24 y/o living in regret everyday. AMA if you need an advice from oldcel

[Bitterschön]

Feel free if you are bored

 

[Sprinkles]

what’s your biggest regret?

what would you do differently if you could go back in time and start over?

 

[browncurrycel]

is it worth sacrificing your life from the ages of 18-22 in the pursuit of money? I'm being forced to do so by my overbearing indian parents

 

[mrr]

did you go to college ?

 

[Liferuiner]

1. Will I be able to grow after 18 with more sleep
2. Will Mewing work
3. Would you recommend braces
4. What are things you regret

 

[Bitterschön]

what’s your biggest regret?

Not adressing my mental disorders, gaming, wasting youth, not knowing about other antidepressants except SSRIs and SNRIs and that I let my father manipulate me too much

what would you do differently if you could go back in time and start over?

Hop on MAOIs, lose fat, focus on school and never touch any video game after 15

 

[Bitterschön]

is it worth sacrificing your life from the ages of 18-22 in the pursuit of money? I'm being forced to do so by my overbearing indian parents

No. Dont listen to your parents.

 

[Bitterschön]

did you go to college ?

No. I wasnt able due to NDs

 

[truthhurts]

If you had the opportunity to travel back four years, what financial paths would you have chosen? How would you have selected your social circle? Did you let go of friends or did they talk behind your back?


Why do you live in regret now? The past shouldn't be touched, and you should make the best of the current situation. Close the chapter on the past.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Feel free if you are bored

You're not old.

 

[Bitterschön]

1. Will I be able to grow after 18 with more sleep
2. Will Mewing work
3. Would you recommend braces
4. What are things you regret

1: Unlikely, but possible.
2. No, but its still good to have the right tongue rest position. Train your tongue muscles: https://looksmax.org/threads/tongue-training-for-clearer-speech-8-exercises.1424523/
3. Yes, just don't let them pull your upper jaw backwards
4. Not adressing my mental disorders, gaming, wasting youth, not knowing about other antidepressants except SSRIs and SNRIs and that I let my father manipulate me too much

 

[PeakIncels]

does it ever get better

 

[Vincent Freeman]

You're not old.

-39 years old

 

[Saint Casanova]

You can still pretty much fix your life mate. Don’t listen to the foolish doomers who say it’s over at 19.
People with severe drug addictions, trauma ect managed to turn it around so can you!

 

[Lefty Rankin]

-39 years old

You're old.

 

[Vincent Freeman]

You're old.

Im younger than you tho

 

[lestoa]

You're not old.

If OP's not old, what are you ?

 

[Bitterschön]

If you had the opportunity to travel back four years, what financial paths would you have chosen? How would you have selected your social circle? Did you let go of friends or did they talk behind your back?

Finance. Choose loyal people that do fun stuff but also sort of hustle, like real bros. Yeah, I let go of many friends and idk if they talked behind my back.

Why do you live in regret now? The past shouldn't be touched, and you should make the best of the current situation. Close the chapter on the past.

You are right, but it hurts. Im just a loser man

 

[Bitterschön]

does it ever get better

No, at least not if you are ND tbh

 

[Vincent Freeman]

If OP's not old, what are you ?

A mummy

 

[svarddre]

It’s not over dawg, I’m 23 oldcel like you and only just started getting my shit together. It’s possible, just caffeine and nicotinemax

 

[CEO]

Quick Bump for my favorite Bom-omb on ORG...

 

[truthhurts]

Finance. Choose loyal people that do fun stuff but also sort of hustle, like real bros. Yeah, I let go of many friends and idk if they talked behind my back.

You are right, but it hurts. Im just a loser man

Wish you the best on your upcoming journey . Stay safe, be safe and prioritize your health

 

[Deleted member 110192]

Feel free if you are bored

What are you doing atm

 

[Deleted member 111512]

Feel free if you are bored

Unignore me man I feel like you're cool

 

[lilxder2]

i never understand why people refer to themselves as oldcels.
what are you too old for nigga? you can change your whole life around in a year or two, but if you refer to yourself as too old you will never change anything and then be 35 and think back like damn should have started at 24

 

[Bitterschön]

What are you doing atm

Work in a boring office job

 

[Bitterschön]

i never understand why people refer to themselves as oldcels.
what are you too old for nigga? you can change your whole life around in a year or two, but if you refer to yourself as too old you will never change anything and then be 35 and think back like damn should have started at 24

I mean you are right, but its hard to cope with the fact that the years between 15 and 24 got stolen. How do I become a man atp? Im so behind

 

[Liferuiner]

3. Yes, just don't let them pull your upper jaw backwards

wdym by that? why would it do that? also a visual reference would be good

4. Not adressing my mental disorders, gaming, wasting youth, not knowing about other antidepressants except SSRIs and SNRIs and that I let my father manipulate me too much

elaborate on the antidepressants

a lot of people seem to hate them

me personally I guess im too young to need them but I've tried panadol and other medicines obviously, but antidepressants in general no, I only took panadol because I was feeling sick etc. and my mom's headaches

