Sylveer
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Brutal Truth is Does that foid does she really like you for you?
Got u with that joke
I started my looksmaxing journey at the beginning of this year. Right before I began, I got together with a girl who cheated on her boyfriend to be with me and that boyfriend used to be a close friend of mine. That situation was my first real wake-up call to how cold things can be. She was messaging me, calling me, telling me she loved me right off the bat and how she always was still in love with me (FYI She was my biggest hater when i used to slay ), and doing literally whatever I commanded her to do, all while still in that relationship.
It left me with a major question: Why was she acting like this?
I’d known her for years, back when she was completely inexperienced. Back then, she wanted me to be her first, but I declined, ghosted her, and basically passed her off to my friend. We stayed close friends for about a year after that, so I knew everything about her. It was a massive dilemma seeing a girl who didn't fit the typical "modern generation" stereotype acting so submissive and attached to me.
As I continued improving my looks, I watched her behavior change in real-time. With every stage of my physical improvement, her reaction shifted. It got to the point where she’d demand I turn my camera on during FaceTime just to admire my face. It’s brutal to witness: you get leaner than you were the week before, and suddenly her respect and treatment of you skyrocketing. Any command becomes her order.
This brings me to my current predicament, and a question I can’t seem to answer. I’m planning to start a cycle soon; the strategy was always to get completely lean first to see the underlying frame before building up. I became very skinny But lately, I’ve been getting some negative reactions from her. In my analysis, she seems to have some warped wiring that makes her incredibly spoiled, entitled, and demanding about getting things done her way.
Personally, I don't vibe with that. I try to treat everyone with the same level of respect, because life is already brutal enough for most people without them realizing how much their facial aesthetics dictate every single daily interaction.
Because of this, I chose to end things. But she has been absolutely begging me not to walk away. She's promised she will change, go to therapy, and work on becoming a genuinely good, nice person. Today, I finally agreed to meet her at a hotel bar for a drink just to talk, which is what she requested. She even offered to pay for my dinner.
Given all of this, how should I handle it tonight? Do I finalize the breakup right there, or is there a better way to go about it? Just looking for some outside perspectives.
Got u with that jokeI started my looksmaxing journey at the beginning of this year. Right before I began, I got together with a girl who cheated on her boyfriend to be with me and that boyfriend used to be a close friend of mine. That situation was my first real wake-up call to how cold things can be. She was messaging me, calling me, telling me she loved me right off the bat and how she always was still in love with me (FYI She was my biggest hater when i used to slay ), and doing literally whatever I commanded her to do, all while still in that relationship.
It left me with a major question: Why was she acting like this?
I’d known her for years, back when she was completely inexperienced. Back then, she wanted me to be her first, but I declined, ghosted her, and basically passed her off to my friend. We stayed close friends for about a year after that, so I knew everything about her. It was a massive dilemma seeing a girl who didn't fit the typical "modern generation" stereotype acting so submissive and attached to me.
As I continued improving my looks, I watched her behavior change in real-time. With every stage of my physical improvement, her reaction shifted. It got to the point where she’d demand I turn my camera on during FaceTime just to admire my face. It’s brutal to witness: you get leaner than you were the week before, and suddenly her respect and treatment of you skyrocketing. Any command becomes her order.
This brings me to my current predicament, and a question I can’t seem to answer. I’m planning to start a cycle soon; the strategy was always to get completely lean first to see the underlying frame before building up. I became very skinny But lately, I’ve been getting some negative reactions from her. In my analysis, she seems to have some warped wiring that makes her incredibly spoiled, entitled, and demanding about getting things done her way.
Personally, I don't vibe with that. I try to treat everyone with the same level of respect, because life is already brutal enough for most people without them realizing how much their facial aesthetics dictate every single daily interaction.
Because of this, I chose to end things. But she has been absolutely begging me not to walk away. She's promised she will change, go to therapy, and work on becoming a genuinely good, nice person. Today, I finally agreed to meet her at a hotel bar for a drink just to talk, which is what she requested. She even offered to pay for my dinner.
Given all of this, how should I handle it tonight? Do I finalize the breakup right there, or is there a better way to go about it? Just looking for some outside perspectives.
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