You’re Just an Investment to Your Ethnic Parents – Not a Son

[kurd]

They don’t raise you out of love, they raise you with the mindset of “you owe us” the second you’re born.
They’ll have like 3-5 kids, not cause they love big families or whatever but because they’re playing the odds. One of y’all has to make it. One of y’all has to become the “successful one” that takes care of everyone else.

And if you’re the oldest or the “smart one,” congrats, you just became the family’s backup retirement plan.

You’re expected to get perfect grades, go into some high-paying job you don’t even like, sacrifice your mental health, and carry the whole family on your back all while acting grateful for it.

It’s not “support,” it’s pressure.
You start overstudying, overworking, constantly overthinking if you're doing enough, feeling like a failure even when you're doing decent.
You can’t relax, your cortisol levels are always high, and you feel like you’ll never be enough no matter what you do.

They’ll say they love you, but it’s conditional as hell.
Love = performance.
Love = results.

It messes with your head.

 

[pope]

I'm white but it was the same with my family, except they only had one kid

 

[kurd]

@Gengar @lastredeemer @SecularIslamist

 

[160cmcurry]

do the bare minimum if you have ethnic parents
lalalala

 

[lastredeemer]

Didn’t even have to read 100% true words.

My parents already want to plan my whole life out. They don’t give a fuck what I say

The want to plan my marriage, they don’t want me to move out until I’m like 25 or ever.

They want to pick my college major and career.

 

[FaceandBBC]

This seems to apply more to East/ South Asian parents tbh. Some black parents just don't give a shit about their child.

 

[chadhamed]

This seems to apply more to East/ South Asian parents tbh. Some black parents just don't give a shit about their child.

Fr usually curry and gooks are like ts

 

[Proex]

They don’t raise you out of love, they raise you with the mindset of “you owe us” the second you’re born.
They’ll have like 3-5 kids, not cause they love big families or whatever but because they’re playing the odds. One of y’all has to make it. One of y’all has to become the “successful one” that takes care of everyone else.

And if you’re the oldest or the “smart one,” congrats, you just became the family’s backup retirement plan.

You’re expected to get perfect grades, go into some high-paying job you don’t even like, sacrifice your mental health, and carry the whole family on your back all while acting grateful for it.

It’s not “support,” it’s pressure.
You start overstudying, overworking, constantly overthinking if you're doing enough, feeling like a failure even when you're doing decent.
You can’t relax, your cortisol levels are always high, and you feel like you’ll never be enough no matter what you do.

They’ll say they love you, but it’s conditional as hell.
Love = performance.
Love = results.

It messes with your head.

Yrs thats ehy i'm a disgrace for my family gor being lazy

 

[ethnic subhuman]

JFL THIS IS SO REAL, MY ETHNIC PARENTS BELIEVE THAT I OWE THEM MY LIFE AND THAT I WAS BORN TO OBEY THEM LIKE A DOG

 

[Jason Voorhees]

This seems to apply more to East/ South Asian parents tbh. Some black parents just don't give a shit about their child.

This

 

[Radio]

Didn’t even have to read 100% true words.

My parents already want to plan my whole life out. They don’t give a fuck what I say

The want to plan my marriage, they don’t want me to move out until I’m like 25 or ever.

They want to pick my college major and career.

what are they forcing you to do

 

[Squidwardmaxx]

YOU are an investment. A financial once, at that matter.

 

[Radio]

my parents are forcing me to be a doctor i have no interest in anything so i have to do this

 

[lastredeemer]

what are they forcing you to do

Well for one. They are definitely gonna force me to marry my cousin (she’s hot idc)

They are gonna force me to study engineering and become and engineer.

They also won’t let me dorm at uni. They said “we are quiet people” and shit.

How would they know what kinda person I am??? They barely know anything about me.

Nothing ever changes with ethnic parents. 0 point of talking about it.

 

[Radio]

Well for one. They are definitely gonna force me to marry my cousin (she’s hot idc)

They are gonna force me to study engineering and become and engineer.

They also won’t let me dorm at uni. They said “we are quiet people” and shit.

How would they know what kinda person I am??? They barely know anything about me.

Nothing ever changes with ethnic parents. 0 point of talking about it.

brutal but atleast you have an arranged marriage with a hot cousin set up, my parents told me if i needed an arranged marriage they will find some girl in the middle of gujarat and make her marry me but i dont want an indian wife

 

[subhuman929]

and then white parents do whatever it takes to give you money till you are 30 year old incel

 

[kurd]

Well for one. They are definitely gonna force me to marry my cousin (she’s hot idc)

They are gonna force me to study engineering and become and engineer.

