Deleted member 8856
No Im not alright, but Im all up on my cheddar
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So you dont think there is any benefit dating wise to reach male model looks level? Just threshold is all we should go for?I don't know how to block quote shit and it's double over for me because I promised myself I'd never post on here lmao. I'll just respond point by point.
- Yes, there absolutely is a detriment. That goes back to the Princess and the Pea analogy. "He can't be TOO ripped, he can't be TOO famous, nor TOO tall, not TOO nice, not TOO sexy..." It's insane. I am telling you - objectively - that a guy at your looks level will without a shred of doubt experience this problem. I don't know what my PSL level is, but I match with tons of hot girls in NYC and the girl I'm dating is a model right now, and you mog me except for height, so... I will say this: Your PSL is extraordinarily rare. In the past few years I've been in NYC I've never seen a guy as good looking as you just walking around. These girls A. Can't believe you exist, B. And when you prove you exist, they resort to the COPING mechanisms of ghosting, flaking, etc. to put you in your place. Why? Because they have been pumped and dumped a million times before by guys who either equal you, or, mog you. Athletes, musicians, actors. You know the drill, it's LA. If she's on an app, she's likely a whore. I've met a few genuine exceptions to this, but generally it's true. I am not at all kidding about what I said about the burlesque dancer with 2,600 Feeld matches in two days. I have a platonic friend who is signed to Elite Miami and she is routinely offered thousands to fly around the world. You can be replaced at the drop of a hat with zero remorse. That's if you even get there. But back to the app conversations: She can now use YOU to take out her self-esteem issues on. You're now the stranger on Internet she can use as a virtual punching bag. It's fucking pathetic, but this is the generation of women we have to deal with. We're both oldcels comparatively speaking, and it's even harder for us to grasp just how mentally fucked these dumb kids are.
- Many of the Zoomer faggots here are right about one thing about you: Your text game is too nice. You need to just ask to meet. If they pushback? Unmatch/block. Change the terms of the meetup? Unmatch/block. She either makes it easy for the start or she can take a fucking hike. Because, really, what do you think happens 6 months down the line - assuming you even manage to keep her interest that long - if she's acting that way from day one? You keep allowing this in your life, you will get more of it. It's strange, and I don't subscribe to spirituality much, but we live in some sort of simulation and it gives you more of whatever you allow.
- I have had so many girls tell me that "You give off fuckboy/playboy/etc." vibes. That's womanspeak for "You mog me, I'm insecure, and I likely don't want to date you because I'm scared you'll cheat." The moment you hear those words you can set a timer until they end up disappearing. If they mention thinking you would be "bad in bed" as a result of your looks, that's a total shittest. Ignore it or think of something funny to say that's lighthearted and not bitter.