yochico_yojordan
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If you're not a virgin or already successful with women, this thread isn't for you
Everyone knows the stereotype that girls flirt with you more when you're in a relationship. It's not a coincidence. And the cause driving this effect is larger than you think.
Women are more attracted to men when other women are attracted to them. This is causal, not just correlation. If you take a guy and have a girl rate him, then surround him with several women who act attracted to him and rate him high and have another girl rate him, she will, on average, rate him two points higher. This is called Mate Choice Copying. This is because humans are highly social animals that exchange information based on behavior. Normally, women select a mate based on looks, money, charisma, etc. But when they see how other women view men, it provides a shortcut. They still have their own impression of course, but it's heavily warped by the signals they're receiving from other women who have already analyzed them. It's essentially a shortcut for their brains, like reading the reviews on a book instead of reading it yourself.
Furthermore, beyond impressions, if you frequently have women (quantity > quality) flirting with you, chasing you, talking about you, etc, it gives you a sense of scarcity, which is even more valuable. Not only do you appear more attractive, you're also rare, sought after, and hard to get. You went from quartz to diamond. Shiny and precious. LTBS are the best place to start because they are low hanging fruit and you risk nothing by trying.
This isn't just a theory though. I speak from experience. I was a complete KHHV high inhib loser incel for the first 16 years of my life. By 18, I had an HTB popular gf, 5-10 women orbiting me trying to steal me from her at a given time, and more status than I'd dreamed of. It all started with LTBS. You don't have to like them, you don't have to smash them, but give them some attention and pretend you're interested. It goes a long way. You can practice your charisma on them without fear of losing anything if you fail. You can troll for lols. Whatever you do, keep them on you, and like bait they'll attract bigger fish
Not to mention, LTBS sometimes have hot friends
TLDR: flirt with ltbs you don't want to attract better options you do want. Free XP grinding for charisma + status + halo
JFL if you think LTBS are off the table you're retarded. Even if you're low LTN you can pull LTBs. Hypergamy is real but overexaggerated. No you do not need to be 7'8 true adam. I'm 5'10", no body halo, and was high LTN for most of high school and STILL slayed. Probably had the most women at my school out of anyone
