Your Parents Want You to be a Betabuxx

[thereallegend]

If your parents didn't care about you at all, then you're probably just lost in the wind.

But for me, my parents just want me to be a betabuxx. Any progress I've made looksmaxxing or socialmaxxing has been because of my own initiative. Because I purposely stopped listening to my family. It's almost like our families want us to be betabuxxes so we can one day take care of them or something. My parents didn't do shit to help me with dating. They were fine with me being a porn addicted incel as long as I got good grades.

They always overemphasize career, work, school. It's like my life is supposed to be a mad dash to climb the corporate ladder or something.

I get money will be important for life satisfaction especially starting late 20s.

Now they're concerned with my supplement stacks even though I health mog them all to death.

You'll never impress your parents because your parents want you to be a corporate drone that's eager wife up any bitch he sees.

Keep shit a secret as much as possible.

 

[reptiles]

If your parents didn't care about you at all, then you're probably just lost in the wind.

But for me, my parents just want me to be a betabuxx. Any progress I've made looksmaxxing or socialmaxxing has been because of my own initiative. Because I purposely stopped listening to my family. It's almost like our families want us to be betabuxxes so we can one day take care of them or something. My parents didn't do shit to help me with dating. They were fine with me being a porn addicted incel as long as I got good grades.

They always overemphasize career, work, school. It's like my life is supposed to be a mad dash to climb the corporate ladder or something.

I get money will be important for life satisfaction especially starting late 20s.

Now they're concerned with my supplement stacks even though I health mog them all to death.

You'll never impress your parents because your parents want you to be a corporate drone that's eager wife up any bitch he sees.

Keep shit a secret as much as possible.

I mean climb the corporate ladder but also looksmax this isnt an either or good grades matter massively in the grand scheme of things because you need connections and they only show up at the places with high credentials.

 

[Lonely]

If your parents didn't care about you at all, then you're probably just lost in the wind.

But for me, my parents just want me to be a betabuxx. Any progress I've made looksmaxxing or socialmaxxing has been because of my own initiative. Because I purposely stopped listening to my family. It's almost like our families want us to be betabuxxes so we can one day take care of them or something. My parents didn't do shit to help me with dating. They were fine with me being a porn addicted incel as long as I got good grades.

They always overemphasize career, work, school. It's like my life is supposed to be a mad dash to climb the corporate ladder or something.

I get money will be important for life satisfaction especially starting late 20s.

Now they're concerned with my supplement stacks even though I health mog them all to death.

You'll never impress your parents because your parents want you to be a corporate drone that's eager wife up any bitch he sees.

Keep shit a secret as much as possible.

Yeah curry parents are notorious for this

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

If your parents didn't care about you at all, then you're probably just lost in the wind.

But for me, my parents just want me to be a betabuxx. Any progress I've made looksmaxxing or socialmaxxing has been because of my own initiative. Because I purposely stopped listening to my family. It's almost like our families want us to be betabuxxes so we can one day take care of them or something. My parents didn't do shit to help me with dating. They were fine with me being a porn addicted incel as long as I got good grades.

They always overemphasize career, work, school. It's like my life is supposed to be a mad dash to climb the corporate ladder or something.

I get money will be important for life satisfaction especially starting late 20s.

Now they're concerned with my supplement stacks even though I health mog them all to death.

You'll never impress your parents because your parents want you to be a corporate drone that's eager wife up any bitch he sees.

Keep shit a secret as much as possible.

A good father wants to see his son usurp him. Fuck them

 

[tooLOW]

my parents do the same shit
broke ass at 40 plus years old want me to take care of when they are old

but i will let them rot and suffer
for not taking care of me properly
when i was young kid

 

[thereallegend]

A good father wants to see his son usurp him. Fuck them

My father encourages me to be a beta bitch

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

My father encourages me to be a beta bitch

Disgusting!

 

[Gargantuan]

To this day my parents have never even brought up the subject of dating and I'm approaching my mid-20s jfl, let alone help me with it.

