Sprinkles
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I will try not to waste everyone's time and keep this as short as possibly but for some context I'm a 25M and I have a wife 25F who I married last year, last July we welcomed my beautiful baby and I had no doubt he was mine at the time until 3 hours ago.
I got an email from a random man claiming to be the father of my baby boy and while I was at disbelief at first, he showed evidence of him holding my child on our sofa.
Currently, I find myself on the brink of a panic attack. Following the tragic loss of both my parents in a fatal car accident and a tumultuous relationship that left me suicidal, I encountered a beacon of hope in my wife, who assisted me in navigating the depths of grief. However, in light of her betrayal, despite her vast knowledge of my past, I feel like a failure.
I've never had trust issues with my wife but would I be an asshole for taking my baby to have a paternity test behind my wife back? Does anyone have any advice on how I can proceed with this.
If you would like to read the email, here it is.
I got an email from a random man claiming to be the father of my baby boy and while I was at disbelief at first, he showed evidence of him holding my child on our sofa.
Currently, I find myself on the brink of a panic attack. Following the tragic loss of both my parents in a fatal car accident and a tumultuous relationship that left me suicidal, I encountered a beacon of hope in my wife, who assisted me in navigating the depths of grief. However, in light of her betrayal, despite her vast knowledge of my past, I feel like a failure.
I've never had trust issues with my wife but would I be an asshole for taking my baby to have a paternity test behind my wife back? Does anyone have any advice on how I can proceed with this.
If you would like to read the email, here it is.