Your Best opener for Approaching Girls?

[Deleted member 72469]

Initial Conversation Starter

Pre-opener:

E.g. Excuse me, wave your hand YAD stop style

Opener:

Compliment, observation etc.

Initial conversation starter:

My go to follow up is then "You seem way too friendly to be from Sydney... Then cold read where she's from and strike up a conversation

 

[JasGews69x]

Compliment

 

[Deleted member 117946]

We’re supposed to approach them?

 

[Deleted member 72469]

>> What to say in 5 minutes maximum (after she responds to the opener)


Cold read (my go to is the country she's from) or what she's up to e.g. you going to the gym after a long old day at your marketing job?


Compliment her on how friendly she is even if she's just been normal > subconsciously people will try and live up to compliments handed to them


Mini-deep dive > what brings you to X city?, where were you before?


Qualify > once you've found more information about her qualify her on that e.g. "you seem cool love the way you were in Nigeria before and run your own social media business"


Tease > don't be afraid to joke a little bit, use self-deprecating humour and call her out when something she says doesn't make sense. Remember the beauty of daygame is to be enjoyed - you can literally create movie like moments.


Seed the date > we should grab a drink sometime, girls will often say yes just to be polite but you'll filter these girls out later


Exchange numbers > get her number for logistics, if she just wants to offer you an instagram handle instead - I'll save you the headache just move on lol

 

[SecularIslamist]

Aren't you a high inhib non-NT pussy? Don't bother you'll just embarrass yourself.

 

[Deleted member 80130]

Are you really 5’2” or was that a troll?

 

[Deleted member 72469]

Aren't you a high inhib non-NT pussy? Don't bother you'll just embarrass yourself.

Says the 30 year old who spent money on a muslim marriage app with nothing to show for it after years of being on there

Are you really 5’2” or was that a troll?

Why does everyone question it

 

[SecularIslamist]

Says the 30 year old who spent money on a muslim marriage app with nothing to show for it after years of being on there

I was just offering advice. When non-NTs try to act NT it's embarrassingly obvious.

 

[Gargantuan]

Girls call me Walt Disney cause they love my mickey

 

[Deleted member 80130]

Says the 30 year old who spent money on a muslim marriage app with nothing to show for it after years of being on there


Why does everyone question it

Because that’s below bottom 1% height

If you’re really 5’2”, don’t talk to girls, don’t even leave the house. Just give up lol, it’s over. Either genuinely rope or get LL, 5’2” is fucking insane. Maybe move to Thailand but even there you’d need lifts. I’m sorry bro

 

[Deleted member 72469]

I was just offering advice. When non-NTs try to act NT it's embarrassingly obvious.

We all start somewhere, nobody is born NT or Non NT.

Because that’s below bottom 1% height

If you’re really 5’2”, don’t talk to girls, don’t even leave the house. Just give up lol, it’s over. Either genuinely rope or get LL, 5’2” is fucking insane. Maybe move to Thailand but even there you’d need lifts. I’m sorry bro

I'm above 5'2 but i actually tell girls im this height on dating apps and still manage to meet them so clearly they dont care that much about height.

 

[Deleted member 72469]

I have two openers:

a) I directly tell them something along the lines "I know this is gonna sounds crazy but I just walked by and I saw you and I thought that you are so beautiful, I just wanted to meet you" ... one of two things always happens: either they are extremely swept off their feet and start blushing and we have nice conversation ending with a number OR they are a bit shocked, don´t know what to say and either say that they are in a hurry and have to go or that they have a boyfriend...some even smile and feel complimented but say they have a boyfriend.

b) I use a situational or observational opener but this one is very tricky. It works really well when you have a lot in common in terms of being in the same social circle like university, course, class, gym, whatever...even if you have never seen each other before. Because people low-key expect to be talked to in such environments. But talking to someone on a bus stop or a grocery shop or on a street for several minutes if you have never seen each other before...it feels kind of weird. Lot of times when I was talking to girls like this there was this weird vibe like eventhough they were talking to me normally, I felt like they tried to comprehend what do I actually want and why I keep talking to them for so long.

On the other hand, when I just talk to a girl in the gym, in some class or in uni back in the day, it is much easier for me, since it allows me to be super low-key, no pressure, everything feels like it just happened naturally (which is what girls like).

 

[Sprinkles]

I tell them, “Elmo rules the world!”

 

[piec]

ramblings ngl

 

[Deleted member 101201]

Initial Conversation Starter

Pre-opener:

E.g. Excuse me, wave your hand YAD stop style

Opener:

Compliment, observation etc.

Initial conversation starter:

My go to follow up is then "You seem way too friendly to be from Sydney... Then cold read where she's from and strike up a conversation

See if they interesred back and if they then come close and usually will do self if not you do

 

[Deleted member 15778]

To be honest, if I stumbled upon some opener that worked, I would never share it.