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Your relative social value determines where people place you on a scale of 0 (an amalgamation of all negative traits) and 100 (an amalgamation of all positive traits).
The closer you are to 0, the more you're treated like a scary and deadly disease.
The closer you are to 100, the more people will treat you like a literal GOD.

Your relative social value (within your current environment) is determined by a combination of your perceived physical attractiveness, competence, intelligence, race, nationality, ethnicity, neurotypicality, demeanor, skin color, how others treat you, your wisdom, your social influence & importance, your perceived wealth, the status of your social circle, your age, the social status of your group (friends, people who look, speak, act like you, etc.), your wealth, your health, your voice, your mood, the things you own, the people you associate with, how you talk, what you watch, your perceived moral character, how others treat you, and much more.

This is determined by others in milliseconds.

Why is this important?

Because your social value strongly influences how every interaction with other humans turns out for you. Every human interaction.
If you reach a certain threshold of low social value, you literally cannot function in society.

I think there are a few social value groups in our societies

Gods: If you're here, you are basically put on a cloud. You are literally treated like Jesus, Mohammad, or the Buddha. Everyone in your surroundings will put everything down and run to you and tear in utter joy and bow before you. You are above everyone else in every way, you are quite literally transcendent. You are beyond human. People equate your touch as something which can give them superpowers, your presence is beyond ineffable to the average person. People quiver and utterly submit in your presence.

Near-God: People kiss your ass and overcompliment you, people give you great treatment everywhere you go. Many people want to help you. Everyone values you. You are treated with respect, kindness and people deeply empathize with anything that is going wrong in your life. People give you free gifts, go out of their way to show acts of love, appreciation or respect. People really like being around you and you catch the attention of other people. You are put on a pedestal.

Above average: People show you decency but there's a decent sized minority of people who really like you. People show you respect and you are generally valued by other people. You're rarely insulted or get poor treatment. Others wish you well and you are generally respected. Most people show socially acceptable kindness, nothing over the edge. Some people go over the edge to help you.

Average: You are shown decency, with rare exceptions on the positive and negative sides. Most people greet you and ask about your day. People smile at you and you aren't invisible to others in general.

Below average: You are shown decency, but you also are invisible to a fair amount of people. You are not necessarily someone most people would want to associate with but associating with normal people won't ruin their social status. Most people greet you with decency, but some are emotionless and treat you like you're invisible or undesirable. The world is a somewhat cold place. Sometimes people underestimate you.

Outcasted: You are not disgusting but very few people want to talk to you. You're invisible. People don't want to associate with you. You are rarely greeted or shown normal decency. People usually just give emotionless responses to you. The world is a cold place where everyone is uninterested in you. You are not disgusting, just invisivle to normal people. You're consistently underestimated.

Ebola: You are quite literally undesirable. No creature or being wants to be around you. Humans utterly actively stay away from you. Parents protect their kids from you. Nobody wants you around. Nobody wants to associate or be with you. Nobody wants to talk to you. Everyone actively keeps their distance away from you and people feel threatened by your presence as if they were to be attacked or infected. The only people who treat you anywhere in the realm of decent is people with elite level compassion and empathy.

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Your relative social value determines where people place you on a scale of 0 (an amalgamation of all negative traits) and 100 (an amalgamation of all positive traits).
The closer you are to 0, the more you're treated like a scary and deadly disease.
The closer you are to 100, the more people will treat you like a literal GOD.

Your relative social value (within your current environment) is determined by a combination of your perceived physical attractiveness, competence, intelligence, race, nationality, ethnicity, neurotypicality, demeanor, skin color, how others treat you, your wisdom, your social influence & importance, your perceived wealth, the status of your social circle, your age, the social status of your group (friends, people who look, speak, act like you, etc.), your wealth, your health, your voice, your mood, the things you own, the people you associate with, how you talk, what you watch, your perceived moral character, how others treat you, and much more.

This is determined by others in milliseconds.

Why is this important?

Because your social value strongly influences how every interaction with other humans turns out for you. Every human interaction.
If you reach a certain threshold of low social value, you literally cannot function in society.