They also won’t let me dorm at uni. They said “we are quiet people” and shit.

How would they know what kinda person I am??? They barely know anything about me.

Nothing ever changes with ethnic parents. 0 point of talking about it.

I literally developed being a introvert and having social anxiety all due to my parents…

Never let me go out, never let me do anything with friends.. Here comes the worst part..

NOT ALLOWING YOUR SON TO HAVE A GIRLFRIEND,

JFLLL, i was literally LTN at high school and had so many oppurtinites to have a girlfriend but my parents brainwashed me with i will go to hell bullshit for having a girlfriend.. Dude, do you know healthy it is to have a girlfriend when youre a teenager? your whole fear of women goes away.. you’ll know how women work, you’ll automatically be more social due to literally being in a relationship with the opposite gender. Retarded as fuck. And girls are the easiest to date even if youre LTN at your teenage years. They’re hormones will go crazy to the point they dont care abt your face but theyre looking for experiences and some dick,

 

[kurd]

and then white parents do whatever it takes to give you money till you are 30 year old incel

Literally all my white friends are blessed, their parents love them no matter WHAT happens, you rape someone? “oh noo baby… its going to be fine you didn’t mean to lets get you to therapy we’ll pay for all of it… oh you’re on bail baby we’ll pay for it don’t worry, oh you wanna go to another country and study there? don’t worry baby we’ll always love you” Meanwhile ethnic parents..

 

[subhuman929]

Literally all my white friends are blessed, their parents love them no matter WHAT happens, you rape someone? “oh noo baby… its going to be fine you didn’t mean to lets get you to therapy we’ll pay for all of it… oh you’re on bail baby we’ll pay for it don’t worry, oh you wanna go to another country and study there? don’t worry baby we’ll always love you” Meanwhile ethnic parents..

yeah its like that and thats for the AVERAGE white guy, imagine average girl or rich guy, yeahhh...

 

[averagenormie]

I must be the one then

 

[lastredeemer]

brutal but atleast you have an arranged marriage with a hot cousin set up, my parents told me if i needed an arranged marriage they will find some girl in the middle of gujarat and make her marry me but i dont want an indian wife

bro why don’t you like jeetas

I literally developed being a introvert and having social anxiety all due to my parents…

Never let me go out, never let me do anything with friends.. Here comes the worst part..

NOT ALLOWING YOUR SON TO HAVE A GIRLFRIEND,

JFLLL, i was literally LTN at high school and had so many oppurtinites to have a girlfriend but my parents brainwashed me with i will go to hell bullshit for having a girlfriend.. Dude, do you know healthy it is to have a girlfriend when youre a teenager? your whole fear of women goes away.. you’ll know how women work, you’ll automatically be more social due to literally being in a relationship with the opposite gender. Retarded as fuck. And girls are the easiest to date even if youre LTN at your teenage years. They’re hormones will go crazy to the point they dont care abt your face but theyre looking for experiences and some dick,

My parents have that iraq war ptsd. My mom thinks I’ll be brutally murdered and kidnapped or step on an IED if she’s lets me go outside.

My dad thinks I hang out with the wrong crowd at school and will start selling drugs if I go out.

My parents never let me go out either.

Could not relate more….

 

[g4rlic]

This seems to apply more to East/ South Asian parents tbh. Some black parents just don't give a shit about their child.

Cuz they usually lack discipline or morals themselves lol

 

[Radio]

bro why don’t you like jeetas

am i supposed to

My parents have that iraq war ptsd. My mom thinks I’ll be brutally murdered and kidnapped or step on an IED if she’s lets me go outside.

My dad thinks I hang out with the wrong crowd at school and will start selling drugs if I go out.

My parents never let me go out either.

Could not relate more….

israel caused this for you

 

[g4rlic]

brutal but atleast you have an arranged marriage with a hot cousin set up, my parents told me if i needed an arranged marriage they will find some girl in the middle of gujarat and make her marry me but i dont want an indian wife

You should be thankful tbh. Indian girls are cute. I know a club penguin looking mother fucker at work in an arranged marriage. It would be completely over otherwise

 

[lastredeemer]

I literally developed being a introvert and having social anxiety all due to my parents…

Never let me go out, never let me do anything with friends.. Here comes the worst part..