This is why I will never talk to them about dating/girls/blackpill or whatever because even if I did, they wouldn't understand my point of view/struggles anyway.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Should I hate my parents for making me a 5"6 subhuman? They only went to a single doctor to ask if I need hgh. Had to do it all myself and barely have grown

 

[thereallegend]

Disgusting!

And that's what I was until I took the Redpill and started self improvement in 2018. A goodie two shoes simp.

 

[Deleted member 17920]

My Family Supports my Looksmaxing

 

[thereallegend]

Should I hate my parents for making me a 5"6 subhuman? They only went to a single doctor to ask if I need hgh. Had to do it all myself and barely have grown

Multiple parents of kids I went to high school with had their sons on HGH because they knew it was important.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Multiple parents of kids I went to high school with had their sons on HGH because they knew it was important.

I know it's common as shit

I didn't qualify by being like 1 inch too tall but went to a different doctor when I was 16 who was cool with it

 

[thereallegend]

I mean climb the corporate ladder but also looksmax this isnt an either or good grades matter massively in the grand scheme of things because you need connections and they only show up at the places with high credentials.

True

 

[thereallegend]

To this day my parents have never even brought up the subject of dating and I'm approaching my mid-20s jfl, let alone help me with it.

This is why I will never talk to them about dating/girls/blackpill or whatever because even if I did, they wouldn't understand my point of view/struggles anyway.

I hate how parents haven't taken the black pill on relationships in general. They seethe when they hear about me hooking up with girls. My dad should at least be congratulating. But no...that'd be violating the gynocentric code. My mom wanted me to commit to a fucking landwhale.

 

[Verse]

If your parents didn't care about you at all, then you're probably just lost in the wind.

But for me, my parents just want me to be a betabuxx. Any progress I've made looksmaxxing or socialmaxxing has been because of my own initiative. Because I purposely stopped listening to my family. It's almost like our families want us to be betabuxxes so we can one day take care of them or something. My parents didn't do shit to help me with dating. They were fine with me being a porn addicted incel as long as I got good grades.

They always overemphasize career, work, school. It's like my life is supposed to be a mad dash to climb the corporate ladder or something.

I get money will be important for life satisfaction especially starting late 20s.

Now they're concerned with my supplement stacks even though I health mog them all to death.

You'll never impress your parents because your parents want you to be a corporate drone that's eager wife up any bitch he sees.

Keep shit a secret as much as possible.

they're just deeply out of touch because they no longer understand how dating works, back then resources were more important than it is now not to mention they don't find looks as important as they used to (especially your mother) and so they assume every age is relative to their own and works the same way as their mindset

 

[Verse]

My mom wanted me to commit to a fucking landwhale.

JFL relatable, my mum wanted me to date some half indian half black obese foid

 

[oldcelloser]

I hate how parents haven't taken the black pill on relationships in general. They seethe when they hear about me hooking up with girls. My dad should at least be congratulating. But no...that'd be violating the gynocentric code. My mom wanted me to commit to a fucking landwhale

dont care anymore......similar story but worse because i didnt get to have braces and mouthbreathed all my life (while my classmates had braces at 8 years old)..... and have no bones in the lower 3rd and very bad smile/very narrow jaws and permanent mouth failio .....i talk to them once a week or so.....i told them last year i wont ever marry, while laughing ...its probably too late for any trad family/grand kids anyways, since they're like 70 and im mid 30s...and they made me in their mid 30s, so incel genetics
i just cant be bothered anymore with the trad cuck ways that basically transforms the man into a workhorse

 

[latincell95]

My mother, out of all the people who should be supporting me with my surgeries (e.g. she was a maxfac surgeon in my home country), just feeds me bluepilled advice, “you’ll find the right one, be patient” despite trying to get her to help me ascend

 

[Deleted member 11126]

If your parents didn't care about you at all, then you're probably just lost in the wind.

