You have to luck out and meet decent girls in highschool or early in college

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If you dont have a social circle with girls in it by 18, its over. You will never get laid, you will have to rely on cold approaching and dating apps, which does NOT work if you are not good looking.

Take me for example: even if i got a job, even if i was more successuful, the only people i would meet from work are MEN and maybe 1 woman or two. I will have to go on dating apps because its only way to meet women without a circle. And ofc, i wll get ghosted again again and again because im NOT attractive.

Its a vicious cycle and the only escape is to STOP trying because it will NEVER happen. Happiness is NOT for everyone in this life and it is completely out of your control.
 
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Water.
 
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If you dont have a social circle with girls in it by 18, its over. You will never get laid, you will have to rely on cold approaching and dating apps, which does NOT work if you are not good looking.

Take me for example: even if i got a job, even if i was more successuful, the only people i would meet from work are MEN and maybe 1 woman or two. I will have to go on dating apps because its only way to meet women without a circle. And ofc, i wll get ghosted again again and again because im NOT attractive.

Its a vicious cycle and the only escape is to STOP trying because it will NEVER happen. Happiness is NOT for everyone in this life and it is completely out of your control.
Not true
 
It's so over for me then 😢
 
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That’s pointless if you’re Truecel too
 
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Bro no offense but this is retarded. If you hustle in your teens and early twenties, you can be set up for a good life in your mid/late twenties and beyond.

Life doesn’t end on your 30th birthday. I’m not saying it sucks not to be popular and slay as a teenager. Yeah we missed out on major life milestones. Sucks to be us, is what it is. But don’t fall into the trap of thinking that was your only chance to be happy.
 
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i know
 
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Bro no offense but this is retarded. If you hustle in your teens and early twenties, you can be set up for a good life in your mid/late twenties and beyond.

Life doesn’t end on your 30th birthday. I’m not saying it sucks not to be popular and slay as a teenager. Yeah we missed out on major life milestones. Sucks to be us, is what it is. But don’t fall into the trap of thinking that was your only chance to be happy.
And you will only be able to date non-virgin used up trash whores. Life ends even during teen years if you have agressive balding for example. No jb appeal = no life.
 
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If you dont have a social circle with girls in it by 18, its over. You will never get laid, you will have to rely on cold approaching and dating apps, which does NOT work if you are not good looking.

Take me for example: even if i got a job, even if i was more successuful, the only people i would meet from work are MEN and maybe 1 woman or two. I will have to go on dating apps because its only way to meet women without a circle. And ofc, i wll get ghosted again again and again because im NOT attractive.

Its a vicious cycle and the only escape is to STOP trying because it will NEVER happen. Happiness is NOT for everyone in this life and it is completely out of your control.
This is what I’ve been saying. It sounds weird but HS is really the last chance.
 
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And you will only be able to date non-virgin used up trash whores. Life ends even during teen years if you have agressive balding for example. No jb appeal = no life.
This too
 
Chadlites+ don’t have to worry about any of this. They run through hoes on ig and dating apps. Then fuck their friends then fuck their friends friends

And this I know for facts
 
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Life doesn’t end on your 30th birthday. I’m not saying it sucks not to be popular and slay as a teenager. Yeah we missed out on major life milestones. Sucks to be us, is what it is. But don’t fall into the trap of thinking that was your only chance to be happy.
cope
 
nd you will only be able to date non-virgin used up trash whores
who will GHOST you and proceed to fuck with guys who MOG you
 
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Ya, in college getting lucky with the right friends got me way further than any looksmaxxing ever would. But then it was kinda over for me when I left my college town, and really over since the pandemic destroyed the beginnings of a new social circle I had. Proximity is the only natural way to meet girls and maybe this is just me but especially if you have success with it anything else just wouldn't feel right, even if I could consistently slay off of OLD I wouldn't want to, bars and clubs maybe but you kinda need a social circle for that too.
 
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7/10 Demoralization thread
 
My experience also.
 
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Water, no social circles means the death of you socially
 

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