I think there are a few social value groups in our societies

Gods: If you're here, you are basically put on a cloud. You are literally treated like Jesus, Mohammad, or the Buddha. Everyone in your surroundings will put everything down and run to you and tear in utter joy and bow before you. You are above everyone else in every way, you are quite literally transcendent. You are beyond human. People equate your touch as something which can give them superpowers, your presence is beyond ineffable to the average person. People quiver and utterly submit in your presence.

Near-God: People kiss your ass and overcompliment you, people give you great treatment everywhere you go. Many people want to help you. Everyone values you. You are treated with respect, kindness and people deeply empathize with anything that is going wrong in your life. People give you free gifts, go out of their way to show acts of love, appreciation or respect. People really like being around you and you catch the attention of other people. You are put on a pedestal.

Above average: People show you decency but there's a decent sized minority of people who really like you. People show you respect and you are generally valued by other people. You're rarely insulted or get poor treatment. Others wish you well and you are generally respected. Most people show socially acceptable kindness, nothing over the edge. Some people go over the edge to help you.

Average: You are shown decency, with rare exceptions on the positive and negative sides. Most people greet you and ask about your day. People smile at you and you aren't invisible to others in general.

Below average: You are shown decency, but you also are invisible to a fair amount of people. You are not necessarily someone most people would want to associate with but associating with normal people won't ruin their social status. Most people greet you with decency, but some are emotionless and treat you like you're invisible or undesirable. The world is a somewhat cold place. Sometimes people underestimate you.

Outcasted: You are not disgusting but very few people want to talk to you. You're invisible. People don't want to associate with you. You are rarely greeted or shown normal decency. People usually just give emotionless responses to you. The world is a cold place where everyone is uninterested in you. You are not disgusting, just invisivle to normal people. You're consistently underestimated.

Ebola: You are quite literally undesirable. No creature or being wants to be around you. Humans utterly actively stay away from you. Parents protect their kids from you. Nobody wants you around. Nobody wants to associate or be with you. Nobody wants to talk to you. Everyone actively keeps their distance away from you and people feel threatened by your presence as if they were to be attacked or infected. The only people who treat you anywhere in the realm of decent is people with elite level compassion and empathy.

If you liked this thread, I'd appreciate it if you voted for me here if you haven't expended your votes already. Thanks!
Mirin’ thread to be fair, still not winning FUOTY though bud.
 
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I need to get nominated!
You have to put blood sweat and tears into making high quality threads whilst @ey88 is getting votes for simply existing (nice guy to be fair), brutal stuff man.
 
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Your relative social value determines where people place you on a scale of 0 (an amalgamation of all negative traits) and 100 (an amalgamation of all positive traits).
The closer you are to 0, the more you're treated like a scary and deadly disease.
The closer you are to 100, the more people will treat you like a literal GOD.

Your relative social value (within your current environment) is determined by a combination of your perceived physical attractiveness, competence, intelligence, race, nationality, ethnicity, neurotypicality, demeanor, skin color, how others treat you, your wisdom, your social influence & importance, your perceived wealth, the status of your social circle, your age, the social status of your group (friends, people who look, speak, act like you, etc.), your wealth, your health, your voice, your mood, the things you own, the people you associate with, how you talk, what you watch, your perceived moral character, how others treat you, and much more.

This is determined by others in milliseconds.

Why is this important?

Because your social value strongly influences how every interaction with other humans turns out for you. Every human interaction.
If you reach a certain threshold of low social value, you literally cannot function in society.

I think there are a few social value groups in our societies

Gods: If you're here, you are basically put on a cloud. You are literally treated like Jesus, Mohammad, or the Buddha. Everyone in your surroundings will put everything down and run to you and tear in utter joy and bow before you. You are above everyone else in every way, you are quite literally transcendent. You are beyond human. People equate your touch as something which can give them superpowers, your presence is beyond ineffable to the average person. People quiver and utterly submit in your presence.

Near-God: People kiss your ass and overcompliment you, people give you great treatment everywhere you go. Many people want to help you. Everyone values you. You are treated with respect, kindness and people deeply empathize with anything that is going wrong in your life. People give you free gifts, go out of their way to show acts of love, appreciation or respect. People really like being around you and you catch the attention of other people. You are put on a pedestal.

Above average: People show you decency but there's a decent sized minority of people who really like you. People show you respect and you are generally valued by other people. You're rarely insulted or get poor treatment. Others wish you well and you are generally respected. Most people show socially acceptable kindness, nothing over the edge. Some people go over the edge to help you.

