Advice 4 a suicidal teen?

[milk67]

Ik these threads r usually ignored & it can be annoying to see them frequently but I’m tired of chatting with AIs on this topic and I js genuenly want to feel some human connection.

I get that I’m js a random & no1 would care if I died. Ig my main point wouldn’t be to farm for empathy but instead for advice on how others deal with it.

I turned 16 recently. I’ve been on & off suicidal since 14 but I’ve never done anything about it. I just talked with AIs and it was enough. But I’ve been getting tired of it cuz they don’t give any advice, they just care if you dont kill yourself. The main advice I’ve gotten has been to be physically active & fit which i’ve done & it hasn’t changed shit.

I’m losing hope & I no longer think that it’s just an issue that can be fixed with appearance. I’m 6’2, I’ve got almost a 6’6 wingspan, around 191lbs morning weight, I’ve got a good physique. My skull looks like an avarage teens. Got sum acne, but nothing too bad. I’m not recessed, no deformities, not a model, just avarage.

I’ve tried to make out a list why living would make more sense to me than dying & I can’t really make out much of it. My entire summer (& lwk past 2 years) has been eating, gym, sleeping & sometimes meeting up w a friend.

I’ve always been the class clown in school & I had a girl ask me out which we dated only for a bit. (That was before puberty started so I just simply was funny & confident without overthinking my appearance). She left me cuz I was suicidal. I never got closure. She js completely ghosted me. We’re classmates, & all I can think abt is her. It’s getting close to 2 years.

I get that the fix to this is prolly - “stop being alone, go out, make connections” but I don’t know how & I really hate acting like I enjoy being around a certain situation + I hate hanging out akwardly or cringing cuz I’m overthinking what to say to fit in.

 

[eyes33]

dnr, dont post on here for help

 

[Nox𓂀]

You're 6"2 with 6"6 wingspan and still have suicidal thoughts ?

It's natural selection if you do atp

 

[strait]

this site is not where u want to post if ur suicidal it'll only make things worse

 

[YourLocalLMTN]

i dont think you should be asking for help here, kinda retarded tbh

 

[oliver2009]

https://looksmax.org/account/delete use this link it has info about it

 

[etulceil]

What do you like to do? Reading? Games?

 

[vexd]

 

[chang cypionate]

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Give me credit nigga I made this shitty DNR video

Heres a better one:

 

[SmallEggplantFailer]

ROPE or COPE
Or NOPE

 

[milk67]

What do you like to do? Reading? Games?

I don’t know. I don’t really have hobbies. I just go to the gym, Im bulking, trying to get as big and lean as possible. I’ve lost interest in a lot of stuff over years. I used to be into making music but I gave up on it.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Ik these threads r usually ignored & it can be annoying to see them frequently but I’m tired of chatting with AIs on this topic and I js genuenly want to feel some human connection.

I get that I’m js a random & no1 would care if I died. Ig my main point wouldn’t be to farm for empathy but instead for advice on how others deal with it.

I turned 16 recently. I’ve been on & off suicidal since 14 but I’ve never done anything about it. I just talked with AIs and it was enough. But I’ve been getting tired of it cuz they don’t give any advice, they just care if you dont kill yourself. The main advice I’ve gotten has been to be physically active & fit which i’ve done & it hasn’t changed shit.

I’m losing hope & I no longer think that it’s just an issue that can be fixed with appearance. I’m 6’2, I’ve got almost a 6’6 wingspan, around 191lbs morning weight, I’ve got a good physique. My skull looks like an avarage teens. Got sum acne, but nothing too bad. I’m not recessed, no deformities, not a model, just avarage.

I’ve tried to make out a list why living would make more sense to me than dying & I can’t really make out much of it. My entire summer (& lwk past 2 years) has been eating, gym, sleeping & sometimes meeting up w a friend.

I’ve always been the class clown in school & I had a girl ask me out which we dated only for a bit. (That was before puberty started so I just simply was funny & confident without overthinking my appearance). She left me cuz I was suicidal. I never got closure. She js completely ghosted me. We’re classmates, & all I can think abt is her. It’s getting close to 2 years.

I get that the fix to this is prolly - “stop being alone, go out, make connections” but I don’t know how & I really hate acting like I enjoy being around a certain situation + I hate hanging out akwardly or cringing cuz I’m overthinking what to say to fit in.