But for me, my parents just want me to be a betabuxx. Any progress I've made looksmaxxing or socialmaxxing has been because of my own initiative. Because I purposely stopped listening to my family. It's almost like our families want us to be betabuxxes so we can one day take care of them or something. My parents didn't do shit to help me with dating. They were fine with me being a porn addicted incel as long as I got good grades.

They always overemphasize career, work, school. It's like my life is supposed to be a mad dash to climb the corporate ladder or something.

I get money will be important for life satisfaction especially starting late 20s.

Now they're concerned with my supplement stacks even though I health mog them all to death.

You'll never impress your parents because your parents want you to be a corporate drone that's eager wife up any bitch he sees.

Keep shit a secret as much as possible.

My dad respected me when I started lifting and lost weight. Just gotta know what is okay to share. I would also say the average normie looksmaxes more then the average guy on forums. Most normies go to the gym style max and are doing sports.

But idk what your telling your parents if you show them your HGH stack or tell them your getting jaw surgery no fucking shit they aren't going to approve.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

My mother, out of all the people who should be supporting me with my surgeries (e.g. she was a maxfac surgeon in my home country), just feeds me bluepilled advice, “you’ll find the right one, be patient” despite trying to get her to help me ascend

Never tell people about surgery or they will think your insane. I told my folks about MSE but mainly under the guise of sleep apnea. If your getting surgery for cosmetic reasons most people will not be okay with it.

 

[litaz]

I know it's common as shit

I didn't qualify by being like 1 inch too tall but went to a different doctor when I was 16 who was cool with it

has HGH helped you with growth it must be costly af I don't see how you qualify but good for you

 

[litaz]

mothers and parents just can't see the fault in the children even if they're 3 PSL just gotta be objective

My mother, out of all the people who should be supporting me with my surgeries (e.g. she was a maxfac surgeon in my home country), just feeds me bluepilled advice, “you’ll find the right one, be patient” despite trying to get her to help me ascend

 

[Deleted member 21863]

My mother, out of all the people who should be supporting me with my surgeries (e.g. she was a maxfac surgeon in my home country), just feeds me bluepilled advice, “you’ll find the right one, be patient” despite trying to get her to help me ascend

The right maxillofacial surgeon that is

 

[Pikabro]

Yeah it’s normal, some parents are just out of touch. It’s best to work on your own things and shit. or you’ll be mogged by your peers. But don’t disrespect or ignore your parent’s advice completely, they’re still right in a way

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

has HGH helped you with growth it must be costly af I don't see how you qualify but good for you

I buy it myself and my doc is chill

 

[LooksOrDeath]

I hate how parents haven't taken the black pill on relationships in general. They seethe when they hear about me hooking up with girls. My dad should at least be congratulating. But no...that'd be violating the gynocentric code. My mom wanted me to commit to a fucking landwhale.

Most fathers would be proud of their son getting game. Unless you're asian?

 

[LooksOrDeath]

.

 

[klip11]

JFL relatable, my mum wanted me to date some half indian half black obese foid

No white Stacy for you, my friend

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Multiple parents of kids I went to high school with had their sons on HGH because they knew it was important.

Based parents. Is this is a private high school?

 

[LooksOrDeath]

No white Stacy for you, my friend

-half indian
-half black
-obese

have we discovered the lowest SMV woman? I can't imagine how bad her skin colour and eyes would be

 

[thereallegend]

Most fathers would be proud of their son getting game. Unless you're asian?

Nah, I'm not Asian. He literally won't say anything that isn't preapproved by my mother

 

[thereallegend]

Based parents. Is this is a private high school?

It was an upper middle class public high school

 

[Verse]

-half indian
-half black
-obese

have we discovered the lowest SMV woman? I can't imagine how bad her skin colour and eyes would be

yes definitely top 3 ugliest girls i've seen in my life, literally minus sex appeal I would rather fuck a man

 

[hiwasuwor]

They just want the safest live for their kids

 

[ItsOVERBuddyBoyos]

If your parents didn't care about you at all, then you're probably just lost in the wind.