NOT ALLOWING YOUR SON TO HAVE A GIRLFRIEND,

JFLLL, i was literally LTN at high school and had so many oppurtinites to have a girlfriend but my parents brainwashed me with i will go to hell bullshit for having a girlfriend.. Dude, do you know healthy it is to have a girlfriend when youre a teenager? your whole fear of women goes away.. you’ll know how women work, you’ll automatically be more social due to literally being in a relationship with the opposite gender. Retarded as fuck. And girls are the easiest to date even if youre LTN at your teenage years. They’re hormones will go crazy to the point they dont care abt your face but theyre looking for experiences and some dick,

NOT TO MENTION THE HYPOCRISY.

Parents didn’t want me to go to Islamic school because they were afraid I would become radicalized and join daesh or something.

THEN they also didn’t let me assimilate to the west so I’m truly outcasted. Can’t relate to the domestics and can’t relate to the FOBs.

 

[Radio]

NOT TO MENTION THE HYPOCRISY.

Parents didn’t want me to go to Islamic school because they were afraid I would become radicalized and join daesh or something.

THEN they also didn’t let me assimilate to the west so I’m truly outcasted. Can’t relate to the domestics and can’t relate to the FOBs.

how old are you lol wdym join daesh? do they have child soldiers? i wouldnt be surprised if they do

 

[Radio]

You should be thankful tbh. Indian girls are cute. I know a club penguin looking mother fucker at work in an arranged marriage. It would be completely over otherwise

i guess its better than being alone

 

[lastredeemer]

how old are you lol wdym join daesh? do they have child soldiers? i wouldnt be surprised if they do

they just didn’t want me to become an Islam extremist. When I grew up.

I’m about to be 16 and I have never prayed in my life. I’m not even Muslim other than no pork and Ramadan.

 

[kurd]

NOT TO MENTION THE HYPOCRISY.

Parents didn’t want me to go to Islamic school because they were afraid I would become radicalized and join daesh or something.

THEN they also didn’t let me assimilate to the west so I’m truly outcasted. Can’t relate to the domestics and can’t relate to the FOBs.

LOLL…. JFL SAME FUCKING THING, WHEN I WAS A TEEN STUDYING ISLAM BECAUSE I DID NOT UNDERSTAND WHY THE FUCK I WAS MUSLIM I literally learned fucking arabic just to read the quran and hadeeth and they were telling me im gonna become daeshi, Jfl you know what happened? i literally began to sympathetize with isis after studying islam, at that point i knew that this religion is bs and left islam because thats literally what happens to anyone that studies islam, just like all my cousins back home left it after they studied islam. Most muslims are just muslim cause of their families > they just pray 5 times a day and don’t go further into it.

 

[Gonthar]

 

[Radio]

they just didn’t want me to become an Islam extremist. When I grew up.

I’m about to be 16 and I have never prayed in my life. I’m not even Muslim other than no pork and Ramadan.

i thought arabic was a cool looking language like a year ago i tried to learn it and my mom freaked out thinking i was gonna become muslim a terrorist and start murdering hindus

 

[lastredeemer]

LOLL…. JFL SAME FUCKING THING, WHEN I WAS A TEEN STUDYING ISLAM BECAUSE I DID NOT UNDERSTAND WHY THE FUCK I WAS MUSLIM I literally learned fucking arabic just to read the quran and hadeeth and they were telling me im gonna become daeshi, Jfl you know what happened? i literally began to sympathetize with isis after studying islam, at that point i knew that this religion is bs and left islam because thats literally what happens to anyone that studies islam, just like all my cousins back home left it after they studied islam. Most muslims are just muslim cause of their families > they just pray 5 times a day and don’t go further into it.

My dad literally used to drink and smoke and didn’t pray until he was like 35.

My mom is a moderate religious but she (and nobody else in my family) wear hijabs.

 

[lastredeemer]

ARE YOU DOCTOR YETTTT

 

[lastredeemer]

i thought arabic was a cool looking language like a year ago i tried to learn it and my mom freaked out thinking i was gonna become muslim a terrorist and start murdering hindus

Idk what my parents want from me. My brother is 19 and doesn’t pray either.

Do they want us to assimilate? Or not.

They still force these sandnigger values down our throats so idk.