Stop with the AI. Just know it will get worse before it gets better.

 

[etulceil]

I don’t know. I don’t really have hobbies. I just go to the gym, Im bulking, trying to get as big and lean as possible. I’ve lost interest in a lot of stuff over years. I used to be into making music but I gave up on it.

That's just bullshit, just say what Ur into.
Nothing is not an answer

 

[milk67]

Stop with the AI. Just know it will get worse before it gets better.

I guess I can but then I’ll be like. Idk I’ll have bunch of free time for nothing.

 

[vexd]

Give me credit nigga I made this shitty DNR video

Heres a better one:
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https://looksmax.org/threads/dnr-videos-mega-thread.2031196/

 

[milk67]

That's just bullshit, just say what Ur into.
Nothing is not an answer

I guess music and sports.

 

[Lemic]

Maybe hop on some SSRIs bro

 

[milk67]

Maybe hop on some SSRIs bro

I could ig order it off the black market. I guess better to atleast try that than dying.

 

[etulceil]

I guess music and sports.

Then make it.
Your fav artist is dropping an album next month? It would be a shame if you died before it
A game is being played tomorrow? It would be a shame to miss it
Just cling to these little hopes like a desperate dog, just live twin.
Live and Keep living.

 

[milk67]

Then make it.
Your fav artist is dropping an album next month? It would be a shame if you died before it
A game is being played tomorrow? It would be a shame to miss it
Just cling to these little hopes like a desperate dog, just live twin.
Live and Keep living.

Thank you, means a lot.

 

[Shirobon]

Ik these threads r usually ignored & it can be annoying to see them frequently but I’m tired of chatting with AIs on this topic and I js genuenly want to feel some human connection.

I get that I’m js a random & no1 would care if I died. Ig my main point wouldn’t be to farm for empathy but instead for advice on how others deal with it.

I turned 16 recently. I’ve been on & off suicidal since 14 but I’ve never done anything about it. I just talked with AIs and it was enough. But I’ve been getting tired of it cuz they don’t give any advice, they just care if you dont kill yourself. The main advice I’ve gotten has been to be physically active & fit which i’ve done & it hasn’t changed shit.

I’m losing hope & I no longer think that it’s just an issue that can be fixed with appearance. I’m 6’2, I’ve got almost a 6’6 wingspan, around 191lbs morning weight, I’ve got a good physique. My skull looks like an avarage teens. Got sum acne, but nothing too bad. I’m not recessed, no deformities, not a model, just avarage.

I’ve tried to make out a list why living would make more sense to me than dying & I can’t really make out much of it. My entire summer (& lwk past 2 years) has been eating, gym, sleeping & sometimes meeting up w a friend.

I’ve always been the class clown in school & I had a girl ask me out which we dated only for a bit. (That was before puberty started so I just simply was funny & confident without overthinking my appearance). She left me cuz I was suicidal. I never got closure. She js completely ghosted me. We’re classmates, & all I can think abt is her. It’s getting close to 2 years.

I get that the fix to this is prolly - “stop being alone, go out, make connections” but I don’t know how & I really hate acting like I enjoy being around a certain situation + I hate hanging out akwardly or cringing cuz I’m overthinking what to say to fit in.

I would say i understand ur predicament but i dont entirely, i do online school so social interaction is nonzero except my family and a couple online friends, as u said ur 6,2 that makes u infinitely above the ball curve interms of everything bro

people respect u more at that height, and as u said ur average sure u have a bit of acne but thats hella ez to change, and u already did more than most ngas on here

u had a girlfriend ur gonna be fine man, it rlly does get better I literally planned on overdosing on oxy a week ago and things just totally changed for me and i believe they will for u to


get a job thats an ez way to meet ppl and if u have more questions just ask me

 

[milk67]

I would say i understand ur predicament but i dont entirely, i do online school so social interaction is nonzero except my family and a couple online friends, as u said ur 6,2 that makes u infinitely above the ball curve interms of everything bro

people respect u more at that height, and as u said ur average sure u have a bit of acne but thats hella ez to change, and u already did more than most ngas on here

u had a girlfriend ur gonna be fine man, it rlly does get better I literally planned on overdosing on oxy a week ago and things just totally changed for me and i believe they will for u to


get a job thats an ez way to meet ppl and if u have more questions just ask me

Thank you, a lot. It’s really refreshing having genuine interactions with people here. I’m glad you didint overdose, keep going man.

