Paroxysm
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Every once in a while I read about "trad" redpillers or even people on this forum claim that men don't need a high bodycount to be in a functioning LTR and that they can still be good men / lovers / husbands by working on themselves and "staying true to their moral code"
JUST FUCKING LOL.
I used to think like these people because I had to cope with being a "half virgin", ie someone who can only get sex in LTRs and who at the age of 22 had a bodycount of 2.
It doesn't work that way. You need a lot of real life experience with women and their BS to be able to shield yourself from it. Just reading redpill content on the internet isn't going to cut it. Niggas read some redpill content from looksmax forums and other TRP communities and think they have women figured out because they can loosely explain how some evolutionary psychology adaptment works in them. No nigga you're going to get burned, and you're going to get burned hard.
It's like practicing fighting moves on a mannequin vs practicing them on a trained fighter.
I look back on my 1.5 year LTR and think, how the fuck did I let a lot of those things slide. How naive was I. It's because it was my second relationship (and second woman in bed) ever, the first one after my high school sweetheart. And I had no frame of reference for what was "normal" in a relationship and what wasn't, something that the witch greatly leveraged to her advantage.
You cannot afford your bodycount to be under 3/4 of hers, and the higher the ratio, the better.
She will not see you as a man if you haven't fucked many before her (and she will notice your lack of experience in bed anyway jfl) and if you don't have a lot of options ready to snatch you away from her. A man needs all the experience he can get. We don't live in the same world as our ancestors. It's futile to copy their actions when the game is under different rules now.
Every male under 30 should keep fucking as many girls as possible as one of their priorities. Not the main priority but high up there when it comes to importance.
Unlike women you can afford to put off marrying and having kids until you're 30+. Spend that time to hardmaxx everywhere and to gather as much experience with women as you can. No woman, whether she's 20 or 40, is going to brag to her friends about faithful billy beta who's only had two girls in his life before her.
JUST FUCKING LOL.
I used to think like these people because I had to cope with being a "half virgin", ie someone who can only get sex in LTRs and who at the age of 22 had a bodycount of 2.
It doesn't work that way. You need a lot of real life experience with women and their BS to be able to shield yourself from it. Just reading redpill content on the internet isn't going to cut it. Niggas read some redpill content from looksmax forums and other TRP communities and think they have women figured out because they can loosely explain how some evolutionary psychology adaptment works in them. No nigga you're going to get burned, and you're going to get burned hard.
It's like practicing fighting moves on a mannequin vs practicing them on a trained fighter.
I look back on my 1.5 year LTR and think, how the fuck did I let a lot of those things slide. How naive was I. It's because it was my second relationship (and second woman in bed) ever, the first one after my high school sweetheart. And I had no frame of reference for what was "normal" in a relationship and what wasn't, something that the witch greatly leveraged to her advantage.
You cannot afford your bodycount to be under 3/4 of hers, and the higher the ratio, the better.
She will not see you as a man if you haven't fucked many before her (and she will notice your lack of experience in bed anyway jfl) and if you don't have a lot of options ready to snatch you away from her. A man needs all the experience he can get. We don't live in the same world as our ancestors. It's futile to copy their actions when the game is under different rules now.
Every male under 30 should keep fucking as many girls as possible as one of their priorities. Not the main priority but high up there when it comes to importance.
Unlike women you can afford to put off marrying and having kids until you're 30+. Spend that time to hardmaxx everywhere and to gather as much experience with women as you can. No woman, whether she's 20 or 40, is going to brag to her friends about faithful billy beta who's only had two girls in his life before her.
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