Your subconscious is destroying your chance at success

[takashi64]

We think that in order to get healthy we must eat a salad, if you want to get fat you eat a cheeseburger from McDonalds everyday. Your mind is no different. What you consume on a daily basis is getting directly fed into your subconscious mind and shaping the world around you in every waking moment.

If you want to level up you need to stop consuming so much bullshit on a daily basis. Think about how many times you watch porn, or how much you are complaining about being unattractive and then expect to be able to be confident with women or level up your looks or status.

There is a quote from Neville Goddard that says "Change your conception of yourself and you will automatically change the world in which you live" Once you start thinking about the person you want to be, and once you start becoming that person in your mind your world around you will change so fast you will not recognize your old self.

You cannot plant tomato seeds and expect to get cucumbers back. Your mind is no different. Plant the seeds of how you want to be and become that person. The only think that is stopping you from levelling up is your own perception of yourself.

Reading list:

Feeling is the secret - Neville Goddard
As a man thinketh - James Allen

 

[Gonthar]

If you want to level up you need to stop consuming so much bullshit on a daily basis. Think about how many times you watch porn

Shouldn't watching a lot of porn attract a lot of sluts in your life, begging you to fuck them, this is how this law of attraction stuff should work.....

 

[Deleted member 6305]

 

[takashi64]

Shouldn't watching a lot of porn attract a lot of sluts in your life, begging you to fuck them, this is how this law of attraction stuff should work.....

You would think that but instead it just destroys your ability to talk to women and create real relationships

 

[Gonthar]

You would think that but instead it just destroys your ability to talk to women and create real relationships

But the law of attraction and all those other new thought/new age concepts say that you attract in your life whatever you think about the most. So, by their logic, if you watch a lot of porn and jerk off imagining you are banging sluts, you should attract lots of horny sluts in your life....

 

[ReignsChad]

greycel moment

 

[potentialhabit1]

tru, good take greycel

 

[BUY$DRUGS]

I agree with everything but the porn part. Porn makes you last longer and be more based with real-life whores cause they can't compete with the sluts getting banged on ur computer screen. You attract submissive whores and fuck them good.

 

[betamanlet]

But the law of attraction and all those other new thought/new age concepts say that you attract in your life whatever you think about the most. So, by their logic, if you watch a lot of porn and jerk off imagining you are banging sluts, you should attract lots of horny sluts in your life....

Shouldn't watching a lot of porn attract a lot of sluts in your life, begging you to fuck them, this is how this law of attraction stuff should work.....

You would not attract women, you would attract desperate craving for women. When you're watching porn, do you feel like women are desiring you? Of course not. You feel the thirst for stimulation. More explicit! More hardcore! Thus you will begin to see this need manifesting itself all around you. You begin to see women dress more slutty, to act more slutty. This need to get stimulated by women consumes your life, because you are voluntarily throwing more fuel into the fire every day. Eventually you make an account to incels.is and moan why women aren't fucking you even though they are dancing sluttily all around you.

The crucial point is that in LoA, fake-it-till-you-make-it and other similar beliefs you have to act like whatever you desire is already yours. A want only attracts more want. So, paradoxically, you have to learn to stop desiring the things you desire. Because if you are desiring those things, how are you going to believe that you have already achieved them? If you wanted to attract a woman, you of course would not watch porn, but do whatever else because you knew that the woman of your dreams would already be around the next corner waiting for you and your full balls to find her anyway. That, my friend, is faith.

 

[DuaLipaSimp]

I'm pretty sure it's my face that's destroying my chance at success but thanks for the looksmaxxing advice fellow greycel

 

[Deleted member 13197]

Finally some positivity in this forum, good thread

 

[Gonthar]

You would not attract women, you would attract desperate craving for women. When you're watching porn, do you feel like women are desiring you?

Absolutely! If I imagine I'm in the place of the porn actors, then the women are really thirsty for my cock.

Thus you will begin to see this need manifesting itself all around you. You begin to see women dress more slutty, to act more slutty.

Nope, never saw that...

Eventually you make an account to incels.is and moan why women aren't fucking you even though they are dancing sluttily all around you.

Nope, never made an account on incels.is and never saw women dancing like sluts around me.

The crucial point is that in LoA, fake-it-till-you-make-it and other similar beliefs you have to act like whatever you desire is already yours. A want only attracts more want. So, paradoxically, you have to learn to stop desiring the things you desire.

Yep, did this too, when I approached girls with some corny pick-up lines like in the porn movies, asking them if I can come to their hose to check their pipes or something...Obviously, it didn't work, no situation I was ever in with a girl ever evolved like in a porn movie.

 

[Deleted member 7901]

how tf did this post get 3 upvotes?
just shows how bluepilled this forum is

 

[LILMAXILLA]

You cannot plant tomato seeds and expect to get cucumbers back. Your mind is no different. Plant the seeds of how you want to be and become that person. The only think that is stopping you from levelling up is your own perception of yourself.

Analogies like this are so deceptive. You compare something completely different "seeds and plants" to "thoughts and the brain", to create a strawman argument. Yes it's easier to argue that tomato seeds can't grow into cucumbers, but thought and seeds are not the same thing you manipulative fuck.

I bet the books are filled filled with this crap. Mental gymnastics to make things seem less bad. It's just cope. Maybe it helps with a short term mood issue of yours but in the long term this stuff is damaging because it clouds the reality of your situation, and prevents you from seeing the real reasons why you are stuck.

It's not "my own perception of self" that's "stopping me from levelling up". There are real reasons. Maybe I'm physically stuck in a cell? Maybe I'm fuck ugly and women don't like me? Maybe I'm short as fuck and short men are twice as likely to commit suicide as tall men? Maybe I live in a shit hole country with no opportunities? These are all realities. Pretending that they aren't there won't make them disappear.

There's plenty of other ways to avoid facing reality. You can abuse drugs and alcohol. You can play video games. You can watch tv shows. If you choose self help books that's cool but let's just call it what it is:

COPE

 

[khvirgin]

While calling myself ugly everyday won't benefit me, neither would pretending that I'm not ugly.
You can't build self-esteem out of nothing, your perception of yourself is nothing compared to a single hint of validation from others.

 

[Gonnabechad]

i went from 2.5/3 PSL to 5.5 PSL with the knowledge of this topic. (of course it has been a long way, but the core reason is this)

This, paired with high SMV job and Top 5% income earner of my Country, i went to what you guys call a "Slayer". Plus, in my Country, 5.5 PSL guys get treated like Chad, because of low standards and diversity of phenos.

Should i say that i got rated by multiple people on this forum.

And i'm on my way to 6/6.5 PSL after hardmaxes