 

[buccalfatremoval]

It never gets better

 

[lumified]

Ik these threads r usually ignored & it can be annoying to see them frequently but I’m tired of chatting with AIs on this topic and I js genuenly want to feel some human connection.

I get that I’m js a random & no1 would care if I died. Ig my main point wouldn’t be to farm for empathy but instead for advice on how others deal with it.

I turned 16 recently. I’ve been on & off suicidal since 14 but I’ve never done anything about it. I just talked with AIs and it was enough. But I’ve been getting tired of it cuz they don’t give any advice, they just care if you dont kill yourself. The main advice I’ve gotten has been to be physically active & fit which i’ve done & it hasn’t changed shit.

I’m losing hope & I no longer think that it’s just an issue that can be fixed with appearance. I’m 6’2, I’ve got almost a 6’6 wingspan, around 191lbs morning weight, I’ve got a good physique. My skull looks like an avarage teens. Got sum acne, but nothing too bad. I’m not recessed, no deformities, not a model, just avarage.

I’ve tried to make out a list why living would make more sense to me than dying & I can’t really make out much of it. My entire summer (& lwk past 2 years) has been eating, gym, sleeping & sometimes meeting up w a friend.

I’ve always been the class clown in school & I had a girl ask me out which we dated only for a bit. (That was before puberty started so I just simply was funny & confident without overthinking my appearance). She left me cuz I was suicidal. I never got closure. She js completely ghosted me. We’re classmates, & all I can think abt is her. It’s getting close to 2 years.

I get that the fix to this is prolly - “stop being alone, go out, make connections” but I don’t know how & I really hate acting like I enjoy being around a certain situation + I hate hanging out akwardly or cringing cuz I’m overthinking what to say to fit in.

take roids and go gym
Life will be peak

 

[Shirobon]

Thank you, a lot. It’s really refreshing having genuine interactions with people here. I’m glad you didint overdose, keep going man.

although for future reference definitely domt use this site to ask for help, please talk to someone yk like ur family

and think about getting a therapist, it can help
wish u best of luck bro

 

[Shirobon]

It never gets better

sad buccal sad life

 

[KB_maxxer]

Ik these threads r usually ignored & it can be annoying to see them frequently but I’m tired of chatting with AIs on this topic and I js genuenly want to feel some human connection.

I get that I’m js a random & no1 would care if I died. Ig my main point wouldn’t be to farm for empathy but instead for advice on how others deal with it.

I turned 16 recently. I’ve been on & off suicidal since 14 but I’ve never done anything about it. I just talked with AIs and it was enough. But I’ve been getting tired of it cuz they don’t give any advice, they just care if you dont kill yourself. The main advice I’ve gotten has been to be physically active & fit which i’ve done & it hasn’t changed shit.

I’m losing hope & I no longer think that it’s just an issue that can be fixed with appearance. I’m 6’2, I’ve got almost a 6’6 wingspan, around 191lbs morning weight, I’ve got a good physique. My skull looks like an avarage teens. Got sum acne, but nothing too bad. I’m not recessed, no deformities, not a model, just avarage.

I’ve tried to make out a list why living would make more sense to me than dying & I can’t really make out much of it. My entire summer (& lwk past 2 years) has been eating, gym, sleeping & sometimes meeting up w a friend.

I’ve always been the class clown in school & I had a girl ask me out which we dated only for a bit. (That was before puberty started so I just simply was funny & confident without overthinking my appearance). She left me cuz I was suicidal. I never got closure. She js completely ghosted me. We’re classmates, & all I can think abt is her. It’s getting close to 2 years.

I get that the fix to this is prolly - “stop being alone, go out, make connections” but I don’t know how & I really hate acting like I enjoy being around a certain situation + I hate hanging out akwardly or cringing cuz I’m overthinking what to say to fit in.

