A Relationship is Harder than you think

[9Romance]

a couple months ago i was like yall incels. Sexless, hugless, etc and all i rlly wanted was a gf. I thought it would make me so happy. Recently about 1-2 months ago me and this girl started dating and at first it was rlly fun yknow we hanged every day but after about 2 weeks it got extremely boring. Extremely stressful and a pain in the ass. The only reason admittedly im still in this relationship is because i have no other options because im a incel. Trust me, a relationship rlly isnt worth it. Its going to take so much time and energy out of you

 

[Deleted member 24712]

i don’t believe you

 

[Deleted member 29167]

interesting

 

[Deleted member 21467]

why are you guys always shaming virgins? just appealing to the whore culture “blackpillers“ lol

 

[Achilles]

whos your pfp?

 

[thereallegend]

Truth

 

[DawgyDawg]

Leave while you can, once she loses interest she is just going to cheat or start playing games. I was once in your shoes, better to not be tied down on focus on a grind + gym + lifemaxxing. Girls are are massive time waste.
Likely she isn't the ideal woman for you anyways and likely your settling because she is the first woman to show you any real attention. Keep that in mind.
Stay in the relationship for xp points or move on, but don't get attached.

 

[Deleted member 26699]

I’m so lonely and horny I’ll rope no relationship for my sub human ass i can’t do this anymore I have a hole in my soul it’s over fir me that’s it I dunno what to do anymore I have a mma competition in December for the national championship so that’s what I spend my whole days doing mma and gym 6h total I still like roping nothing can replace having some who loves you when you come home after a long day nobody to cuddle with nobody to talk too nobody to cum in, I just follow my daily routine and use it as fuel to work hard and cope with stoicism but I’m still sucidal af

 

[ronald_98]

Youre not happy because youre not really attracted to her and therefore you dont love her. Its not because of relationships being hard.

 

[GabachoCopium]

Leave while you can, once she loses interest she is just going to cheat or start playing games. I was once in your shoes, better to not be tied down on focus on a grind + gym + lifemaxxing. Girls are are massive time waste.
Likely she isn't the ideal woman for you anyways and likely your settling because she is the first woman to show you any real attention. Keep that in mind.
Stay in the relationship for xp points or move on, but don't get attached.

Just go gym bro Just focus on yourself

 

[DawgyDawg]

Just go gym bro Just focus on yourself

framelet

 

[DawgyDawg]

Youre not happy because youre not really attracted to her and therefore you dont love her. Its not because of relationships being hard.

bingo

 

[Deleted member 23472]

I’m so lonely and horny I’ll rope no relationship for my sub human ass i can’t do this anymore I have a hole in my soul it’s over fir me that’s it I dunno what to do anymore I have a mma competition in December for the national championship so that’s what I spend my whole days doing mma and gym 6h total I still like roping nothing can replace having some who loves you when you come home after a long day nobody to cuddle with nobody to talk too nobody to cum in, I just follow my daily routine and use it as fuel to work hard and cope with stoicism but I’m still sucidal af

Relating deeply

 

[N8verBegan]

This is very true and I doubt yall looksmaxxing rotters are capable of putting much commitment to a relationship when yall cant even spend 5 minutes to do basic skincare jfl

 

[Deleted member 26699]

Relating deeply

I’ve read can’t hurt me by David goggins like a million times he keeps me from roping I dunno how long I can keep this up for I guess I need to survive long enough until I have money to surgery maxx

 

[Deleted member 23472]

I’ve read can’t hurt me by David goggins like a million times he keeps me from roping I dunno how long I can keep this up for I guess I need to survive long enough until I have money to surgery maxx

Same

 

[Deleted member 26699]

This is very true and I doubt yall looksmaxxing rotters are capable of putting much commitment to a relationship when yall cant even spend 5 minutes to do basic skincare jfl

No skin care routine for ur sub humsn bones

 

[Deleted member 26699]

Same

stoicism helps too but at the end of the day it doesn’t matter how much mental gymnastics yiu do and how hard you cope wanting love and intimacy is a fundamental human desire… I cope with porn, I cry myself to sleep sometimes

 

[Kamui]

Leave while you can, once she loses interest she is just going to cheat or start playing games. I was once in your shoes, better to not be tied down on focus on a grind + gym + lifemaxxing. Girls are are massive time waste.
Likely she isn't the ideal woman for you anyways and likely your settling because she is the first woman to show you any real attention. Keep that in mind.
Stay in the relationship for xp points or move on, but don't get attached.

