You gotta be proactive if you want a better social life

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Too many users think that if they just looked better the whole wide world would open up to them and they'd get everything they want. Nothing could be further from the truth though. People won't like being around you just because you're hot or whatever. There's plenty of chads that don't have a lot of friends. You got a actually put in some work.

Take @shredded4summer for example. He mentioned in one of his threads how he gives his friends head whenever they get drunk and horny. He even lets them fuck him in the ass a little bit here and there. Because of this people always call him to be a wingman whenever they go out cause they know if they strike out at the club or whether they won't have to go home with blue balls. They always want to be around him.

You guys just gotta be more proactive. Looks are only half of the equation. They're not gonna take you all the damn way. Sure, it's easier to develop good social skills when you've always looked good because of the confidence factor, but without social skills to back them up you're still gonna find it difficult to be liked.
 
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Too many users think that if they just looked better the whole wide world would open up to them and they'd get everything they want. Nothing could be further from the truth though. People won't like being around you just because you're hot or whatever. There's plenty of chads that don't have a lot of friends. You got a actually put in some work.

Take @shredded4summer for example. He mentioned in one of his threads how he gives his friends head whenever they get drunk and horny. He even lets them fuck him in the ass a little bit here and there. Because of this people always call him to be a wingman whenever they go out cause they know if they strike out at the club or whether they won't have to go home with blue balls. They always want to be around him.

You guys just gotta be more proactive. Looks are only half of the equation. They're not gonna take you all the damn way. Sure, it's easier to develop good social skills when you've always looked good because of the confidence factor, but without social skills to back them up you're still gonna find it difficult to be liked.
what if you have crippling autism and adhd
 
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Too many users think that if they just looked better the whole wide world would open up to them and they'd get everything they want. Nothing could be further from the truth though. People won't like being around you just because you're hot or whatever. There's plenty of chads that don't have a lot of friends. You got a actually put in some work.

Take @shredded4summer for example. He mentioned in one of his threads how he gives his friends head whenever they get drunk and horny. He even lets them fuck him in the ass a little bit here and there. Because of this people always call him to be a wingman whenever they go out cause they know if they strike out at the club or whether they won't have to go home with blue balls. They always want to be around him.

You guys just gotta be more proactive. Looks are only half of the equation. They're not gonna take you all the damn way. Sure, it's easier to develop good social skills when you've always looked good because of the confidence factor, but without social skills to back them up you're still gonna find it difficult to be liked.
Normies make friends effortlessly, I suspect its the same with gfs. All the friends I made, it just happened naturaly, zero effort was needed. Perhaps if I put some effort I would have a better social life, esp after school. But I think it needs to pretty easy to socialize or something is wrong with you.
 
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Too many users think that if they just looked better the whole wide world would open up to them and they'd get everything they want. Nothing could be further from the truth though. People won't like being around you just because you're hot or whatever. There's plenty of chads that don't have a lot of friends. You got a actually put in some work.

Take @shredded4summer for example. He mentioned in one of his threads how he gives his friends head whenever they get drunk and horny. He even lets them fuck him in the ass a little bit here and there. Because of this people always call him to be a wingman whenever they go out cause they know if they strike out at the club or whether they won't have to go home with blue balls. They always want to be around him.

You guys just gotta be more proactive. Looks are only half of the equation. They're not gonna take you all the damn way. Sure, it's easier to develop good social skills when you've always looked good because of the confidence factor, but without social skills to back them up you're still gonna find it difficult to be liked.
Your advise falls on deaf ears here.
The classic response from our resident 15 year olds is “Chad doesn’t try so why should I?”
 
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Too many users think that if they just looked better the whole wide world would open up to them and they'd get everything they want. Nothing could be further from the truth though. People won't like being around you just because you're hot or whatever. There's plenty of chads that don't have a lot of friends. You got a actually put in some work.

Take @shredded4summer for example. He mentioned in one of his threads how he gives his friends head whenever they get drunk and horny. He even lets them fuck him in the ass a little bit here and there. Because of this people always call him to be a wingman whenever they go out cause they know if they strike out at the club or whether they won't have to go home with blue balls. They always want to be around him.

