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This is water to people who have actual social experience and self-reflect but I think I still need to point it out to a few of you:
All your theories are too shitty and small in scope to be accurate in how dating and attraction plays out in real life.
Most of it is a coping mechanism. You might think: „how can something as nihilistic as the blackpill be cope?“
Its pretty easy to explain. A lot of you (myself included) have a very analytical approach to life, and a strong hunger for knowledge and understanding. This is probably the #1 thing people here have in common.
Dating and attraction however is faaar too complex and fluid to just reduce it to looks. Same for redpill or whatever theory basement dwellers come up with.
We‘re basically the conspiracy theorists of dating. Exactly how some people can‘t comprehend their poorness and say ‚muh the illuminati/jews/etc are responsible for my misery‘, we say ‚muh its only about looks, when in reality dating (and in my analogy wealth and the economy) is very complex.
Every single theory I‘ve seen here can be debunked by spending one night outside and watching who hooks up with whom. The positive and negative ones.
There is no formula for attraction. It‘s detrimental to take an analytical approach to it, as it is far too complex and never plays out how you expect.
There‘s just too much variance in individual preferences. The one trait or attraction switch that‘s probably most effective is portraying confidence/competence. But even then there are girls who don‘t care as long as you‘re attractive enough.
TL;DR: None of your theories and formulas will ever be able to accurately estimate how attraction plays out in real life. I personally wish there was one too, but realistically there is none and there will never be one.
All your theories are too shitty and small in scope to be accurate in how dating and attraction plays out in real life.
Most of it is a coping mechanism. You might think: „how can something as nihilistic as the blackpill be cope?“
Its pretty easy to explain. A lot of you (myself included) have a very analytical approach to life, and a strong hunger for knowledge and understanding. This is probably the #1 thing people here have in common.
Dating and attraction however is faaar too complex and fluid to just reduce it to looks. Same for redpill or whatever theory basement dwellers come up with.
We‘re basically the conspiracy theorists of dating. Exactly how some people can‘t comprehend their poorness and say ‚muh the illuminati/jews/etc are responsible for my misery‘, we say ‚muh its only about looks, when in reality dating (and in my analogy wealth and the economy) is very complex.
Every single theory I‘ve seen here can be debunked by spending one night outside and watching who hooks up with whom. The positive and negative ones.
There is no formula for attraction. It‘s detrimental to take an analytical approach to it, as it is far too complex and never plays out how you expect.
There‘s just too much variance in individual preferences. The one trait or attraction switch that‘s probably most effective is portraying confidence/competence. But even then there are girls who don‘t care as long as you‘re attractive enough.
TL;DR: None of your theories and formulas will ever be able to accurately estimate how attraction plays out in real life. I personally wish there was one too, but realistically there is none and there will never be one.