Bignuts
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A lot of people here seem to centre their wellbeing and goals on very shallow and materialistic things.
They get ecstatic for a short period of time if a girl compliments them or shows interest, and vice versa, if a girl doesnt they plummet into dark sadness, and if they wake up one day and feel like they dont look good, their entire day is ruined.
This creates very unstable people, who likely feel extremely empty and void inside.
They set shallow goals like to "get a gf" or "be 1psl better looking" and make their life revolve around these things, and I guarantee when you reach these goals you wont be fulfilled in the slightest.
If you're feeling like shit regularly without a girlfriend itll be the exact same with one (minus the first few weeks of limerance)
An example of what I'm saying:
https://looksmax.org/threads/i-feel...et-something-it-doesnt-matter-anymore.298394/
When you set shallow goals and revolve your life around them, you get shallow results.
I'm not saying not to looksmax, just stop revolving your life around women and your looks as its extremely vapid and dull and will lead to a sense of unfufillment.
Set goals outside yourself, help people, have long term plans that will serve you into the future, learn an art, create things and have a passion.
Young women are the ones who revolve their lives around looks and attracting the opposite gender. Be a man.
They get ecstatic for a short period of time if a girl compliments them or shows interest, and vice versa, if a girl doesnt they plummet into dark sadness, and if they wake up one day and feel like they dont look good, their entire day is ruined.
This creates very unstable people, who likely feel extremely empty and void inside.
They set shallow goals like to "get a gf" or "be 1psl better looking" and make their life revolve around these things, and I guarantee when you reach these goals you wont be fulfilled in the slightest.
If you're feeling like shit regularly without a girlfriend itll be the exact same with one (minus the first few weeks of limerance)
An example of what I'm saying:
https://looksmax.org/threads/i-feel...et-something-it-doesnt-matter-anymore.298394/
When you set shallow goals and revolve your life around them, you get shallow results.
I'm not saying not to looksmax, just stop revolving your life around women and your looks as its extremely vapid and dull and will lead to a sense of unfufillment.
Set goals outside yourself, help people, have long term plans that will serve you into the future, learn an art, create things and have a passion.
Young women are the ones who revolve their lives around looks and attracting the opposite gender. Be a man.
