25 and I genuinely don't know if my looks or social anxiety ruined my dating life

[Doublex2J]

I'm 25 and I've struggled with severe social anxiety for years. I've never had a girlfriend, never been on a date and never kissed anyone.

Dating apps have been pretty depressing for me. I don't literally get zero matches, and I've occasionally had girls show some interest or had conversations that went somewhere for a while, but overall I've had very little success. Almost nothing has ever translated into actually meeting someone, and most conversations eventually just die.

The problem is that I can't really compare that with my experience in real life either. My social anxiety is bad enough that approaching a girl or openly showing interest feels almost impossible.


Around people I don't know well I become extremely self-conscious. I'm thinking about how I look, what I'm doing with my body, whether I'm acting weird, what the other person thinks of me, etc. I end up being much quieter and more inhibited than I actually want to be.

So I've basically reached 25 with almost no romantic experience, while also having no idea what the main reason actually is.

 

[Doublex2J]

Bu

 

[justwantlove]

I'm 25 and I've struggled with severe social anxiety for years. I've never had a girlfriend, never been on a date and never kissed anyone.

Dating apps have been pretty depressing for me. I don't literally get zero matches, and I've occasionally had girls show some interest or had conversations that went somewhere for a while, but overall I've had very little success. Almost nothing has ever translated into actually meeting someone, and most conversations eventually just die.

The problem is that I can't really compare that with my experience in real life either. My social anxiety is bad enough that approaching a girl or openly showing interest feels almost impossible.


Around people I don't know well I become extremely self-conscious. I'm thinking about how I look, what I'm doing with my body, whether I'm acting weird, what the other person thinks of me, etc. I end up being much quieter and more inhibited than I actually want to be.

So I've basically reached 25 with almost no romantic experience, while also having no idea what the main reason actually is.

u look good bra

 

[Doublex2J]

u look good bra

Used that pics on dating apps and got ghosted

 

[justwantlove]

Used that pics on dating apps and got ghosted

tf
how tall arr you ?

 

[Doublex2J]

tf
how tall arr you ?

Didn't put height but im 5'8 unfortunately

 

[fantom0726]

i genuinely dont understand how is this possible

 

[justwantlove]

5'8 unfortunately

same and I have worse face than you
I am 18 and never had even kiss from a girl
its over for me but I hope u will get a girl man

 

[Doublex2J]

i genuinely dont understand how is this possible

Well, it actually is.

 

[ImIsaac]

Damn bro if lifes like that with you i wonder how things would go on with me.

It might jus be the wrong people you see man.

 

[Doublex2J]

same and I have worse face than you
I am 18 and never had even kiss from a girl
its over for me but I hope u will get a girl man

Nah we will never get It bro. I just want a normal life, not even a girl. I don't have any friends

 

[fantom0726]

Nah we will never get It bro. I just want a normal life, not even a girl. I don't have any friends

how did u discover about this forum in 2019

 

[justwantlove]

I just want a normal life, not even a girl. I don't have any friends

I am just like you but younger and I actually feel bad for you bro
maybe its not about looks?
cuz wtf u look great
have you tried going to the clabs ?

 

[Doublex2J]

I am just like you but younger and I actually feel bad for you bro
maybe its not about looks?
cuz wtf u look great
have you tried going to the clabs ?

No man, I used same pics on dating apps and got nothing. Same shit irl, and I can't go to clubs because I'm 5'8".

 

[Doublex2J]

how did u discover about this forum in 2019

Posted my pics on r/truerateme and some user told me about the existence of this forum.

 

[Doublex2J]

Bump

 

[thomasjiooo]

I'm 25 and I've struggled with severe social anxiety for years. I've never had a girlfriend, never been on a date and never kissed anyone.

Dating apps have been pretty depressing for me. I don't literally get zero matches, and I've occasionally had girls show some interest or had conversations that went somewhere for a while, but overall I've had very little success. Almost nothing has ever translated into actually meeting someone, and most conversations eventually just die.

The problem is that I can't really compare that with my experience in real life either. My social anxiety is bad enough that approaching a girl or openly showing interest feels almost impossible.


Around people I don't know well I become extremely self-conscious. I'm thinking about how I look, what I'm doing with my body, whether I'm acting weird, what the other person thinks of me, etc. I end up being much quieter and more inhibited than I actually want to be.

So I've basically reached 25 with almost no romantic experience, while also having no idea what the main reason actually is.

Chad

 

[RichmondBread]

Pics look good

 

[Roara]

Bump

show us your dating app stats, I remember talking to you on a different profile 2-3 years ago


are you on hinge, bumble, tinder, and something else? do you work in a place where women organically speak to you?

 

[dys]

your looks aren't the problem its just that you're a mentalcel which sucks, you could be slaying otherwise

 

[them streets b cold]

This shit is fake how can a high inhib niggar post himself on this goddamned forums?

 

[fantom0726]

Posted my pics on r/truerateme and some user told me about the existence of this forum.

what did u get rated