Because I'm willing to sacrifice my own ego for a healthy relationship, but most people aren't. Just because the odds aren't in your favor it doesn't mean you give up. That's like the antithesis of masculinity.
Definitely not.
You are very smart
In fact, they're probably ideal. Like a more traditional minded woman who is a tomboy.
Nah, I'm not lol, but I appreciate it
Nah you are definitely higher IQ than most of this forum lol.
Just say you like men
Nigga what? How did you come to that conclusion?
I feel like women tend to be more pro-social than men. Therefore, it may track that women who have more masculine interests would perhaps fall in line with more anti-social tendencies.
I don't know I just want to be part of the conversation
Appreciate, bro. You too.
It's perhaps my only hope at getting a high quality LTR anyways at this rate. I am too esoteric personality wise.
That's why they're better
Yeah, it may not sound all that great, but you may have to generate a bit of a social media presence. Not influencer-level of course, but if you want to meet some anti-social girl, you're going to have to be present online to a certain extent, and/or go to events that have to do with these communities.
Yeah you need to bitch slap them
They don't have to look like tomboys lol, just in terms of their interests.
So you like women but with a manly mind
same
cosplaying is usually the gold standard in this regard
No you are not
I know a 5’5 ltn who only goes after autistic or mentally ill girls and he’s already had sex before me
That's what I'm telling you it's so easy
But he’s autistic himself, Im just socially awkward, I cannot match with mentally ill women
Depressing
he sent me his ranking of penis colours nigga, that should be enough to show you that he’s autistic. I just struggle to speak to people normally
that’s why you meet them online or at psych rehab centers
women are less social than men. It's just that due to female/looks privileges they have an easier time socializing and forming deeper bonds/connection.
They are absolutely more social. I don't think there's a biological difference because that's not my area, but generally speaking, girls are raised in a more hands-on sense than boys, which contributes to a healthier and more lively social life.
proof?
Never experienced this whatsoever. It's true that there's more lonely teenage boys than girls, but that is because of the same social gender privilege I mentioned earlier.
??? what past. what u yapping about
this is the exact privilege I talk about and it is bound to their gender + female looks.
It's just an observable truth, but I'm sure there's credible research into this. And I'm not saying the gap is huge, but it is there.
I should have clarified that when I said "anti-social", I wasn't referring to the stereotypical kind of individual, such as those you'd encounter on here. I mean, if a teenage boy sacrifices his social life for interests, academics, and/or other characteristic things, he won't be made to feel out of place as much in general.
I was referring to when women had less rights, and were more prone to being stay-at-home wives for instance. Perhaps back then, women were more anti-social but probably not as substantial. But this is besides my point.
Yeah, I agree with you that women are privileged in this way; you just happen to think that they aren't more social.
Cope, I'm ugly.
Kind of cope
its not a truth and it is not observable
thats just your family and your experience.
the past is irrelevant and useless to argue about
you think that they are more social when they are just more privileged. theres a massive difference.
why do you think women would be more social if they werent socially privileged?
Well, it is, but we can agree to disagree.
I am not even referring to my own experience. I am speaking only in general.
They are, sure. But anti-social behavior is more normalized or perhaps tolerated (if normalized is too strong a word here) in men than it is with women. Both of these things can be true at once.
Not necessarily. We're talking about gender here, for which there is a history, but, yes, as I said, it's beyond the main point.
To a certain extent, they are more social because of their privilege. That's my point. You're hyperfixating on the privilege part, which I don't disagree with at all.
I don't. That is my whole point. Women are more social because of how they're generally raised and treated by society.
You have no proof or anything to support your claims. Just 'your own experience', which is very likely to be influenced by the overall 'woman are wonderful' effect that has people attribute more positive character traits to women compared to men.
calling it anti-social behavior is blaming the teenage kid for being socially rejected which is just brutal.
Well yes but this is water. If people treat you better, you are more likely to seek out interaction with people.
Like I discussed above, it is SUPER TERRIBLE for men that there is leniency towards boys being treated like dog-shit and boys ending up socially isolated.
?????
It's terrible that it is normalized for men to be socially rejected by society.
If you don't think women are more social than men, that's fine, but you're not in the majority there. And I'm not going to start citing social science journals to prove such an obvious point. I mean, what's your proof?
Well, we certainly cannot completely control our biases; that being said, I do think if anyone's allowing their personal experiences to interfere with their perception of reality here, it's mainly you, which is fine by the way; we all do it.
This has nothing to do with anything I've actually said.
I'm not blaming anyone here. Once again, you're allowing your emotions to cloud your judgement. If anything, I've gotten across that young men who are anti-social can, to a certain extent, blame others for it.
I agree with this, and the why is exactly what I've been talking about. That being said, the young men we're talking about here don't have to live lonely lives. But their experiences have made them believe that they do, which, yes, is a societal problem that needs to be alleviated.
No, I didn't. This is just your incorrect reading of what I've written.
Yes, I agree with this. This is definitely an area in which men have it harder. People aren't necessarily going to have empathy for you if you're lonely as a young man. We're on the same page; you're just misreading what I'm saying to a ridiculous extent.
Is it actually obvious to you? You seem to have taken issue with it.
But I've never claimed it to be an advantage... All I've said is that anti-social behavior is somewhat more normalized in men than it is in women. When I say normalized, I'm not saying that it's a good thing, but that society, for whatever reason, doesn't regard it as they do with women. My point is that it should be different, that the way in which boys are raised is a disadvantage.
your entire post was making it seem like you were largely blaming men for being socially isolated, while embracing women for being so pro-social that they avoid this situation through their own merit.
It's all good, dude. I get and agree with what you take issue with. And I don't blame you for misunderstanding, since I'm sure this topic means a lot to you. It means a lot to me as well.