Average: You are shown decency, with rare exceptions on the positive and negative sides. Most people greet you and ask about your day. People smile at you and you aren't invisible to others in general.

Below average: You are shown decency, but you also are invisible to a fair amount of people. You are not necessarily someone most people would want to associate with but associating with normal people won't ruin their social status. Most people greet you with decency, but some are emotionless and treat you like you're invisible or undesirable. The world is a somewhat cold place. Sometimes people underestimate you.

Outcasted: You are not disgusting but very few people want to talk to you. You're invisible. People don't want to associate with you. You are rarely greeted or shown normal decency. People usually just give emotionless responses to you. The world is a cold place where everyone is uninterested in you. You are not disgusting, just invisivle to normal people. You're consistently underestimated.

Ebola: You are quite literally undesirable. No creature or being wants to be around you. Humans utterly actively stay away from you. Parents protect their kids from you. Nobody wants you around. Nobody wants to associate or be with you. Nobody wants to talk to you. Everyone actively keeps their distance away from you and people feel threatened by your presence as if they were to be attacked or infected. The only people who treat you anywhere in the realm of decent is people with elite level compassion and empathy.

If you liked this thread, I'd appreciate it if you voted for me here if you haven't expended your votes already. Thanks!
PPV is more important than actual smv, Psychological perceived value

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Your relative social value determines where people place you on a scale of 0 (an amalgamation of all negative traits) and 100 (an amalgamation of all positive traits).
The closer you are to 0, the more you're treated like a scary and deadly disease.
The closer you are to 100, the more people will treat you like a literal GOD.

Your relative social value (within your current environment) is determined by a combination of your perceived physical attractiveness, competence, intelligence, race, nationality, ethnicity, neurotypicality, demeanor, skin color, how others treat you, your wisdom, your social influence & importance, your perceived wealth, the status of your social circle, your age, the social status of your group (friends, people who look, speak, act like you, etc.), your wealth, your health, your voice, your mood, the things you own, the people you associate with, how you talk, what you watch, your perceived moral character, how others treat you, and much more.

This is determined by others in milliseconds.

Why is this important?

Because your social value strongly influences how every interaction with other humans turns out for you. Every human interaction.
If you reach a certain threshold of low social value, you literally cannot function in society.

I think there are a few social value groups in our societies

Gods: If you're here, you are basically put on a cloud. You are literally treated like Jesus, Mohammad, or the Buddha. Everyone in your surroundings will put everything down and run to you and tear in utter joy and bow before you. You are above everyone else in every way, you are quite literally transcendent. You are beyond human. People equate your touch as something which can give them superpowers, your presence is beyond ineffable to the average person. People quiver and utterly submit in your presence.

Near-God: People kiss your ass and overcompliment you, people give you great treatment everywhere you go. Many people want to help you. Everyone values you. You are treated with respect, kindness and people deeply empathize with anything that is going wrong in your life. People give you free gifts, go out of their way to show acts of love, appreciation or respect. People really like being around you and you catch the attention of other people. You are put on a pedestal.

Above average: People show you decency but there's a decent sized minority of people who really like you. People show you respect and you are generally valued by other people. You're rarely insulted or get poor treatment. Others wish you well and you are generally respected. Most people show socially acceptable kindness, nothing over the edge. Some people go over the edge to help you.

Average: You are shown decency, with rare exceptions on the positive and negative sides. Most people greet you and ask about your day. People smile at you and you aren't invisible to others in general.

Below average: You are shown decency, but you also are invisible to a fair amount of people. You are not necessarily someone most people would want to associate with but associating with normal people won't ruin their social status. Most people greet you with decency, but some are emotionless and treat you like you're invisible or undesirable. The world is a somewhat cold place. Sometimes people underestimate you.

Outcasted: You are not disgusting but very few people want to talk to you. You're invisible. People don't want to associate with you. You are rarely greeted or shown normal decency. People usually just give emotionless responses to you. The world is a cold place where everyone is uninterested in you. You are not disgusting, just invisivle to normal people. You're consistently underestimated.

