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Im 21 and still involuntary virgin. How worse will get things for me in the future ? Im afraid that ill wake up one day and im 30 while still being a complete loser virgin. Sexhavers please stay out of this thread, thank you.
 
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I'm almost 40 and basically a virgin. I've had sex with less than 20 girls for sure, I'm not sure how many. And I haven't had sex in about two or three years.

It's horrible, and you want to give up. The constant rejection hurts in your 20s but it feels like there's no point when you're almost 40.

All I want is one girl to be my girlfriend.

Still I'm going to keep approaching girls. I don't give a fuck.
 
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You become smarter.
 
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Didn't hold hands, or kiss, or have sex, or go on a date, or anything until I was late 20s. This was not for lack of trying and getting rejected hundreds of times IRL and thousands or tens of thousands on apps.

It's really hard to catch up to your peers, when it took you that long to get the basics. Not going to prom. Not dating, or talking to girls in high school or college really sets you back.

Like if Op doesn't have any positive interactions with any girls for six more years, despite getting rejected hundreds of times IRL, he'll wind up like me. Permanently an incel in his head, no matter how charismatic, good looking, etc. he becomes on the outside.

Most girls reject most guys, no matter what, so with every rejection he gets in his 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, and 70s, he'll feel the weight of a lifetime of rejections and getting treated poorely by men and women.
 
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Didn't hold hands, or kiss, or have sex, or go on a date, or anything until I was late 20s. This was not for lack of trying and getting rejected hundreds of times IRL and thousands or tens of thousands on apps.

It's really hard to catch up to your peers, when it took you that long to get the basics. Not going to prom. Not dating, or talking to girls in high school or college really sets you back.

Like if Op doesn't have any positive interactions with any girls for six more years, despite getting rejected hundreds of times IRL, he'll wind up like me. Permanently an incel in his head, no matter how charismatic, good looking, etc. he becomes on the outside.

Most girls reject most guys, no matter what, so with every rejection he gets in his 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, and 70s, he'll feel the weight of a lifetime of rejections and getting treated poorely by men and women.
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Didn't hold hands, or kiss, or have sex, or go on a date, or anything until I was late 20s. This was not for lack of trying and getting rejected hundreds of times IRL and thousands or tens of thousands on apps.

It's really hard to catch up to your peers, when it took you that long to get the basics. Not going to prom. Not dating, or talking to girls in high school or college really sets you back.

Like if Op doesn't have any positive interactions with any girls for six more years, despite getting rejected hundreds of times IRL, he'll wind up like me. Permanently an incel in his head, no matter how charismatic, good looking, etc. he becomes on the outside.

Most girls reject most guys, no matter what, so with every rejection he gets in his 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, and 70s, he'll feel the weight of a lifetime of rejections and getting treated poorely by men and women.
I only had 1 relationship in my life (last year in December) and it didnt even last a month. This made me lose my hugless and handholdless status but im still a virgin. I will very likely die a virgin and not ever get into a relatonship again, let alone sex
 
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Im 21 and still involuntary virgin. How worse will get things for me in the future ? Im afraid that ill wake up one day and im 30 while still being a complete loser virgin. Sexhavers please stay out of this thread, thank you.
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Im 21 and still involuntary virgin. How worse will get things for me in the future ? Im afraid that ill wake up one day and im 30 while still being a complete loser virgin. Sexhavers please stay out of this thread, thank you.
women at your age got fucked by men with experience meanwhile you still dont know how to put it in (same bro :feelsrope:)
 
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Powers beyond your imagination.
 
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I'm almost 40 and basically a virgin. I've had sex with less than 20 girls for sure, I'm not sure how many. And I haven't had sex in about two or three years.

It's horrible, and you want to give up. The constant rejection hurts in your 20s but it feels like there's no point when you're almost 40.

All I want is one girl to be my girlfriend.

Still I'm going to keep approaching girls. I don't give a fuck.
living in the west? at your age just passportmaxx some virgin foid and wife her.
 
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Give me some of that Grad A copium. Lmao asexual in Mumbai, asexuality is like god, doesnt exist
im khhv but asexual and aromantic.
 
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You were born to become a janitor, not to have sex.

Accept it.
 
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what you look like
Medium blond curly hair (naturally straight), dark eyebrows, recessed browridge, normal maxilla, normal zygos, jaw is a beat weak and chin is recessed. Eye area: dark green eyes, NCT, UEE, weak infraorbitals.

My only good trait is my smile and my bite
 
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I remember u posting that u had a gf why didn’t u fuck her
 
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I turn 30 next year. I don’t see myself magically losing my virginity before then, so this post is applicable to me. I honestly don’t think about sex anymore, before it was this big goal that I have to achieve and now I just accept that it’s over.

Yeah I could cope and get an escort, but what’s the point? The experience won’t be as fulfilling as having sex with a girl who is genuinely attracted to you. I wish I was still 21 like you, do what you have to do so you don’t end up like me. You have such a blessing being that young. You won’t see it now, but trust me do not waste any more of your life.
 
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I turn 30 next year. I don’t see myself magically losing my virginity before then, so this post is applicable to me. I honestly don’t think about sex anymore, before it was this big goal that I have to achieve and now I just accept that it’s over.

Yeah I could cope and get an escort, but what’s the point? The experience won’t be as fulfilling as having sex with a girl who is genuinely attracted to you. I wish I was still 21 like you, do what you have to do so you don’t end up like me. You have such a blessing being that young. You won’t see it now, but trust me do not waste any more of your life.
Wasting my life would imply that i had a chancd tk begin with, but i get what you mean
 
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@Shogun I'm a very similar situation as you
 
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living in the west? at your age just passportmaxx some virgin foid and wife her.
That's my plan. Building up a remote income with a solo business so I can move. Should be good to move in a couple years.

For now though, I do have some success when I talk to girls and stuff. I just kinda, didn't for a couple years, which is more so the reason I wasn't getting laid. Every one that doesn't know my age, assumes I'm late 20s from looking at me, which isn't bad. Smashed some 18 year olds when I was 36. But it requires me being extremely social, and a lot of time, when I'm focused on getting my income up so I can go move to SEA.
 
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That's my plan. Building up a remote income with a solo business so I can move. Should be good to move in a couple years.

For now though, I do have some success when I talk to girls and stuff. I just kinda, didn't for a couple years, which is more so the reason I wasn't getting laid. Every one that doesn't know my age, assumes I'm late 20s from looking at me, which isn't bad. Smashed some 18 year olds when I was 36. But it requires me being extremely social, and a lot of time, when I'm focused on getting my income up so I can go move to SEA.
are you NT ?
 

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