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Deleted member 6908
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It is very rare that a woman will submit to a man who is less successful than her. In-fact it's not seen. Ever.
This is why the only times successful women enter successful relationships is when they are able to land with a guy who is more successful than them. She won't have your respect otherwise.
Think about it. A couple where the woman is more intelligent than the man is at a long-term stability disadvantage, because the man needs to exert authority over her to ensure her inner emotional chaos doesn't sabotage them and dumber men are unable to achieve this without being abusive.
So let's say you aren't violent or abusive, but you're dumber than her or at least this is what she believes. What then? She will end up managing things because she believes she will be able to see things you cannot. Naturally putting her above you, eroding your dignity and making her feel stressed out and unfeminine. Doesn't work.
It comes with the territory. You always have to be better than her at pretty much everything. Women who gloat about having a high IQ may as well also gloat about being 6'2 and only dating taller men, or earning 7 figures and only dating richer men. Outlier women have terrifically small viable mating pools.
To state this in clearer terms. As a man gets richer, older, higher status, smarter, taller etc his viable mating pool expands. But NOW as a woman gets richer, older, higher status, smarter, taller etc - her viable mating pool shrinks. Quite frankly women are penalised for "being too good" and it's not bloody society or us men penalising them, as a lot of these liberal feminists stupidly assume. But human psychology itself.
A woman always wants a man better than she is and a man never wants to feel beneath his woman. So if you are an extremely gifted woman, who is left for you? Barely anyone.
If she didn't want a man better than her and could suppress her ego to follow a man of inferior competence and ability to her, she could be happy. But can she do this without being miserable? Big LOL. More chance of peace in Syria. No. She will find him too easy to disrespect and over-time grow to resent him. She will come to the realisation she settled for a man who was never good enough for her to begin with, but rather than blame herself for exercising poor judgement or being desperate enough to choose him, she will blame him. Women hate settling.
If you disagree, instead of shouting inane remarks, explain why and be clear...
This is why the only times successful women enter successful relationships is when they are able to land with a guy who is more successful than them. She won't have your respect otherwise.
Think about it. A couple where the woman is more intelligent than the man is at a long-term stability disadvantage, because the man needs to exert authority over her to ensure her inner emotional chaos doesn't sabotage them and dumber men are unable to achieve this without being abusive.
So let's say you aren't violent or abusive, but you're dumber than her or at least this is what she believes. What then? She will end up managing things because she believes she will be able to see things you cannot. Naturally putting her above you, eroding your dignity and making her feel stressed out and unfeminine. Doesn't work.
It comes with the territory. You always have to be better than her at pretty much everything. Women who gloat about having a high IQ may as well also gloat about being 6'2 and only dating taller men, or earning 7 figures and only dating richer men. Outlier women have terrifically small viable mating pools.
To state this in clearer terms. As a man gets richer, older, higher status, smarter, taller etc his viable mating pool expands. But NOW as a woman gets richer, older, higher status, smarter, taller etc - her viable mating pool shrinks. Quite frankly women are penalised for "being too good" and it's not bloody society or us men penalising them, as a lot of these liberal feminists stupidly assume. But human psychology itself.
A woman always wants a man better than she is and a man never wants to feel beneath his woman. So if you are an extremely gifted woman, who is left for you? Barely anyone.
If she didn't want a man better than her and could suppress her ego to follow a man of inferior competence and ability to her, she could be happy. But can she do this without being miserable? Big LOL. More chance of peace in Syria. No. She will find him too easy to disrespect and over-time grow to resent him. She will come to the realisation she settled for a man who was never good enough for her to begin with, but rather than blame herself for exercising poor judgement or being desperate enough to choose him, she will blame him. Women hate settling.
If you disagree, instead of shouting inane remarks, explain why and be clear...