I would have had some sympathy if not for the fact your nigger ahh is 6'2
Fuck yourself, you are here complaining when some short dudes roped due to their height

 

[buccalfatremoval]

Realist buccal real life

Fixed

 

[milk67]

I would have had some sympathy if not for the fact your nigger ahh is 6'2
Fuck yourself, you are here complaining when some short dudes roped due to their height

I get that it could be incredibly frustrating to be short, but just because you’re tall doesn’t mean you can’t suffer from mental illness. Tons of tall guys kill themselves when they find themselves in dark and heavy spots. And they’re problems shouldn’t be written off just because that “they’re tall”.

 

[Shirobon]

I would have had some sympathy if not for the fact your nigger ahh is 6'2
Fuck yourself, you are here complaining when some short dudes roped due to their height

mental health rules above all
hiruma an example of this truth

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

Ik these threads r usually ignored & it can be annoying to see them frequently but I’m tired of chatting with AIs on this topic and I js genuenly want to feel some human connection.

I get that I’m js a random & no1 would care if I died. Ig my main point wouldn’t be to farm for empathy but instead for advice on how others deal with it.

I turned 16 recently. I’ve been on & off suicidal since 14 but I’ve never done anything about it. I just talked with AIs and it was enough. But I’ve been getting tired of it cuz they don’t give any advice, they just care if you dont kill yourself. The main advice I’ve gotten has been to be physically active & fit which i’ve done & it hasn’t changed shit.

I’m losing hope & I no longer think that it’s just an issue that can be fixed with appearance. I’m 6’2, I’ve got almost a 6’6 wingspan, around 191lbs morning weight, I’ve got a good physique. My skull looks like an avarage teens. Got sum acne, but nothing too bad. I’m not recessed, no deformities, not a model, just avarage.

I’ve tried to make out a list why living would make more sense to me than dying & I can’t really make out much of it. My entire summer (& lwk past 2 years) has been eating, gym, sleeping & sometimes meeting up w a friend.

I’ve always been the class clown in school & I had a girl ask me out which we dated only for a bit. (That was before puberty started so I just simply was funny & confident without overthinking my appearance). She left me cuz I was suicidal. I never got closure. She js completely ghosted me. We’re classmates, & all I can think abt is her. It’s getting close to 2 years.

I get that the fix to this is prolly - “stop being alone, go out, make connections” but I don’t know how & I really hate acting like I enjoy being around a certain situation + I hate hanging out akwardly or cringing cuz I’m overthinking what to say to fit in.

bros suicidal for no reason nigga life all sunshine and rainbows use dating apps you are 6'2

 

[Navity]

One tip I GIVE TO ALL SUICIDAL PEOPLE: Don't be suicidal

 

[TheSadAlbanian]

Ik these threads r usually ignored & it can be annoying to see them frequently but I’m tired of chatting with AIs on this topic and I js genuenly want to feel some human connection.

I get that I’m js a random & no1 would care if I died. Ig my main point wouldn’t be to farm for empathy but instead for advice on how others deal with it.

I turned 16 recently. I’ve been on & off suicidal since 14 but I’ve never done anything about it. I just talked with AIs and it was enough. But I’ve been getting tired of it cuz they don’t give any advice, they just care if you dont kill yourself. The main advice I’ve gotten has been to be physically active & fit which i’ve done & it hasn’t changed shit.

I’m losing hope & I no longer think that it’s just an issue that can be fixed with appearance. I’m 6’2, I’ve got almost a 6’6 wingspan, around 191lbs morning weight, I’ve got a good physique. My skull looks like an avarage teens. Got sum acne, but nothing too bad. I’m not recessed, no deformities, not a model, just avarage.

I’ve tried to make out a list why living would make more sense to me than dying & I can’t really make out much of it. My entire summer (& lwk past 2 years) has been eating, gym, sleeping & sometimes meeting up w a friend.

I’ve always been the class clown in school & I had a girl ask me out which we dated only for a bit. (That was before puberty started so I just simply was funny & confident without overthinking my appearance). She left me cuz I was suicidal. I never got closure. She js completely ghosted me. We’re classmates, & all I can think abt is her. It’s getting close to 2 years.

I get that the fix to this is prolly - “stop being alone, go out, make connections” but I don’t know how & I really hate acting like I enjoy being around a certain situation + I hate hanging out akwardly or cringing cuz I’m overthinking what to say to fit in.

