Virgin at 24 ... is it over ?

[Kazura_]

Dnr sorry

There's always one

 

[SharpOrange]

The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.

You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life. This can easily become the norm until your death. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your RESPONSIBILITY because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. Even I have been made fun of, called names, felt depressed. Overbearing parents, shitty childhood but I wouldn't be in the position that I am now if I gave up years ago and still had the victim mindset and just accepted my situation and rotted and didn't change myself. Remember it is your RESPONSIBILITY to your future self. It is a burden that you and only you carry . No one is going to help you but yourself whether you do carry that act accordingly or not it entirely depends on

@SplashJuice

highest iq reply till now. i feel same being isolated and stunted.

 

[Kazura_]

DNR but ask the resident forum vomit-dweller retard @_MVP_ and he will tell you "I don't know how you're so NEGGAAAATTTTIIIIIIVEEEE I was way more optimistic at 24" or whatever. This is what he told me when I became a 24 year old mirgin this year.

NOOO! what a cope response, type of shit I would expect on Reddit, 'just be happy' Brutal

 

[Kazura_]

Just escortmaxx at this point get it out of your system .

staying true to your bio I see. been clowning my homie for it for too long, can't be caught frauding

 

[Kazura_]

Almost the same story, COVID fucked me.

Fr, like uni was my last chance to have a semi-normal school-like experience but instead I ended up addicted to gaming and zoom calls, based Ojama King pfp you had btw GX Superiority

 

[Kazura_]

ropefuel bro
truly hope it gets better
just moneymaxx till you can afford surgery pop 4 pregabs get black out drunk and fuck a bitch you met at a bar

Honestly, what I'm doing atm, like I said even if I looked good I would still be fucked so I gotta moneymax first to fix my life then go all in on surgery

 

[Kazura_]

This may sound basic but you need to take action instead of just doing nothing all day. Your only 24 and life still has a lot to offer. This life this is on you and only YOU, take action even if it sounds very . You don't seem like your in a bad spot just turn it around bhai.

True, despite having a lame life it could be so much worse, in fact its guaranteed to be worse if I get kicked out next year so I need to REDEEM IT now thx bruh

 

[Kazura_]

The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.

You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life. This can easily become the norm until your death. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your RESPONSIBILITY because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. Even I have been made fun of, called names, felt depressed. Overbearing parents, shitty childhood but I wouldn't be in the position that I am now if I gave up years ago and still had the victim mindset and just accepted my situation and rotted and didn't change myself. Remember it is your RESPONSIBILITY to your future self. It is a burden that you and only you carry . No one is going to help you but yourself whether you do carry that act accordingly or not it entirely depends on

@SplashJuice

best answer tbh, I had to look up what an incel is since I thought it was more people who blame women, but I guess I am one at this point since its blaming it on external factors like looks and status. I've been hearing that word 'Responsibility' over and over recently here; it was just another word till recently, but it's becoming more important, it's nigh impossible to hate your reality more than the desire to change when reality has endless comfort copes, I got rid of my social media, uninstalled my games and stopped listening to music so all I'm left to are my own thoughts and they do amplify the desire for change significantly when there's no escape to YT shorts only rotting until my next slave shift but it's my responsibility to resist temptation and act on it

 

[Kazura_]

I am ur age and also KV

My personal plan? Get all my surgeries done before 30, then escortmaxx to get over the mental block, then hopefully I have enough looks and “experience” to get the real thing at least once with a LTB+

But otherwise yea it’s over brother. We may still have some years of prime left but the best parts of it are already in the rear view mirror

surgerymaxing is all we have left atp if before 30 we can still have a decent life but after that idk if the comeback is realistic

 

[jaaba]

Going to a same-sex school probably didn't help ended up being bullied and being a complete loser, since I never got rejected for being ugly by girls and was oblivious to my appearance. Moved to a different school for college ( 16-18 ), hoping I could go to a place where no one knew me with 0 experience talking to any women and coming from another school with 0 social value it was pretty much over and within 3 months.

I ended up at the library table alone every break because the lunch hall is a painful experience when you're a loser, everyone is talking in groups and you feel like they stare at you for being alone, even when you sit with random people. Maybe due to my appearance and social skills, I felt like they just wanted me to fuck off, most of the time, they just ignore what I say or speak over me.

Finally, 18 - time to go to uni... but then covid hits that year, the college exams are cancelled and we just get given random grades ( B, C, D* ), I luck out getting an unconditional Master's offer at the local Uni for Civil Engineering so despite the grades get in anyway.

New year, New me!, Once again, no one knows me. College made me realise not only do I have poor social skills, but poor looks as well as IQ so it goes about as well as you would expect, coming off covid, first 2 years are over zoom, 3rd year irl classes, but how tf am I ever even going to speak to the 3 girls in my engineering course when I would only scare them with my face anyway?

Decide to try dating apps, age range 18- 30, and change it to 1km radius and increase it every time I swipe through everyone in that radius. I am broke with no car, and my 'income' is from uni loans. I still have no idea how to pay back ( -£80k debt fml ) , ( living at home with Mum ofc ) , I know it's over but I try anyway.

I speed-swipe every single girl for a 5km radius, edit my pictures to look better.... say I am already an engineer on my profile, try all the dating apps, Hinge, Bumble, Tinder and even more obscure ones and kept this up as a daily activity, I tried new pics, looked at what was popular online and even through all this I didn't get a single date, so many times I got accidental matches where they just unmatch after seeing me when I message them.

