Your inner circle is just geographical laziness

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Jason Voorhees

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Most of the time your friends mentors, and professional connections don't actually care about you. They associate with you simply because you happen to occupy the same physical coordinates in space and time for most men and especially women it is just convenience.

Most modern social circles are built entirely on logistics not bond or brotherhood or anything like that. You go to the same gym, work on the same floor, or sit next to each other in the classroom You are just the convenient supply for their daily need to vent, kill time, or avoid looking like a loner

This is why you always here how people lose contacts with their friends the moment someone switches jobs, graduates, or moves two zip codes away watch how fast the interaction drops to zero Niggas won't even drive twenty minutes out of their way to maintain the bond.

Real brotherhoods and alliances are actually rare and take years/decades to make and maintain. Niggas love to talk about building deep alliances and networking but most people are too passive to maintain a relationship that requires more than a baseline level of effort. It's very difficult to win people's unwavering trust and loyalty.
 
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@Swarthy Knight @imontheloose @Chadeep
 
That's why you'll never talk to most of the people you are friends with in school again after it ends.
 
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Most of the time your friends mentors, and professional connections don't actually care about you. They associate with you simply because you happen to occupy the same physical coordinates in space and time for most men and especially women it is just convenience.

Most modern social circles are built entirely on logistics not bond or brotherhood or anything like that. You go to the same gym, work on the same floor, or sit next to each other in the classroom You are just the convenient supply for their daily need to vent, kill time, or avoid looking like a loner

This is why you always here how people lose contacts with their friends the moment someone switches jobs, graduates, or moves two zip codes away watch how fast the interaction drops to zero Niggas won't even drive twenty minutes out of their way to maintain the bond.

Real brotherhoods and alliances are actually rare and take years/decades to make and maintain. Niggas love to talk about building deep alliances and networking but most people are too passive to maintain a relationship that requires more than a baseline level of effort.
Very true. Most people cant even be called your friends. My greatest desire in my life is to build a bond with someone, and be impossibly close with them and never apart.
 
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I got a question Jason
 
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Convenience starts most friendships. Effort is what proves them.
 
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Of course retard. Brotha could you imagine if EVERY type of connection you had with ANYONE was the deep, insightful, profound, spiritual type you claim it should be? It would be taxing.
 
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Of course retard. Brotha could you imagine if EVERY type of connection you had with ANYONE was the deep, insightful, profound, spiritual type you claim it should be? It would be taxing.
The thing is many people have neither
 
true some people im acciqutances with and its not because we share similar interests its because i see them every single day everywhere
 
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Most of the time your friends mentors, and professional connections don't actually care about you. They associate with you simply because you happen to occupy the same physical coordinates in space and time for most men and especially women it is just convenience.

Most modern social circles are built entirely on logistics not bond or brotherhood or anything like that. You go to the same gym, work on the same floor, or sit next to each other in the classroom You are just the convenient supply for their daily need to vent, kill time, or avoid looking like a loner

This is why you always here how people lose contacts with their friends the moment someone switches jobs, graduates, or moves two zip codes away watch how fast the interaction drops to zero Niggas won't even drive twenty minutes out of their way to maintain the bond.

Real brotherhoods and alliances are actually rare and take years/decades to make and maintain. Niggas love to talk about building deep alliances and networking but most people are too passive to maintain a relationship that requires more than a baseline level of effort. It's very difficult to win people's unwavering trust and loyalty.
I disagree since most of us come from high population areas where the people who "occupy the same physical coordinates in space" are usually alot of people
An example would be a highschool of 1,000. You're not friends with those people because they happen to be around you. If this was true then stories of peoplenot having any friends in HS wouldn't exist.
The people into sports hang out with each other, the autist band kids hang out with each other, the edgy kids hang out with each other, the alt kids hang out with ecah other
Infact, the alt kids, the autists, the guys who like sports, all are probably friends with people who also like these stuff outside their physical space.
Maybe the sports guys play football and are friends with people who live in the opposite sides of the city who play at the same young club, maybe the alt people hang out at the spot where alot of other alt people in the city hang out with
This would point to people leaving their physical space specifically to seek out people to be friends with, which isn't laziness

I.E. similarity > closeness
 
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Most of the time your friends mentors, and professional connections don't actually care about you. They associate with you simply because you happen to occupy the same physical coordinates in space and time for most men and especially women it is just convenience.

Most modern social circles are built entirely on logistics not bond or brotherhood or anything like that. You go to the same gym, work on the same floor, or sit next to each other in the classroom You are just the convenient supply for their daily need to vent, kill time, or avoid looking like a loner

This is why you always here how people lose contacts with their friends the moment someone switches jobs, graduates, or moves two zip codes away watch how fast the interaction drops to zero Niggas won't even drive twenty minutes out of their way to maintain the bond.