But for me, my parents just want me to be a betabuxx. Any progress I've made looksmaxxing or socialmaxxing has been because of my own initiative. Because I purposely stopped listening to my family. It's almost like our families want us to be betabuxxes so we can one day take care of them or something. My parents didn't do shit to help me with dating. They were fine with me being a porn addicted incel as long as I got good grades.

They always overemphasize career, work, school. It's like my life is supposed to be a mad dash to climb the corporate ladder or something.

I get money will be important for life satisfaction especially starting late 20s.

Now they're concerned with my supplement stacks even though I health mog them all to death.

You'll never impress your parents because your parents want you to be a corporate drone that's eager wife up any bitch he sees.

South Asian parenting is particularly bad for this

- Put insane amounts of pressure of child to achieve academically
- Refused to let them leave the house alone or hang out with friends to ensure social stunting
- Ban them from dating and cockblock them at every opportunity
- Only recreation time is spent on the internet so they more likely to become introverted or nonNT
- Go to college to study STEM which is filled with other nerds and you now lack the social skills to succeed at uni anyway
- Study even more to get a top tier degree
- Get a prestigious job, don't bother to congratulate your child. Only pick on whatever other faults you feel they need to fix
- Get mad anytime their child dares to have a dissenting opinion
- Couple years go by wagecucking
- ????? Why you not have wife
- Pressure them to marry within your ethnicity/religion
- ????? profit for the wife
- Parents get to gloat about your achievements
- Everyone wonders why you're unhappy


Did i get it right?

@FailedNormieManlet @Chadethnic101 @Chinacurry @elld101 @chinpilled69 @Lonely @SadLivwr @TRUE_CEL @AscensionMan98 @SunniMogger @FrameMogger @rand anon @Zer0/∞ @StreegeReturn @MakinItHappenReturn

 

[Chadethnic101]

South Asian parenting is particularly bad for this

- Put insane amounts of pressure of child to achieve academically
- Refused to let them leave the house alone or hang out with friends to ensure social stunting
- Ban them from dating and cockblock them at every opportunity
- Only recreation time is spent on the internet so they more likely to become introverted or nonNT
- Go to college to study STEM which is filled with other nerds and you now lack the social skills to succeed at uni anyway
- Study even more to get a top tier degree
- Get a prestigious job, don't bother to congratulate your child. Only pick on whatever other faults you feel they need to fix
- Get mad anytime their child dares to have a dissenting opinion
- Couple years go by wagecucking
- ????? Why you not have wife
- Pressure them to marry within your ethnicity/religion
- ????? profit for the wife
- Parents get to gloat about your achievements
- Everyone wonders why you're unhappy


Did i get it right?

@FailedNormieManlet @Chadethnic101 @Chinacurry @elld101 @chinpilled69 @Lonely @SadLivwr @TRUE_CEL @AscensionMan98 @SunniMogger @FrameMogger @rand anon @Zer0/∞ @StreegeReturn @MakinItHappenReturn

Lol on point

South Asians would think I'm a complete disappointment hahaha

 

[Homunculus]

If they only gave me pocket money and freedom, I could've had a happy youth despite my subpar genetics.

 

[Deleted member 18840]

South Asian parenting is particularly bad for this

- Put insane amounts of pressure of child to achieve academically
- Refused to let them leave the house alone or hang out with friends to ensure social stunting
- Ban them from dating and cockblock them at every opportunity
- Only recreation time is spent on the internet so they more likely to become introverted or nonNT
- Go to college to study STEM which is filled with other nerds and you now lack the social skills to succeed at uni anyway
- Study even more to get a top tier degree
- Get a prestigious job, don't bother to congratulate your child. Only pick on whatever other faults you feel they need to fix
- Get mad anytime their child dares to have a dissenting opinion
- Couple years go by wagecucking
- ????? Why you not have wife
- Pressure them to marry within your ethnicity/religion
- ????? profit for the wife
- Parents get to gloat about your achievements
- Everyone wonders why you're unhappy


Did i get it right?