 

[ilyrzk]

They don’t raise you out of love, they raise you with the mindset of “you owe us” the second you’re born.
They’ll have like 3-5 kids, not cause they love big families or whatever but because they’re playing the odds. One of y’all has to make it. One of y’all has to become the “successful one” that takes care of everyone else.

And if you’re the oldest or the “smart one,” congrats, you just became the family’s backup retirement plan.

You’re expected to get perfect grades, go into some high-paying job you don’t even like, sacrifice your mental health, and carry the whole family on your back all while acting grateful for it.

It’s not “support,” it’s pressure.
You start overstudying, overworking, constantly overthinking if you're doing enough, feeling like a failure even when you're doing decent.
You can’t relax, your cortisol levels are always high, and you feel like you’ll never be enough no matter what you do.

They’ll say they love you, but it’s conditional as hell.
Love = performance.
Love = results.

It messes with your head.

just save until your 18 and ghost theory

 

[ilyrzk]

I’m about to be 16 and I have never prayed in my life. I’m not even Muslim other than no pork and Ramadan.

so real

 

[lastredeemer]

just save until your 18 and ghost theory

But that’s fucked up.

They still love you. But in like a sandnigger way.

My mom would be heartbroken if I did that and my dad would be very upset and angry.

 

[Radio]

Idk what my parents want from me. My brother is 19 and doesn’t pray either.

Do they want us to assimilate? Or not.

They still force these sandnigger values down our throats so idk.

as soon as i stepped foot into this country i became an atheist, also they think the people here are very accepting in school or whatever and that you dont need to assimilate to be successful

 

[ilyrzk]

But that’s fucked up.

They still love you. But in like a sandnigger way.

My mom would be heartbroken if I did that and my dad would be very upset and angry.

not really, my reletionship currently is litch conditional i pay half the rent at 16

 

[Radio]

But that’s fucked up.

They still love you. But in like a sandnigger way.

My mom would be heartbroken if I did that and my dad would be very upset and angry.

i am probably gonna have to live with my parents until i get married because thats "tradition" or whatever and that leaving when youre 18 is "the white way." Also i will have to live with them for college too no dorm and if i go out of state they will move with me

 

[lastredeemer]

not really, my reletionship currently is litch conditional i pay half the rent at 16

most ethnics are broke but my dad is already successful. He worked in the ministry of interior in Iraq so it’s not like he came with nothing.

i am probably gonna have to live with my parents until i get married because thats "tradition" or whatever and that leaving when youre 18 is "the white way." Also i will have to live with them for college too no dorm and if i go out of state they will move with me

My parents said the exact same thing. And I can’t really say anything because my parents are the ones who are paying me and my brother all the way through college.

 

[ilyrzk]

most ethnics are broke but my dad is already successful. He worked in the ministry of interior in Iraq so it’s not like he came with nothing.


My parents said the exact same thing. And I can’t really say anything because my parents are the ones who are paying me and my brother all the way through college.

haha both of mine both work full time they will js fuck all my shit up if i dont, broke my 4k pc self funded last time i refused to pay. day im 18 im out this mfo

 

[lastredeemer]

haha both of mine both work full time they will js fuck all my shit up if i dont, broke my 4k pc self funded last time i refused to pay. day im 18 im out this mfo

What do they say in order to ask for the money? Or when you don’t give it what do they say?

Also where are your parents from?

 

[Radio]

most ethnics are broke but my dad is already successful. He worked in the ministry of interior in Iraq so it’s not like he came with nothing.


My parents said the exact same thing. And I can’t really say anything because my parents are the ones who are paying me and my brother all the way through college.

same jfl they want me to get a full scholarship (im not high iq enough for that) and they want me to go to an ivy league (never gonna happen) yet they want me to stay home until i get married?

 

[ilyrzk]

What do they say in order to ask for the money? Or when you don’t give it what do they say?

Also where are your parents from?

you owe us or we gave you everything this is your obligation, i will take away everything u built. Legit threw the pc out the window fucking scum.
somali

condesinding hypocritical pieces of shit they think bc they pray they r the rightous one, my older sister works they dont ask nun of her

 

[kurd]

you owe us or we gave you everything this is your obligation, i will take away everything u built. Legit threw the pc out the window fucking scum.
somali

condesinding hypocritical pieces of shit they think bc they pray they r the rightous one, my older sister works they dont ask nun of her

This is another thing bro,

They do not expect their daughter to help
them
or to be smart or successful, they literally just marry off their daughters to some rich sub5
thinking it will make the bloodline better. They only view you as a investment