 

[reptiles]

is it worth sacrificing your life from the ages of 18-22 in the pursuit of money? I'm being forced to do so by my overbearing indian parents

Yeah cage money maxed mogs for surgery

 

[Liferuiner]

4. Not adressing my mental disorders, gaming, wasting youth, not knowing about other antidepressants except SSRIs and SNRIs and that I let my father manipulate me too much

in terms of gaming man I have tried to quit etc. but for some reason you know I either game or I talk shit online cause there's nothing else to do lol

what's your perspective on gaming because for me I think like most people that it's like not worth your time but there's always an excuse

idk what do you think of gaming

 

[Liferuiner]

I let my father manipulate me too much

that's probably the only positive of having traditional parents

is that they didn't buy into too much medicine and government knows best bs

but they're still very stubborn etc. which is a huge no no

they're against it not cause they know it but cause they don't care to know it

 

[Eren]

1. Will I be able to grow after 18 with more sleep
2. Will Mewing work
3. Would you recommend braces
4. What are things you regret

Im 24 too and khhv and I feel I can respond to this
More sleep is better until a certain point, you will have better skin and will be able to be more present everyday
Which leads to my first regret, not sleeping enough when young and at skill, hindering my social interactions with boys and girls (this has a dramatic effect believe it or not, especially if you have to make efforts to socialize)
Mewing can work from the front but will not change your side profile, best course of action is mewing as best as you can and then bimax if you are recessed
I got braces + wisdom removal and it ruined my face, then got mewing appliance and now braces again for bimax.
Braces are good if you are a normie with no weird issues that react badly with braces
Finally I regret not having been more present in social interactions, even though I’m chopped I could have slayed there and there I’m sure of it, if I was more assertive.

 

[Deleted member 91663]

Not adressing my mental disorders, gaming, wasting youth, not knowing about other antidepressants except SSRIs and SNRIs and that I let my father manipulate me too much


Hop on MAOIs, lose fat, focus on school and never touch any video game after 15

24 is definitely moving on but not old by any means. It's not over yet.

 

[CEO]

24 is definitely moving on but not old by any means. It's not over yet.

President Nixon, what would you consider old then? 30+?

 

[Deleted member 91663]

President Nixon, what would you consider old then? 30+?

I think 30+, yes.
By 25, you should know where you're going though and have a plan to enact it.

 

[LTNUser]

What would you advise to somebody on socialising with people outside,who has never been able to interact with people properly?Also,have you got addicted to something so bad that it completely made you lose touch from reality?

 

[CEO]

I think 30+, yes.
By 25, you should know where you're going though and have a plan to enact it.

Noted, roger that, muhhh "commander-in-Chief"

 

[Deleted member 91663]

Noted, roger that, muhhh "commander-in-Chief"

 

[MoggerGaston]

No point having regrets. Youth is decided by environment and genes, not will and/or effort

 

[Deleted member 137749]

Feel you man , im oldcel too and can relate to basically everything. My life has been ruined by shit parenting and nd , not much you can do honestly. If you want to vent in dms feel free to send a msg

 

[Bitterschön]

What would you advise to somebody on socialising with people outside,who has never been able to interact with people properly?Also,have you got addicted to something so bad that it completely made you lose touch from reality?

Hop on meds 100%. Nardil is the gold standard for social anxiety.

Yeah I was heavily addicted to video games from age 11 - 20

 

[Saint Casanova]

Hop on meds 100%. Nardil is the gold standard for social anxiety.

Yeah I was heavily addicted to video games from age 11 - 20

They need to ban video games. It also enables gambling

 

[p0lishsubhuman]

how attractive are you and what's your height

 

[Deleted member 137749]

They need to ban video games. It also enables gambling

If you play competitive games like dota league valorant etc... and you enjoy getting higher elo n shit its over for your life i probably wasted 40k hrs or more combined on these games during my youth

 

[Deleted member 91663]

They need to ban video games. It also enables gambling

Video games are very insidious. Unlike drinking where there are immediate consequences, you can rack up an insane opportunity cost over years without anything happening.

 

[Deleted member 91663]

Hop on meds 100%. Nardil is the gold standard for social anxiety.

Yeah I was heavily addicted to video games from age 11 - 20

Can you talk a bit more about Nardil and how it helped you? Aren’t you worried about totally losing your inhibitions in social situations?

 

[Orthognathic]

Feel free if you are bored

Where do you think "it all went wrong" and why?

 

[Basedking]

Feel free if you are bored

I am asking for your opinion. At 19 years I wasted my time on useless things and I regret. I can do a average job for 2-3 years but will not be able to go to UNI as the job is in daytime. Is it worth sacrificing youth for 22 years and get some money or should I hope for CS which is for 4 years but above average pay. ?

 

[Bitterschön]

how attractive are you and what's your height

High MTN rn, idk. Im losing bf% rn. 178 cm