@FailedNormieManlet @Chadethnic101 @Chinacurry @elld101 @chinpilled69 @Lonely @SadLivwr @TRUE_CEL @AscensionMan98 @SunniMogger @FrameMogger @rand anon @Zer0/∞ @StreegeReturn @MakinItHappenReturn

200% im mentally and sentimentally stunted due to my upbringing, the pressure, the no rights to go to parties, to do things by own to « protect me » and so on

 

[Deleted member 19066]

This is so much more of a blackpill then anything I have read on this site before. If you were developmentally stunted by your parents, it's automatically over.

 

[Chad69]

Water

My parents actually forbid me to looksmax

 

[loksr]

My dad fell for redpill nonsense (gl enough to make it work, he’ll never find out it’s cope) but my mom is a narcy who blackpilled ME when I was a kid

Can’t imagine having bluepilled parents, no idea what that would be like

 

[AscensionMan98]

South Asian parenting is particularly bad for this

- Put insane amounts of pressure of child to achieve academically
- Refused to let them leave the house alone or hang out with friends to ensure social stunting
- Ban them from dating and cockblock them at every opportunity
- Only recreation time is spent on the internet so they more likely to become introverted or nonNT
- Go to college to study STEM which is filled with other nerds and you now lack the social skills to succeed at uni anyway
- Study even more to get a top tier degree
- Get a prestigious job, don't bother to congratulate your child. Only pick on whatever other faults you feel they need to fix
- Get mad anytime their child dares to have a dissenting opinion
- Couple years go by wagecucking
- ????? Why you not have wife
- Pressure them to marry within your ethnicity/religion
- ????? profit for the wife
- Parents get to gloat about your achievements
- Everyone wonders why you're unhappy


Did i get it right?

@FailedNormieManlet @Chadethnic101 @Chinacurry @elld101 @chinpilled69 @Lonely @SadLivwr @TRUE_CEL @AscensionMan98 @SunniMogger @FrameMogger @rand anon @Zer0/∞ @StreegeReturn @MakinItHappenReturn

Yup my parents never gave a fuck about me pursuing bitches. I hate them for that.

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

South Asian parenting is particularly bad for this

- Put insane amounts of pressure of child to achieve academically
- Refused to let them leave the house alone or hang out with friends to ensure social stunting
- Ban them from dating and cockblock them at every opportunity
- Only recreation time is spent on the internet so they more likely to become introverted or nonNT
- Go to college to study STEM which is filled with other nerds and you now lack the social skills to succeed at uni anyway
- Study even more to get a top tier degree
- Get a prestigious job, don't bother to congratulate your child. Only pick on whatever other faults you feel they need to fix
- Get mad anytime their child dares to have a dissenting opinion
- Couple years go by wagecucking
- ????? Why you not have wife
- Pressure them to marry within your ethnicity/religion
- ????? profit for the wife
- Parents get to gloat about your achievements
- Everyone wonders why you're unhappy


Did i get it right?

@FailedNormieManlet @Chadethnic101 @Chinacurry @elld101 @chinpilled69 @Lonely @SadLivwr @TRUE_CEL @AscensionMan98 @SunniMogger @FrameMogger @rand anon @Zer0/∞ @StreegeReturn @MakinItHappenReturn

it's still fucked me to this day. I feel like a total failure in life

 

[FrameMogger]

South Asian parenting is particularly bad for this

- Put insane amounts of pressure of child to achieve academically
- Refused to let them leave the house alone or hang out with friends to ensure social stunting
- Ban them from dating and cockblock them at every opportunity
- Only recreation time is spent on the internet so they more likely to become introverted or nonNT
- Go to college to study STEM which is filled with other nerds and you now lack the social skills to succeed at uni anyway
- Study even more to get a top tier degree
- Get a prestigious job, don't bother to congratulate your child. Only pick on whatever other faults you feel they need to fix
- Get mad anytime their child dares to have a dissenting opinion
- Couple years go by wagecucking
- ????? Why you not have wife
- Pressure them to marry within your ethnicity/religion
- ????? profit for the wife
- Parents get to gloat about your achievements
- Everyone wonders why you're unhappy


Did i get it right?

