You can't force things to happen

[Klasik616]

What I've learned through my tough experience with women is that I cannot force things to happen, no matter what I do or say, she doesn't want to be around me and the opportunities that life give me to be closer to women I like are non existent.

Nothing happens as I imagine, I have to take this idealism off my head. Even changing my mindset about women will be cope, I know this stuff is something that is ahead of me. It doesn't matter if you love or hate women or if you're pessimistic or optimistic about life. I've watched other men make the same steps I did but I didn't got what I wanted. I'm never good enough.

For women it's so easy. They can choose the man they want and will never be friendzoned or rejected, a man just has to come. Sadly I was never the one.

It's so over

 

[Deleted member 134910]

What do you look like?

 

[Klasik616]

What do you look like?

Not very good I must say, I try to cope with good angles but real life experiences don't give me confidence. Every time I tried to get with a woman I liked (not just by looks) I failed.

 

[Clqs]

This applies to everything in life, you just gotta let the Tao do its thing

 

[Klasik616]

This applies to everything in life, you just gotta let the Tao do its thing

What if I don't earn enough?

 

[Clqs]

What if I don't earn enough?

You just gotta pray to the universe for that promotion innit

Or cut unnecessary costs