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The older you become the harder it is to get a girl, and water is wet.
Many people like to cope with the popular sentiment: men's life gets better from their 30s, or at least it doesn't get worse.
But the reality is, the older you become, the harder it is to gain exposure to prime aged women (18~22) at the peak of their attractiveness.
Once you hit 30 or over, More women will consider you creepy for cold approaching on a street, and you will be that one weird old manchild in the club by women.
I can think of some ways to defy this, either by being an influencer, rapper or being so attractive that you can get the best woman on dating apps.
I would assume this is why doing Ph.D. is less popular than just attaining a Bachelor's degree and joining the workforce.
Ph.D comes with more money, more prestige, more leverage to finding partners, but you will be old to reap the benefits to enjoy all that hard work.
30 might be unc but can still be considered young and attractive. but when it's over 35, shit hits the fan. Most men except chads are marginalized by the dating market. Most people around your age are already settled down, young women don't consider you. You don't even have means to connect with other women except joining a running club, which gives very limited pool of women to access.
That's why, for most people, it is best to settle down at a fairly young age, when you have a better chance of attracting women you find desirable than at most other points in your life.
Many people like to cope with the popular sentiment: men's life gets better from their 30s, or at least it doesn't get worse.
But the reality is, the older you become, the harder it is to gain exposure to prime aged women (18~22) at the peak of their attractiveness.
Once you hit 30 or over, More women will consider you creepy for cold approaching on a street, and you will be that one weird old manchild in the club by women.
I can think of some ways to defy this, either by being an influencer, rapper or being so attractive that you can get the best woman on dating apps.
I would assume this is why doing Ph.D. is less popular than just attaining a Bachelor's degree and joining the workforce.
Ph.D comes with more money, more prestige, more leverage to finding partners, but you will be old to reap the benefits to enjoy all that hard work.
30 might be unc but can still be considered young and attractive. but when it's over 35, shit hits the fan. Most men except chads are marginalized by the dating market. Most people around your age are already settled down, young women don't consider you. You don't even have means to connect with other women except joining a running club, which gives very limited pool of women to access.
That's why, for most people, it is best to settle down at a fairly young age, when you have a better chance of attracting women you find desirable than at most other points in your life.