Real brotherhoods and alliances are actually rare and take years/decades to make and maintain. Niggas love to talk about building deep alliances and networking but most people are too passive to maintain a relationship that requires more than a baseline level of effort. It's very difficult to win people's unwavering trust and loyalty.
Real brother hoods these days end up starting online
 
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Most of the time your friends mentors, and professional connections don't actually care about you. They associate with you simply because you happen to occupy the same physical coordinates in space and time for most men and especially women it is just convenience.

Most modern social circles are built entirely on logistics not bond or brotherhood or anything like that. You go to the same gym, work on the same floor, or sit next to each other in the classroom You are just the convenient supply for their daily need to vent, kill time, or avoid looking like a loner

This is why you always here how people lose contacts with their friends the moment someone switches jobs, graduates, or moves two zip codes away watch how fast the interaction drops to zero Niggas won't even drive twenty minutes out of their way to maintain the bond.

Real brotherhoods and alliances are actually rare and take years/decades to make and maintain. Niggas love to talk about building deep alliances and networking but most people are too passive to maintain a relationship that requires more than a baseline level of effort. It's very difficult to win people's unwavering trust and loyalty.
Nigga basically just said "Water" in 4 pargraphs
 
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I think you could say this about most relationships in general tbh
 
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Kills me when Normies talk about muh brotherhood then proceed to cut out their day 1's for an ltb
 
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I disagree since most of us come from high population areas where the people who "occupy the same physical coordinates in space" are usually alot of people
An example would be a highschool of 1,000. You're not friends with those people because they happen to be around you. If this was true then stories of peoplenot having any friends in HS wouldn't exist.
The people into sports hang out with each other, the autist band kids hang out with each other, the edgy kids hang out with each other, the alt kids hang out with ecah other
Infact, the alt kids, the autists, the guys who like sports, all are probably friends with people who also like these stuff outside their physical space.
Maybe the sports guys play football and are friends with people who live in the opposite sides of the city who play at the same young club, maybe the alt people hang out at the spot where alot of other alt people in the city hang out with
This would point to people leaving their physical space specifically to seek out people to be friends with, which isn't laziness

I.E. similarity > closeness
That high school or city hangout spot is still just a local anchor forcing passive contact despite having a filter. The real test isn't who you pick while you're trapped in the same school or whatever it's what happens when that shared roof disappears. The moment graduation hits or someone stops going to that specific sports club 95% of those subculture bonds evaporate instantly. Proximity decides the start, the end and the continuation
 
Most of the time your friends mentors, and professional connections don't actually care about you. They associate with you simply because you happen to occupy the same physical coordinates in space and time for most men and especially women it is just convenience.

Most modern social circles are built entirely on logistics not bond or brotherhood or anything like that. You go to the same gym, work on the same floor, or sit next to each other in the classroom You are just the convenient supply for their daily need to vent, kill time, or avoid looking like a loner

This is why you always here how people lose contacts with their friends the moment someone switches jobs, graduates, or moves two zip codes away watch how fast the interaction drops to zero Niggas won't even drive twenty minutes out of their way to maintain the bond.

Real brotherhoods and alliances are actually rare and take years/decades to make and maintain. Niggas love to talk about building deep alliances and networking but most people are too passive to maintain a relationship that requires more than a baseline level of effort. It's very difficult to win people's unwavering trust and loyalty.
Yeah idk if Iโ€™ve had truly had any long term friends
 
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Most of the time your friends mentors, and professional connections don't actually care about you. They associate with you simply because you happen to occupy the same physical coordinates in space and time for most men and especially women it is just convenience.

Most modern social circles are built entirely on logistics not bond or brotherhood or anything like that. You go to the same gym, work on the same floor, or sit next to each other in the classroom You are just the convenient supply for their daily need to vent, kill time, or avoid looking like a loner

This is why you always here how people lose contacts with their friends the moment someone switches jobs, graduates, or moves two zip codes away watch how fast the interaction drops to zero Niggas won't even drive twenty minutes out of their way to maintain the bond.

Real brotherhoods and alliances are actually rare and take years/decades to make and maintain. Niggas love to talk about building deep alliances and networking but most people are too passive to maintain a relationship that requires more than a baseline level of effort. It's very difficult to win people's unwavering trust and loyalty.
I haven't spoken to my friends from school since we graduated

Same with university friends
 
yeah thats why you got a couple niggas you hang out with an a couple niggas who ride or die. thats water. I dont expect everyone to be a close friend but Im glad to say I got a couple:Comfy:
 

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