20+ year old virgins, how do you not go insane?

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Tbh I am more concerned about STDs and I am broke
 
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But I just can't get over that hump of paying to lose v card. It's such a shameful disgusting and depressing concept.
 
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NGL. This is probably the right move for me. My main problem is being non NT and having fear of women.
escorts don't care, just say hi when she opens the door and go to the room that's it
 
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vote for kamala
 
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What s your problem? Looks, inhibition, lack of exposure to women? The last one is a common silent killer for guys who cant just leave the room and get women interested
 
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escorts don't care, just say hi when she opens the door and go to the room that's it
Yeah that's why its probably the right move. At least my confidence should go up and I have less problems interacting with foids. But I just can't bring myself to do it.
 
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What s your problem? Looks, inhibition, lack of exposure to women? The last one is a common silent killer for guys who cant just leave the room and get women interested
I've been rated High LTN to Low MTN, potential is Strong MTN. Main falios is ethnic and short height (started wearing lifts though). Slightly non NT so extreme high inhib.
 
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Said enough is enough at 17 and paid a hooker. Underwhelming
 
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Did your psyche collapse or grow stronger?
Stronger, and today I have no problems getting sex without pay. Problem was just being an insecure aspie.
 
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I'd say my biggest flaws are
1. High inhib/ non NT
2. Social anxiety
3. Fear of talking w girls
4. 5 foot 8 barefoot
5. Ethnic (although live in a place that is like 60 percent ethnic)
6. Average looks
7. High body fat (20-25 percent)
 
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I've been rated High LTN to Low MTN, potential is Strong MTN. Main falios is ethnic and short height (started wearing lifts though). Slightly non NT so extreme high inhib.

You need to find yourself around women more often, since you obviously arent doomed lookswise then

Cant afford to just do your thing and expect to spontaneously get a woman in the process
 
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Stronger, and today I have no problems getting sex without pay. Problem was just being an insecure aspie.
This might be the push I need. I have the money.
 
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You need to find yourself around women more often, since you obviously arent doomed lookswise then

Cant afford to just do your thing and expect to spontaneously get a woman in the process
Yeah I need confidence from somewhere. That's why escortmaxxing is something I'm considering.
 
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please take my advice and just do it with a hooker
I’ve lost my virginity to a girl I was so in love with, ever since she dumped I’ve never been this miserable, not even when I was a virgin incel
now I’m disgusted by the thought of ever having sex with someone else other than her, it wasn’t even sex, we were making love
just call a whore bro, believe me it’s for the better if you do it without feelings
 
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This might be the push I need. I have the money.
Go for it. Make sure to see someone with good reviews or ask for facetime or sum. Amount of times I've gotten catfished by prostitutes is astounding.

If it looks like she is hiding something in the pictures, she IS.
 
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Yeah I need confidence from somewhere. That's why escortmaxxing is something I'm considering.

Doubt this would work. You need a plan for starting to spend time in an environment full of women before anything else.

If you attract, idk, 1 in 100 women, and talk to 1 woman per month, you do the math about your chances. This is, again, the final nail in the coffin for not so gl guys
 
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please take my advice and just do it with a hooker
I’ve lost my virginity to a girl I was so in love with, ever since she dumped I’ve never been this miserable, not even when I was a virgin incel
now I’m disgusted by the thought of ever having sex with someone else other than her, it wasn’t even sex, we were making love
just call a whore bro, believe me it’s for the better if you do it without feelings
Thanks for sharing. Sounds tough bhai
 
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Go for it. Make sure to see someone with good reviews or ask for facetime or sum. Amount of times I've gotten catfished by prostitutes is astounding.

If it looks like she is hiding something in the pictures, she IS.
There's a decent source I've found that should net me MTBs for a cheapish price
 
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There's a decent source I've found that should net me MTBs for a cheapish price
Good. MTB might be good for ur first time, alleviates some pressure. I wouldn't be able to do a Stacy my first time, but also a LTB- would be boner repelling. Difficult to find that sweet spot.
 
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Good. MTB might be good for ur first time, alleviates some pressure. I wouldn't be able to do a Stacy my first time, but also a LTB- would be boner repelling. Difficult to find that sweet spot.
Honestly fuck it. If I make it to 2025 as a KHV I'll get one. I'm exhausted living like this.
 
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@Costcosuperstore
 
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I am going insane. I just have hope that things can get better, but it’s not very strong.

I’ve done stuff I’m not proud of one bit, but I’m trying to be a changed man. Stuff that should not be uttered to the likes of human beings
 
I cope by planning to SEAmaxx
 
Is jozoning .org signaling one is going insane?
 
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I'm going insane
I think it's due to this one cope "at 25 it will be my peak prime" which sure for good portion of males they will reach prime at 25 but also who don't and either it was in high school or never happened
 
I was going crazy, literally psychotic, then I lost my virginity at 25 to a mestiza amerindian idiot who happened to talk to me on Instagram and my life started to improve little by little (the result of having a calmer mind).

I could have lost my virginity at 16 but I was very shy and i rejected options, if I had done it at that time it would have saved me years of being in a fucking abyss
 
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Im in the same boat and i cant go to escort because i live in a small city and the few escorts that are here are 50 years old granny infested by maggots
 
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