@FailedNormieManlet @Chadethnic101 @Chinacurry @elld101 @chinpilled69 @Lonely @SadLivwr @TRUE_CEL @AscensionMan98 @SunniMogger @FrameMogger @rand anon @Zer0/∞ @StreegeReturn @MakinItHappenReturn

The emphasis on family values and being hard working is good. A girl Can always leave you but having money, a good career and a clear path in life don’t.

I do agree that promoting introverted behavior is a bad trait. One way I convinced my parents to let me go out was to tell them that going out with girls and friends is far better than wasting time playing video games and on the internet. At least when I go out, I learn how to socialize well which is an important trait for a career unlike tiktok and neet/Rotter hobbies.

 

[Chinacurry]

South Asian parenting is particularly bad for this

- Put insane amounts of pressure of child to achieve academically
- Refused to let them leave the house alone or hang out with friends to ensure social stunting
- Ban them from dating and cockblock them at every opportunity
- Only recreation time is spent on the internet so they more likely to become introverted or nonNT
- Go to college to study STEM which is filled with other nerds and you now lack the social skills to succeed at uni anyway
- Study even more to get a top tier degree
- Get a prestigious job, don't bother to congratulate your child. Only pick on whatever other faults you feel they need to fix
- Get mad anytime their child dares to have a dissenting opinion
- Couple years go by wagecucking
- ????? Why you not have wife
- Pressure them to marry within your ethnicity/religion
- ????? profit for the wife
- Parents get to gloat about your achievements
- Everyone wonders why you're unhappy


Did i get it right?

@FailedNormieManlet @Chadethnic101 @Chinacurry @elld101 @chinpilled69 @Lonely @SadLivwr @TRUE_CEL @AscensionMan98 @SunniMogger @FrameMogger @rand anon @Zer0/∞ @StreegeReturn @MakinItHappenReturn

Spot on

 

[Oberyn]

no my parents want me to be the full package. full package theory or death. my dad is paying 25k for my surgery jfl

 

[loksr]

The emphasis on family values and being hard working is good. A girl Can always leave you but having money, a good career and a clear path in life don’t.

I do agree that promoting introverted behavior is a bad trait. One way I convinced my parents to let me go out was to tell them that going out with girls and friends is far better than wasting time playing video games and on the internet. At least when I go out, I learn how to socialize well which is an important trait for a career unlike tiktok and neet/Rotter hobbies.

Damn you’re so mentally fucked
They ruined you

 

[FrameMogger]

Damn you’re so mentally fucked
They ruined you

Calm down I’m fine. I have a gf and go out with my friends frequently. I also give a shit about my grades and ECs and networking so I can get a good job out of college.

What I’m saying is that being focused on school and career isn’t a bad thing. But you should also try to get with girls and socialize. If you manage your time well both of those aren’t mutually exclusive.

Also jfl if you think the only reason I socialize is to help my career. I just tell that to my parents so there isn’t friction between us.

 

[thereallegend]

Calm down I’m fine. I have a gf and go out with my friends frequently. I also give a shit about my grades and ECs and networking so I can get a good job out of college.

What I’m saying is that being focused on school and career isn’t a bad thing. But you should also try to get with girls and socialize. If you manage your time well both of those aren’t mutually exclusive.

Also jfl if you think the only reason I socialize is to help my career. I just tell that to my parents so there isn’t friction between us.

I had enough of that and went full 180 by dropping out of college.