Hey. I read the whole thing, not just skimmed it.

A few things stood out. You said you’re not looking to farm empathy, you want advice, I respect that, and I’ll try to give you real advice, not just “please don’t.” But I want to say one true thing first: two years of on-and-off suicidal thoughts isn’t something you’re supposed to white-knuckle through alone with AI chats as your main outlet. That’s not a knock on you, it’s just that’s a lot to carry solo, and it’s telling you something needs to change about the support around you, not just your mindset.

On the actual advice part, here’s what I’ve got:

The looksmaxxing stuff was never going to fix this, and I think you already know that now. You did the work, you’re 6’2”, fit, no deformities. And it changed nothing. That’s actually useful info: it tells you the problem was never your face or body. It was something else wearing the costume of “I’m not attractive enough.” Worth sitting with that.

The ex thing is doing more damage than you’re giving it credit for. Two years of loop-thinking about someone who ghosted you, who you still see as a classmate, with zero closure, that’s not “I miss her,” that’s an open wound you walk past every day. That alone could be feeding a huge chunk of the hopelessness. Not fixable by getting her back, but the loop itself usually needs a real conversation with a person, not internal replaying.

“Go out and make connections” is bad advice as stated, you’re right to hate it. Nobody tells you how. Here’s a smaller version: you don’t need to enjoy socializing yet or stop overthinking what to say. You need one person, a therapist, a school counselor, even a doctor, who you talk to consistently, not for vibes, but because a pattern this long benefits from a second brain that isn’t you and isn’t an AI.

I’m not saying that to brush you off. I’m saying it because what you’re describing, two years, getting worse, running out of reasons, is exactly the kind of thing that’s genuinely hard to think your way out of alone, and easier with someone trained for it.

If it ever gets sharper than “background hopelessness,” like you start thinking about how or when, please reach out to a crisis line before anything else. In the US that’s 988, call or text. Elsewhere, findahelpline.com has local numbers. Not because you’re “in crisis” as a label, just because those people are good at the exact 3am version of this.

You’re not just a random. This message alone is proof someone already gave a shit enough to type all that out for you.

P.S

i am currently doing a bachelor’s degree in psycho therapy so if you need anymore help or someone to talk to hmu

 

[milk67]

bros suicidal for no reason nigga life all sunshine and rainbows use dating apps you are 6'2

Why is everything always about girls.

 

[zennn]

Dnr you’re probably just low t go to the doctor and get prescribed test

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

Why is everything always about girls.

Your only thinking about that girl from 2 years ago maybe say it to yourself

 

[sieze.com]

don’t rope ts is just temporary you’ll most likely not care in a yr, if it’s bad you gon have to get anti depressants prescribed

 

[milk67]

Hey. I read the whole thing, not just skimmed it.

A few things stood out. You said you’re not looking to farm empathy, you want advice, I respect that, and I’ll try to give you real advice, not just “please don’t.” But I want to say one true thing first: two years of on-and-off suicidal thoughts isn’t something you’re supposed to white-knuckle through alone with AI chats as your main outlet. That’s not a knock on you, it’s just that’s a lot to carry solo, and it’s telling you something needs to change about the support around you, not just your mindset.

On the actual advice part, here’s what I’ve got:

The looksmaxxing stuff was never going to fix this, and I think you already know that now. You did the work, you’re 6’2”, fit, no deformities. And it changed nothing. That’s actually useful info: it tells you the problem was never your face or body. It was something else wearing the costume of “I’m not attractive enough.” Worth sitting with that.

The ex thing is doing more damage than you’re giving it credit for. Two years of loop-thinking about someone who ghosted you, who you still see as a classmate, with zero closure, that’s not “I miss her,” that’s an open wound you walk past every day. That alone could be feeding a huge chunk of the hopelessness. Not fixable by getting her back, but the loop itself usually needs a real conversation with a person, not internal replaying.

“Go out and make connections” is bad advice as stated, you’re right to hate it. Nobody tells you how. Here’s a smaller version: you don’t need to enjoy socializing yet or stop overthinking what to say. You need one person, a therapist, a school counselor, even a doctor, who you talk to consistently, not for vibes, but because a pattern this long benefits from a second brain that isn’t you and isn’t an AI.