Ebola: You are quite literally undesirable. No creature or being wants to be around you. Humans utterly actively stay away from you. Parents protect their kids from you. Nobody wants you around. Nobody wants to associate or be with you. Nobody wants to talk to you. Everyone actively keeps their distance away from you and people feel threatened by your presence as if they were to be attacked or infected. The only people who treat you anywhere in the realm of decent is people with elite level compassion and empathy.

If you liked this thread, I'd appreciate it if you voted for me here if you haven't expended your votes already. Thanks!
I voted for u bhai last and this year
 
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Is this sticky worthy?
 
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Is this sticky worthy?
I have to read it fully but skimming through it I don't think it is. It seems interesting though.

I'll give it a full read in a bit.
 
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this thread is an interesting concept I think everyone intuitively knows about and I've always thought about this but never been able to articulate it anywhere near this well, IMO the only people who get god status are celebs if you're not a celeb you can only get near-god at most no matter your other qualities. I think above-average is just anyone who's popular in their environment e.g. well-known gangsters in their respective "hoods", popular kids at school with good social media following etc. I've noticed that people will dickride "popular" people and try to become friends w them solely because they're already popular lol the power of the halo effect.
 
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This is so true it’s almost water but unbelievably many .org users think looks are solely responsible for this social standing. Yes, if you’re GL your standing is naturally easier to improve (halo of girls’ attention, being invited to parties, being good at sports), but you can still max out your social standing without being overly GL. Just gotta fake it till you make it.

Hide any non NT hobbies. Make yourself seem naturally talented by hiding your efforts. Remember to fit in with the crowd but have unique tints here and there. And for the love of gandy don’t let people find out you use .org.
 
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Hide any non NT hobbies. Make yourself seem naturally talented by hiding your efforts. Remember to fit in with the crowd but have unique tints here and there. And for the love of gandy don’t let people find out you use .org.
In theory I already do this yet I still don't have anyone that wants to include me in hangouts and group chats why is this? Maybe it's cuz sometimes I act cringe as a joke but others perceive it as me being annoying/actually being cringe? Maybe I should start trying to take the initiative and setup hangouts instead of waiting to be invited to them?
 
In theory I already do this yet I still don't have anyone that wants to include me in hangouts and group chats why is this? Maybe it's cuz sometimes I act cringe as a joke but others perceive it as me being annoying/actually being cringe? Maybe I should start trying to take the initiative and setup hangouts instead of waiting to be invited to them?
u actually ND? those with genuine autism often just have difficulty with socialising and reading social cues.
if you acting cringe doesn't entertain them, try something else. some friend groups are nonchalant, others are goofy, others are straight up racists or druggies. if you can't fit into the atmosphere of the group, you can
a) switch friend group, i did this to a more accepting fg but realised my old one had higher value so i'm now switching back.
b) keep trying to locate the group psyche and fitting into it.

it could be that some of your personality traits are unlikeable...difficult to pinpoint but theres always those few guys who aren't well liked even though they're totally fine people.
 
u actually ND? those with genuine autism often just have difficulty with socialising and reading social cues.
if you acting cringe doesn't entertain them, try something else. some friend groups are nonchalant, others are goofy, others are straight up racists or druggies. if you can't fit into the atmosphere of the group, you can
a) switch friend group, i did this to a more accepting fg but realised my old one had higher value so i'm now switching back.
b) keep trying to locate the group psyche and fitting into it.

it could be that some of your personality traits are unlikeable...difficult to pinpoint but theres always those few guys who aren't well liked even though they're totally fine people.
I've had a doctor suggest I should be screened for autism but no solid evidence that I'm ND, actually I've realised I do have some friends that actually like me but just not sure what to suggest we should do on a hang out cuz saying "let's just walk around town" may not entice em even though earlier today I saw them doing just that but maybe they did something else before I saw them walking round town so idk how I'd setup a hangout
 
I've had a doctor suggest I should be screened for autism but no solid evidence that I'm ND, actually I've realised I do have some friends that actually like me but just not sure what to suggest we should do on a hang out cuz saying "let's just walk around town" may not entice em even though earlier today I saw them doing just that but maybe they did something else before I saw them walking round town so idk how I'd setup a hangout
u seem to be in school, something I often do is propose an end-of-term hangout after school. we often have half days on the last day of term, so great to go up to the city together and do something seasonal or literally just go to the local nandos for smaller holidays.

avoids the hassle of assembling the group and finding a time when all are free.
 
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