It’s better to have a rotation of FWBs than devote all your time and energy to a foid who would easily leave you for a nigger who mogs you

 

[9Romance]

It’s better to have a rotation of FWBs than devote all your time and energy to a foid who would easily leave you for a nigger who mogs you

fwb is cope unless ur a chad anyways

 

[Lucid]

i don’t believe you

It's true

 

[grooxx]

a couple months ago i was like yall incels. Sexless, hugless, etc and all i rlly wanted was a gf. I thought it would make me so happy. Recently about 1-2 months ago me and this girl started dating and at first it was rlly fun yknow we hanged every day but after about 2 weeks it got extremely boring. Extremely stressful and a pain in the ass. The only reason admittedly im still in this relationship is because i have no other options because im a incel. Trust me, a relationship rlly isnt worth it. Its going to take so much time and energy out of you

I don't agree with you.
Maybe you think this way because she doesn't bring you what you need (which is probably because you haven't figured out what you need).

Love is the one thing which makes you feel like you have no problem. And that's all. So a relationship has to bring you something else than love. You have to be able to share things with your lady, otherwise it's doomed to be boring.

When you have a gf, it's like having a bestfriend with more engagements and an infinite source of stress reliever.

If it's not the case, the relationship is not sane

 

[Foreverbrad]

Youre not happy because youre not really attracted to her and therefore you dont love her. Its not because of relationships being hard.

And if you do really love her she’ll lose attraction JFL. Can’t win.

 

[The Grinch]

Tales from the mental asylum

 

[Arditi]

kill yourself OP

 

[Deleted member 19957]

What does she look like? I'd better stay alone my entire fcking life than settling down with some landwhale ltb.

 

[zainab]

a couple months ago i was like yall incels. Sexless, hugless, etc and all i rlly wanted was a gf. I thought it would make me so happy. Recently about 1-2 months ago me and this girl started dating and at first it was rlly fun yknow we hanged every day but after about 2 weeks it got extremely boring. Extremely stressful and a pain in the ass. The only reason admittedly im still in this relationship is because i have no other options because im a incel. Trust me, a relationship rlly isnt worth it. Its going to take so much time and energy out of you

Truth ons/fwb is the way unless you somehow find an unicorn

 

[1sleeep23]

It’s better to have a rotation of FWBs than devote all your time and energy to a foid who would easily leave you for a nigger who mogs you

not an option for sub6s lmao, even then they’ll all leave you as soon as they find someone more attractive

 

[9Romance]

What does she look like? I'd better stay alone my entire fcking life than settling down with some landwhale ltb.

shes mtb-htb. I wouldnt post my gf in a site like this but just looks like average blonde girl

 

[oldcelcel1983]

This is exactly why all I ever wanted was casual hookups off Tinder or some random drunk milf at a bar, never some shit that turns me into a simp providing emotional support for someone, fuck that. What can I do as a sub-6?

 

[oldcelcel1983]

This is exactly why all I ever wanted was casual hookups off Tinder or some random drunk milf at a bar, never some shit that turns me into a simp providing emotional support for someone, fuck that. What can I do as a sub-6?

 

[Deleted member 26859]

maybe u just have a shit reltationship and arent meant for eachother

i lived with my gf for 2 years and never got bored of eachother

 

[NateJacobs]

a couple months ago i was like yall incels. Sexless, hugless, etc and all i rlly wanted was a gf. I thought it would make me so happy. Recently about 1-2 months ago me and this girl started dating and at first it was rlly fun yknow we hanged every day but after about 2 weeks it got extremely boring. Extremely stressful and a pain in the ass. The only reason admittedly im still in this relationship is because i have no other options because im a incel. Trust me, a relationship rlly isnt worth it. Its going to take so much time and energy out of you

Only happens when your not in love and not personality compatible ngas don’t realize looks doesn’t make a relationship good it’s just the biggest part at the start

 

[SlavicGeneral]

Youre not happy because youre not really attracted to her and therefore you dont love her. Its not because of relationships being hard.