You guys just gotta be more proactive. Looks are only half of the equation. They're not gonna take you all the damn way. Sure, it's easier to develop good social skills when you've always looked good because of the confidence factor, but without social skills to back them up you're still gonna find it difficult to be liked.
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mfs really dumb as shit 💔💔💔💔
"ADHD" was just invented as an excuse to drug young boys and make them less uninhibited, as well as a means for big pharma to make a whole lot of money. It's pure bullshit.
 
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Too many users think that if they just looked better the whole wide world would open up to them and they'd get everything they want. Nothing could be further from the truth though. People won't like being around you just because you're hot or whatever. There's plenty of chads that don't have a lot of friends. You got a actually put in some work.

Take @shredded4summer for example. He mentioned in one of his threads how he gives his friends head whenever they get drunk and horny. He even lets them fuck him in the ass a little bit here and there. Because of this people always call him to be a wingman whenever they go out cause they know if they strike out at the club or whether they won't have to go home with blue balls. They always want to be around him.

You guys just gotta be more proactive. Looks are only half of the equation. They're not gonna take you all the damn way. Sure, it's easier to develop good social skills when you've always looked good because of the confidence factor, but without social skills to back them up you're still gonna find it difficult to be liked.
What if ur acoustic
 
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I dont want to have friends i wanna be a mog machine that make pussy wets of the htb
Pussies will dry up real fast when they see you're like a deer in the headlights. You're still gonna have to lead her at some point without worrying about whether or not you're doing the right thing. Doesn't matter how hot you are.
 
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I know a normie (by normie I mean average looking guy who goes out and have friends) who was always fat and balding. He has average social skills. At 30 he got 2 or 3 HTs, has full head of hair and lost plenty of weight now. Lucky for him, he had decent bones under the fat. I would call him 7/10. He just opens tinder with plenty of hot sluts thirsting over him. Some of them are in their late teens, while most of them in early 20s so 10+ years younger than him. I know him for 15 years and guess what? He fucks hot sluts without being social god. He is just normal guy like 95% of people. He can't even flirt tbh. It is all looks and you are coping, my man. Just don't be retarded, so don't be 1% theory. You pick retards who can't talk and build your dumbass arguments on that.
 
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I know a normie (by normie I mean average looking guy who goes out and have friends) who was always fat and balding. He has average social skills. At 30 he got 2 or 3 HTs, has full head of hair and lost plenty of weight now. Lucky for him, he had decent bones under the fat. I would call him 7/10. He just opens tinder with plenty of hot sluts thirsting over him. Some of them are in their late teens, while most of them in early 20s so 10+ years younger than him. I know him for 15 years and guess what? He fucks hot sluts without being social god. He is just normal guy like 95% of people. He can't even flirt tbh. It is all looks and you are coping, my man. Just don't be retarded, so don't be 1% theory. You pick retards who can't talk and build your dumbass arguments on that.
That's what I mean. Being a Chad won't help you much if you're a retard who can't talk.
 
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It's definitely true. I'm at the point where, regardless of how attractive I actually am, I'm at least attractive enough for people to comment on it. Still, making friends and getting girls is hard. Even when they approach and make it easy for me, I don't know how to act like a normie. I don't know how to "initiate" a new friendship or romantic relationship. That sort of awkwardness and high inhib seems to be the biggest turn off for women, and it even turns off other men too (from wanting to be your friend). Basically low inhib is law and nothing else even comes close. Zero inhib LTN will slay more than extreme inhib chad it's no joke bro.
 
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It's definitely true. I'm at the point where, regardless of how attractive I actually am, I'm at least attractive enough for people to comment on it. Still, making friends and getting girls is hard. Even when they approach and make it easy for me, I don't know how to act like a normie. I don't know how to "initiate" a new friendship or romantic relationship. That sort of awkwardness and high inhib seems to be the biggest turn off for women, and it even turns off other men too (from wanting to be your friend). Basically low inhib is law and nothing else even comes close. Zero inhib LTN will slay more than extreme inhib chad it's no joke bro.
You still gotta be clever though. Low inhib and clever.
 

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