I’m not saying that to brush you off. I’m saying it because what you’re describing, two years, getting worse, running out of reasons, is exactly the kind of thing that’s genuinely hard to think your way out of alone, and easier with someone trained for it.

If it ever gets sharper than “background hopelessness,” like you start thinking about how or when, please reach out to a crisis line before anything else. In the US that’s 988, call or text. Elsewhere, findahelpline.com has local numbers. Not because you’re “in crisis” as a label, just because those people are good at the exact 3am version of this.

You’re not just a random. This message alone is proof someone already gave a shit enough to type all that out for you.

P.S

i am currently doing a bachelor’s degree in psycho therapy so if you need anymore help or someone to talk to hmu

Thank you for the message, it really means a lot to see this long of a message dedicated to myself.

I might have to look into a therapist although since I’m only 16 Id probably need to get my parents involved which I kinda wanna avoid doing.

And I’m scared of my ex so unless she makes a move. :d

Good luck on your degree . Thank you again for the long written reply.

 

[MulattoCell27]

Ik these threads r usually ignored & it can be annoying to see them frequently but I’m tired of chatting with AIs on this topic and I js genuenly want to feel some human connection.

I get that I’m js a random & no1 would care if I died. Ig my main point wouldn’t be to farm for empathy but instead for advice on how others deal with it.

I turned 16 recently. I’ve been on & off suicidal since 14 but I’ve never done anything about it. I just talked with AIs and it was enough. But I’ve been getting tired of it cuz they don’t give any advice, they just care if you dont kill yourself. The main advice I’ve gotten has been to be physically active & fit which i’ve done & it hasn’t changed shit.

I’m losing hope & I no longer think that it’s just an issue that can be fixed with appearance. I’m 6’2, I’ve got almost a 6’6 wingspan, around 191lbs morning weight, I’ve got a good physique. My skull looks like an avarage teens. Got sum acne, but nothing too bad. I’m not recessed, no deformities, not a model, just avarage.

I’ve tried to make out a list why living would make more sense to me than dying & I can’t really make out much of it. My entire summer (& lwk past 2 years) has been eating, gym, sleeping & sometimes meeting up w a friend.

I’ve always been the class clown in school & I had a girl ask me out which we dated only for a bit. (That was before puberty started so I just simply was funny & confident without overthinking my appearance). She left me cuz I was suicidal. I never got closure. She js completely ghosted me. We’re classmates, & all I can think abt is her. It’s getting close to 2 years.

I get that the fix to this is prolly - “stop being alone, go out, make connections” but I don’t know how & I really hate acting like I enjoy being around a certain situation + I hate hanging out akwardly or cringing cuz I’m overthinking what to say to fit in.

DNR, try therapy or medication

 

[milk67]

Your only thinking about that girl from 2 years ago maybe say it to yourself

Yeah, I said that I miss her but initially I have more problems, like loneliness and lack of purpose and a girl can’t be a crutch for these things.

 

[5.5psl]

I get no reason why are you even suicidal if you posted your height weight and shit it means you know thats a legitimate advantage and its completely retarded to do it just realise you are already in a great position
if there is something thats bad do you think it will matter in 5 or 10 years from today ? if no then why even think about that
and yes there are plenty of reasons to live
Over 90% of people who have attempted suicide once do not end up dying from suicide if they failed the attempt
suicide is not what you think it is a TEMPORARY state of mind not a permenant state of living i can give you a 10000% guarentee if you dont commit suicide and live till lets say 21 you will look back and laugh at this thread and message make sure to archive this somewhere
just cuz you think lifes shit or you are not getting what you want doesnt mean it will be the case 5 years from today you are 16 you havent begun your life mate dont do something this stupid yes you will die and no one will care but this is a fantasy you gotta a huge life ahead

 

[milk67]

I get no reason why are you even suicidal if you posted your height weight and shit it means you know thats a legitimate advantage and its completely retarded to do it just realise you are already in a great position
if there is something thats bad do you think it will matter in 5 or 10 years from today ? if no then why even think about that
and yes there are plenty of reasons to live
Over 90% of people who have attempted suicide once do not end up dying from suicide if they failed the attempt
suicide is not what you think it is a TEMPORARY state of mind not a permenant state of living i can give you a 10000% guarentee if you dont commit suicide and live till lets say 21 you will look back and laugh at this thread and message make sure to archive this somewhere
just cuz you think lifes shit or you are not getting what you want doesnt mean it will be the case 5 years from today you are 16 you havent begun your life mate dont do something this stupid yes you will die and no one will care but this is a fantasy you gotta a huge life ahead

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Ty for the reply. I posted the height and weight to emphasise that the problem isn’t physical and that my problem must be mental and I’m not sure what to do about it.