I beg to differ. Relationships are exhausting, at least to me, be it friend or boy-girl relationship. I sometimes even lose interest to have sex because it takes so much - have a dinner with her, talk to her, spend 6 hours with her because she doesn't care about neither of your times and it'd be insulting to tell her you have more important things to work on... Women and people in general don't value their own time so they assume I must not have something more important to work on, get some knowledge, get in shape, get the money, etc. to attract the best value women and get respect from men.

I've broken up with past girlfriends due to this shit and I liked how they looked. I even sometimes can't fantasize of some girls and just quit it despite considering them hottest women I've seen. It puts pressure on me.

 

[SlavicGeneral]

maybe u just have a shit reltationship and arent meant for eachother

i lived with my gf for 2 years and never got bored of eachother

Straight to the point, both parties must understand each-other's goals. Friends and girls I've dealt with don't seem to understand my lifestyle so it interferes with each-other.

 

[0hMan]

Worst user on the forum. Wow, you dated a spic girl as a spic. KYS

 

[Arminius]

I don't agree with you.
Maybe you think this way because she doesn't bring you what you need (which is probably because you haven't figured out what you need).

Love is the one thing which makes you feel like you have no problem. And that's all. So a relationship has to bring you something else than love. You have to be able to share things with your lady, otherwise it's doomed to be boring.

When you have a gf, it's like having a bestfriend with more engagements and an infinite source of stress reliever.

If it's not the case, the relationship is not sane

How can i keep her interest???

 

[ipowi01]

Least obv fed

 

[grooxx]

How can i keep her interest???

You have to keep dating her, whatever you do of your free time, share it with her.
Go out in the nature, invite her to special outdoor meals or whatever. Nothing is cringe

And keep in mind it is not necessary to see her everyday

 

[AngryShane]

get respect from men.

They're not going to respect you, They will envy you in secrecy...

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Just pay a escort for the girlfriend experience. retarded incels getting into LTR when ur not chad
Hahahahha

 

[CuriousGuy]

Youre not happy because youre not really attracted to her and therefore you dont love her. Its not because of relationships being hard.

Exactly.

Unfortunately when you really "love" or are attracted to someone, you get into a passive situation as you are the one doing the chasing.
That's why most "stable" relationships are relatively looksmatched.

 

[RecessedChinCel]

The only reason admittedly im still in this relationship is because i have no other options because im a incel.

 

[Mr Test]

Thats why you only do a relationship as a HTN minimum.
Your GF needs to know that you have other options.

 

[Mewton]

Some might not want to accept but thats life

Human wants what he can't have desperately but when he does, its not that special as he made it out to be

This ironic cycle continues till the end

 

[RoyaleWithCheese]

It’s not the hedonistic treadmill in this case. It’s because you’re dating someone you aren’t attracted to or who has a shit personality. Unless you’ve been incel for a long time, dating is fucking boring unless your woman is HTB+.

 

[9Romance]

Exactly.

Unfortunately when you really "love" or are attracted to someone, you get into a passive situation as you are the one doing the chasing.
That's why most "stable" relationships are relatively looksmatched.

no you can be attracted to smeone but still be bored of the relationship or find it stressful, however you are willing to put up with it because of the person

 

[9Romance]

It’s not the hedonistic treadmill in this case. It’s because you’re dating someone you aren’t attracted to or who has a shit personality. Unless you’ve been incel for a long time, dating is fucking boring unless your woman is HTB+.

she has a good personality and she is very attractive

 

[RoyaleWithCheese]

she has a good personality and she is very attractive

Why are you bored and stressed then? Not normal.

 

[HereToGetBetter]

a couple months ago i was like yall incels. Sexless, hugless, etc and all i rlly wanted was a gf. I thought it would make me so happy. Recently about 1-2 months ago me and this girl started dating and at first it was rlly fun yknow we hanged every day but after about 2 weeks it got extremely boring. Extremely stressful and a pain in the ass. The only reason admittedly im still in this relationship is because i have no other options because im a incel. Trust me, a relationship rlly isnt worth it. Its going to take so much time and energy out of you

Relationships are incredibly worth it and are amazing. Don't regret a single one even though I was always the one to break up with the girls. Some of your best memories are when you are in a relationship going out and ect in your friend group.