imagination, but I have had enough experience with women to know what mistakes to not make at the best of my experience. Especially online.
I'm not the type of guy who go out drinking to get laid. That works for some dudes, yes, but that's not my style.
I have had dates in real life, dated girls I met online and I even have girls who sexted with me. This is me with no online photo.
How? I'm not a douchebag.
The playing field is equal in that regard. I'm literally an avatar and people go by my words.
A couple of girls saw my comments and wanted to sext with me.
I don't initiate or creep into their DMs either (that's a hint, you don't ask for sext, they do)
I did ask why me, being curious. And the general response is that I don't come across as creepy or needy.
And I believe in that heart and soul. Women don't owe me anything and I don't expect anything. Even on the Internet where they can't see what I look like, my opinions and words alone speak give them an impression of my character.
My point? Even before girls see your physicality, they can get turned off by how you act. It's not all about being ugly or not.
This is getting too tl;dr but I have so many other observations niceguys and incels seem to do that put women off.
incels do you mind not trying to block up my DMs? They're kinda reserved for the ladies messaging me and it's ruining our vibes