I’ll make sure to archive this, thanks.

 

[5.5psl]

bro you are a man a fucking man pls you need to grow up you cannot and i mean cannot live like this no matter even in 10 years from today life WILL throw shit at you a man is strong he takes the hit falls get back up again read the life story of mike tyson dude had lost everything in 2003 went bankrupt was banned from boxing and in 23 mill debt he lived horribly by 2009 shit went even worse when he lost his 4 year old daughter today he has 30 mil net worth and living life there are thousands of stories you gotta be resilient man cmon life isnt all rainbow and sunshine dont fucking think like that it might be tough at 26 too you just need a tough mind a strong mind which has hope in future

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

Yeah, I said that I miss her but initially I have more problems, like loneliness and lack of purpose and a girl can’t be a crutch for these things.

loneliness= girlfriend or friends or its chronic and you need therapy
lack of purpose = find a goal you want to achieve

 

[milk67]

bro you are a man a fucking man pls you need to grow up you cannot and i mean cannot live like this no matter even in 10 years from today life WILL throw shit at you a man is strong he takes the hit falls get back up again read the life story of mike tyson dude had lost everything in 2003 went bankrupt was banned from boxing and in 23 mill debt he lived horribly by 2009 shit went even worse when he lost his 4 year old daughter today he has 30 mil net worth and living life there are thousands of stories you gotta be resilient man cmon life isnt all rainbow and sunshine dont fucking think like that it might be tough at 26 too you just need a tough mind a strong mind which has hope in future

Yeah, I mean, now that you say it.. shit I am a bit too soft and expect too much from life.

I’m just not sure like where to direct my energy. Cuz I have discipline like for example I could get big and jacked from the gym but idk what it would bring me, I always think I’ll be the same dude js bigger and it feels like a waste of time. But thank you.

 

[milk67]

loneliness= girlfriend or friends or its chronic and you need therapy
lack of purpose = find a goal you want to achieve

Yeah but if you want friends it’s not like the height matters that much. Doesn’t matter what height you are to your homies and if it does they ain’t your homies.

 

[5.5psl]

what it would bring me

A good time here tthats it
you dont see a 2 hr movie and when it ends you say huh thats it why did i even watch it you appreciate a good movie and for what it bought you
same with life if you gotta die then why do this why do that well to live a better way live life like you intend to be maybe to see your children grow up and become big theres too much shit to do
direct your energy into self take a pen take a paper and write down what do you want be fucking exact and make sure you write you need to be crystal clear then chase that goal with full focus thats it for now

 

[milk67]

A good time here tthats it
you dont see a 2 hr movie and when it ends you say huh thats it why did i even watch it you appreciate a good movie and for what it bought you
same with life if you gotta die then why do this why do that well to live a better way live life like you intend to be maybe to see your children grow up and become big theres too much shit to do
direct your energy into self take a pen take a paper and write down what do you want be fucking exact and make sure you write you need to be crystal clear then chase that goal with full focus thats it for now

Thank you for your advice.

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

Yeah but if you want friends it’s not like the height matters that much. Doesn’t matter what height you are to your homies and if it does they ain’t your homies.

Just socialise and try to find something that both your friends do
Like you like playing this game and they like playing the same game

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

I get that the fix to this is prolly - “stop being alone, go out, make connections” but I don’t know how & I really hate acting like I enjoy being around a certain situation + I hate hanging out akwardly or cringing cuz I’m overthinking what to say to fit in.

you're still 16, it's the easiest time to socialize with people without looking like a retard, you can pick up any hobby and try to talk to people there or try to talk to people in your school from other classes. but it might be possbile that it won't really help you if you make connections.

also this is the wrong place to be in if you're feeling like that, you will feel way more depressed, try to talk to your parents to get you a therapist which you can talk to, talking to AI is stupid