Drop out 3rd year of uni and take a Bachelor's instead of the Masters , 1 year of being a Complete loser was enough, still haven't ever spoke to a girl, BUT now I have an engineering degree and can get a decent job and pay for dates and my own place and surgery right?...WRONG! I end up as a part-time school cleaner...

Over the 2 years since uni ended, I have achieved basically nothing. The only real graduation I experienced was that of going from School cleaner to Hotel Cleaner , working the same jobs I worked when I was 16 . I spent all my free time as Mercy or D.Va in Overwatch or Jinx or Ahri in League, switching from mouse to joystick after . Tried gym but pathetic as I am never ended up going more than once a month because exercise is hard.. so never saw any results ( currently started anewgym like 5 months ago, still paying but only ever went maybe 3x so this is ironically a new low ).

Decided if it's over, might as well make some money for my family, surely the army wouldn't turn down a free meatshield, stupid ugly people are literally the best option for this and army engineering degree is maybe kinda useful, end up passing the physical test but fail the interview part. have to wait a while to reapply... apply to police but rejected because I can't drive.... try Navy engineer but the final assessement is a group zoom activity where you solve a maths question in a group of 4 and are assessed based on your social skills/ ability to lead and contribute, fail,, try again like 6 months later. banned from reapplying for a year..

Turn 24, work part-time minimum wage job, mum wants me gone no matter how by next year , just get a real job and get out. Honestly, girls are the least of my problems, and even if I looked like some model instead of a monster, I think my life would still suck due to my IQ and mindset. Idk why I'm even making this post only to get clowned and feel worse. I deserve everything I get and more.

My life sucks, I write this surrounded by all the anime figures I spent my wages on that I couldn't afford as a kid, forced to face my own hypocrisy daily, I dull it with familiar comforts, I say forced because how can this be my choice? to live like this?? my life sucked as a kid, at school, at college, at uni, after and even now, there has never been a good part I can look back on and it feels like it will only get worse, I spent a ton on skincare, hair products etc and maybe I look a little better but subhuman is still subhuman, not even minox, finas and all these expensive products can help me. I still get nightmares about my time at school, even though it will have been like a decade ago soon and wonder how much longer I can keep going

 

[tomahawk]

Purely your fault

 

[Kazura_]

I had a similar life to OP. Insular all boys school, that was great but no foids, then sausage fest degree, plus having no family (lack of connections) then being sub5 and short on top of all that. Worked as a garbage cleaner during university to pay for things because I didn't have a car to get other jobs.

I'm not going to say just trying more bro will solve Inceldom but you can at least have more money. In certain locations grinding and upskilling works even if you're ugly, that's better than nothing. I'll be careful though, because even grinding doesn't guarantee anything...even money. Maybe OP lives in a shit city, idk what opportunities he has. Sometimes you have to accept things won't go your way and that's life.

This is what I'd do if I was in any position, wealthy or not:

The moment you realize that you will never ascend, ever, and that you need to deal with the rest of your life

One way to do that is to rope. But there is another way. The other way is to make sense of what happened, i.e. why there are so many incels now while there were very few just a six decades ago, or so. This is the only way not to rope and this is basically what all oldcels have done (more or...

incels.is

Still a grind, you're not decaying, still a purpose and you're understanding the terrain around you. Better trade than rotting and complaining

lack of connections is so real, like I see my family maybe every 2 years for a few hours at Christmas but aside from that, they don't message me or even want to add me on social media... not that I have it anymore, also no car, so school and hotel cleaner , losing time and money to take the bus sucked though.

Money is amll I'm really focusing atm but it CANNOT be from some random job like the one I have , going to pour everything into trying to make money online , if I can pull it off I'll have some confidence in myself rn I feel like I was born sub-5 to live out a sub 5 existence, my life is always so fucked, I made this postage, was barely late to work and my manager reported me for it made me sign some report guy and said they are sending this to some other person to talkk to me meanwhile the good looking new guy comes in like 10-15 mins late, managers never say or do anything and are friendsly towards him , ik it's not all just because of his looks just by him being like 6'4 also makes me feel like I'm geting replaced here and living this reality only reinforces that it's over which is why I need to escape this job

 

[Kazura_]

i couldnt read this all, but whats your looks status? mtn?

Mtn on a good day if I do my hair and stuff but when I wake up i'm like sub 3, I'll make some current pics post soon

 

[Kazura_]

No it's not.

Virgin at 104 = over.

Fellow Warhammer vro

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

From the way you type im guessing youre nd

 

[Whiteboard7]

True, despite having a lame life it could be so much worse, in fact its guaranteed to be worse if I get kicked out next year so I need to REDEEM IT now thx bruh

Nice bro, pull yourself up and get better

 

[NotoriousLoser]

Not completely yet, but definitely by 28/29. Because that's when your youth is gone and hardmaxxing or even softmaxxing is not worth it then anymore. You see your friends having their second child and you haven't even seen a woman naked yet, that messes with your head.

 

[Troglodyte452]

Mtn on a good day if I do my hair and stuff but when I wake up i'm like sub 3, I'll make some current pics post soon

well, this could be one of the reasons. I was a virgin for a long time also but then I forced myself to go on tinder and lost it 3 months later

 

[Bitterschön]

DNRD, but it's never over. DM me if you need advices