FailedNormieManlet
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Before anyone says "FAILEDNORMIEMANLET WHY ARE YOU FRIENDS WITH SUCH A RETARD?!?" I'm not really "friends" with this dude, we just smoke weed and sometimes hang out, and I give him advice on life and other shit. It's weird, he considers me a very close friend, but I don't really consider myself to be that close with him, there's a weird sort of mental disconnect with him and me. He is now improving since I told him to read the 48 laws of power as a starting point on how to be less socially autistic - but to be frank he was quite reluctant at first and was telling me how he doesn't need any of that shit because he is well respected and a "savage" amongst his peers (oh how wrong he was as you my reader will find out later on in this post)
So how does someone socially retarded behave? I'll give some bullet points
What he should have done:- He should have either ignored it or if he did really want to speak out on it. Just politely said "excuse me I am speaking right now, it's a bit rude you guys are whispering over me, I'm trying to help everyone out here with my answer" or something along those lines.
What he should have done:- Firstly he should recognise the advantages of such an easy position he was given. Secondly he should have tried to convince the president to switch roles with him next year by telling him how it would benefit both of them e.g. "I think it would be best for both of us if I did a year of diversity officer and then switched with you for president, it would look good on both of our applications as it shows we've had a bit of diversity in our work experience, for example we can both say we know how to deal with the mental health of a team through our role as diversity officer as well know how to lead a team through experiences as president. Thus we would both be overall better team leaders and players". Can you see how much more convincing and likeable my argument sounds vs this idiot?
What I would do:- I'd send 1 fucking message and that's it. I'll wait for the reply and if he messages back, he messages back.
When I told him to read 48 laws of power his arrogant delusional worldview came crashing down on him. He started to realise that perhaps he isn't this likeable savage he once thought he was, that he was in fact his arrogant delusional cunt and that most people just avoid him because people aren't naturally confrontational. You see even after reading the 48 laws of power, he still struggles with social situations, he still makes the same mistakes and he still doesn't understand wtf to do.
What distinguishes someone with a decent level of social intelligence and a low level isn't wit or banter (that plays a factor and this case study has a very limited vocabulary) but it's the ability to understand covert communication as well as knowing how others will feel. He just goes off on whatever his emotions tell him and refuses to think, he can't take a hint and doesn't understand that people don't need to be direct to send a message.
I've known this guy for a few years and this stuff is merely touching the surface on his delusion and autism. He isn't a bad person, but is very arrogant and his inability to read social situations or understand how to sweet talk people will fuck him up in the future for sure. His lack of subtlty, his use of simple words, his lack of ability to engage in a higher form of intellectual conversation, etc. It makes him just appear like a loud brute and that sort of image doesn't play well amongst university students especially medicine students who are normally quite smart and come from educated backgrounds.
So how does someone socially retarded behave? I'll give some bullet points
- He often "brags" about how much of a "savage" he is, his savage behaviour consists of directly arguing with people in class. One such example was, when he was in class and a girl whispered to her friend when he was answering a question during group work (his group already dislikes him due to this behaviour) but he asked the girl "what are you talking about? Do you think you're funny?"
What he should have done:- He should have either ignored it or if he did really want to speak out on it. Just politely said "excuse me I am speaking right now, it's a bit rude you guys are whispering over me, I'm trying to help everyone out here with my answer" or something along those lines.
- Another example of this guy's autism. He wanted to start a society for the medical speciality he was interested in and some other guys were interested too. He wanted president, but the others in the group decided to designate him the role of "mental health and diversity officer". He got mad and messaged them "what? mental health and diversity officer??" and then further had told one of them "I don't want that role, I could leave that role right now and it wouldn't affect me, I'm literally going to be doing research with a few doctors and it will look good on my application!"
What he should have done:- Firstly he should recognise the advantages of such an easy position he was given. Secondly he should have tried to convince the president to switch roles with him next year by telling him how it would benefit both of them e.g. "I think it would be best for both of us if I did a year of diversity officer and then switched with you for president, it would look good on both of our applications as it shows we've had a bit of diversity in our work experience, for example we can both say we know how to deal with the mental health of a team through our role as diversity officer as well know how to lead a team through experiences as president. Thus we would both be overall better team leaders and players". Can you see how much more convincing and likeable my argument sounds vs this idiot?
- When this retard's own friends were complaining to me because he was blowing people's phone up sending messages asking to hang out
What I would do:- I'd send 1 fucking message and that's it. I'll wait for the reply and if he messages back, he messages back.
When I told him to read 48 laws of power his arrogant delusional worldview came crashing down on him. He started to realise that perhaps he isn't this likeable savage he once thought he was, that he was in fact his arrogant delusional cunt and that most people just avoid him because people aren't naturally confrontational. You see even after reading the 48 laws of power, he still struggles with social situations, he still makes the same mistakes and he still doesn't understand wtf to do.
What distinguishes someone with a decent level of social intelligence and a low level isn't wit or banter (that plays a factor and this case study has a very limited vocabulary) but it's the ability to understand covert communication as well as knowing how others will feel. He just goes off on whatever his emotions tell him and refuses to think, he can't take a hint and doesn't understand that people don't need to be direct to send a message.
I've known this guy for a few years and this stuff is merely touching the surface on his delusion and autism. He isn't a bad person, but is very arrogant and his inability to read social situations or understand how to sweet talk people will fuck him up in the future for sure. His lack of subtlty, his use of simple words, his lack of ability to engage in a higher form of intellectual conversation, etc. It makes him just appear like a loud brute and that sort of image doesn't play well amongst university students especially medicine students who are normally quite smart and come from educated backgrounds.