You guys confuse lacking social skills due to social isolation and asperger's syndrome

[alriodai]

Had a friend with truly diagnosed asperger's syndrome (his parents told me)

Bro was fucking retarded, like super slow, not even non NT, (I'M TALKING SOCIALLY WISE W PEOPLE) worse than that, he didn't understand anything socially

None of you guys are like that I promise, you guys just lack social skills cause yall dont talk to IRL ppl everyday and girls

 

[Deleted member 21863]

Thx for reassurance cheers bhai

 

[alriodai]

Thx for reassurance cheers bhai

love u bhai (no homo ofc, friends love!)

 

[wristcel]

This is somewhat true I think.

I know that it's been common to accuse each other of being an autist and stuff on here since forever, and most believe they have it, but I also have a friend who legit is autistic or aspie or whatever, and he's completely fucked. Like, he can't go 2 seconds without coming off as strange and people can see he's not quite right before they've even spoke to him pretty much. Can't spot when someone is joking or being sarcastic. Can't tell when someone is bored etc. I imagine you'd even be able to spot it in his writing. Not like everyone here who gets called an aspie. As you say, probably nobody is really like that here

Most here (including me to some extent at least, although i can fake it good enough to get laid from cold approach sometimes so presumably i'm not that bad) are just socially awkward and shy, and maybe have social anxiety etc. Exacerbated by social isolation and stuff. Presumably somewhat fixable tbh

 

[alriodai]

This is somewhat true I think.

I know that it's been common to accuse each other of being an autist and stuff on here since forever, and most believe they have it, but I also have a friend who legit is autistic or aspie or whatever, and he's completely fucked. Like, he can't go 2 seconds without coming off as strange and people can see he's not quite right before they've even spoke to him pretty much. Can't spot when someone is joking or being sarcastic. Can't tell when someone is bored etc. I imagine you'd even be able to spot it in his writing. Not like everyone here who gets called an aspie. As you say, probably nobody is really like that here

Most here (including me to some extent at least, although i can fake it good enough to get laid from cold approach sometimes so presumably i'm not that bad) are just socially awkward and shy, and maybe have social anxiety etc. Exacerbated by social isolation and stuff. Presumably somewhat fixable tbh

It's easily fixable for most of the ppl in the forum lol
They're super insecure about their looks in the first place, and none of them are that ugly to be rejected that hard by BASIC FRIENDS AND GUYS (not girls)

They just need to train it

 

[gtuktm]

It's easily fixable for most of the ppl in the forum lol
They're super insecure about their looks in the first place, and none of them are that ugly to be rejected that hard by BASIC FRIENDS AND GUYS (not girls)

They just need to train it

bro i cant socialize they talk about stuff i dont know about like dropshipping and vape flavours

 

[alriodai]

bro i cant socialize they talk about stuff i dont know about like dropshipping and vape flavours

then they're not your group of friend or not your crowd

find other ppl that share simliar interests

 

[Deleted member 1209]

I’m probably on the spectrum. I struggle with eye contact, find basic small talk draining and look angry/upset for no reason sometimes

 

[gtuktm]

then they're not your group of friend or not your crowd

find other ppl that share simliar interests

my crowd is on here jfl