you cant control ur thoughts, but you can control ur actions

[Juqss.]

you cant control ur thoughts, but you can control ur actions​

one thing i think ppl need to understand more:

you cant always control what thought pops into ur head. you CAN control what you do after it.

sometimes your brain just throws random shit at you. negative thoughts, insecurity, anger, jealousy, overthinking, whatever. having a thought doesnt automatically mean you agree with it or that it says something about who you are.

the important part is the response.

you can be angry without acting like an asshole.
you can feel insecure without letting it control your whole day.
you can have a bad thought without feeding it for hours.
you can feel like giving up on something and still choose to keep going.

dont waste all ur energy trying to make ur brain completely silent. thats impossible.

instead, learn to pause.

"i had the thought. now what am i gonna do?"

thats where you actually have control.

thoughts are automatic sometimes.
actions are where you have a choice.

dwbi if ur mind is messy sometimes, everyone has shit going on in their head. what matters is what you choose to do with it.

 

[hitmancrewzz]

You can't control your nut but you can control your penis

 

[tesertrue]

You can't control your nut but you can control your penis

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