
6ft4
Every Spectrum has a Purgatory Zone
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If you are dealing with a foid online who you've never met, there are any number of reasons why she will entertain having a convo but never meet
If you are just talking to her directly but never posting anything to your social media for her to view, there's a good chance she will just keep you in limbo where she messages back but never shows any urgency to meet up
However when you start broadcasting what you are doing in your life (posting stuff to instagram stories, posting vlogs) suddenly she sees you are doing shit with your life that is independent of her which makes her feel like you don't need her and can have a good life independent of her which makes her more attracted to you due to foid's brain wiring.
When you broadcast yourself your target audience isn't her specifically, you are taking time out of your day to make a post that will be seen by hundreds or thousands of people apart from her.
When you take time out of your day to post something about your life to social media she may only be 1% of your audience or less
However when you take time out of your day to message her, she is 100% of your audience so she sees you as less valuable because of how much of your social media time is spent giving attention to her rather than you spending that time gaining attention from a wider audience
Every time she watches your story and sees you doing shit or hears you talking, she is putting herself in the position of the observer and foids attraction is built by observing males who are not pursuing them in that moment, a perfect example is when I was working in a nightclub, because I was not in a position to pursue any of the foids, foids would observe me and then approach at times when their attraction was triggered because I was in a position where they could observe me coz I stood out by standing around in work uniform.
tl:dr: If you are messaging foids online in a bid to slay them, you have to be posting content about your life so that they are in the position of the observer which causes them to think about you in times when you are NOT in direct contact with them
If you are just talking to her directly but never posting anything to your social media for her to view, there's a good chance she will just keep you in limbo where she messages back but never shows any urgency to meet up
However when you start broadcasting what you are doing in your life (posting stuff to instagram stories, posting vlogs) suddenly she sees you are doing shit with your life that is independent of her which makes her feel like you don't need her and can have a good life independent of her which makes her more attracted to you due to foid's brain wiring.
When you broadcast yourself your target audience isn't her specifically, you are taking time out of your day to make a post that will be seen by hundreds or thousands of people apart from her.
When you take time out of your day to post something about your life to social media she may only be 1% of your audience or less
However when you take time out of your day to message her, she is 100% of your audience so she sees you as less valuable because of how much of your social media time is spent giving attention to her rather than you spending that time gaining attention from a wider audience
Every time she watches your story and sees you doing shit or hears you talking, she is putting herself in the position of the observer and foids attraction is built by observing males who are not pursuing them in that moment, a perfect example is when I was working in a nightclub, because I was not in a position to pursue any of the foids, foids would observe me and then approach at times when their attraction was triggered because I was in a position where they could observe me coz I stood out by standing around in work uniform.
tl:dr: If you are messaging foids online in a bid to slay them, you have to be posting content about your life so that they are in the position of the observer which causes them to think about you in times when you are NOT in direct contact with them