Am I desensitised to sex or is sex genuinely not that interesting ?

[5.5psl]

Like I legit feel better watching porn and masturbating than having sex no cap
Even drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes gives me more pleasure than sex
Am I desensitised to sex or is sex genuinely not that interesting/boring ?
@Amnesia @Bojack

 

[Bojack]

i still enjoy fucking escorts, but the novelty of sex has fallen off for me a bit.

 

[TechnoBoss]

Like I legit feel better watching porn and masturbating than having sex no cap
Even drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes gives me more pleasure than sex
Am I desensitised to sex or is sex genuinely not that interesting/boring ?
@Amnesia @Bojack

This is what happens after you have enough sex. You just stop giving a fuck about looks or slaying. I'd rather jerk off too. Way less time it takes to do so. I don't have to meet the girl, talk, go to my house, spend forever doing it. I just get instant gratification and I don't have to be bothered. I'm sure you feel the same.

 

[5.5psl]

i still enjoy fucking escorts, but the novelty of sex has fallen off for me a bit.

Tbh I feel sad for those teens who are looksmaxxing to get sex ROFL
Once they have it they'll realise they just ended up wasting their time chasing behind nothing

 

[edodalic29]

For me it feels the same as mastrubating , its like a workout to me the only thing i enjoy is the validation i get and just the overall experience not so much the sex

 

[Freixel]

I lost my virginity when I was 25, I was literally the same guy as always, just a little less neurotic. Having sex even once can help you relax a little in social matters, but you will remain the same.

Maybe if I had lost my virginity when I was younger I would have had a different experience.

 

[Achilles]

Like I legit feel better watching porn and masturbating than having sex no cap
Even drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes gives me more pleasure than sex
Am I desensitised to sex or is sex genuinely not that interesting/boring ?
@Amnesia @Bojack

This is what happens after you have enough sex. You just stop giving a fuck about looks or slaying. I'd rather jerk off too. Way less time it takes to do so. I don't have to meet the girl, talk, go to my house, spend forever doing it. I just get instant gratification and I don't have to be bothered. I'm sure you feel the same.

complete opposite experience for me. yall get your hormones in optimal function.
sex feels absolutely insanely good while jerking off is nowhere near as arousing

 

[TechnoBoss]

Tbh I feel sad for those teens who are looksmaxxing to get sex ROFL
Once they have it they'll realise they just ended up wasting their time chasing behind nothing

It's not chasing nothing. You need to have that experience of having a lot of sex in the beginning.

complete opposite experience for me. yall get your hormones in optimal function.
sex feels absolutely insanely good while jerking off is nowhere near as arousing

Bro I assure you my hormones are functioning optimally. Morning mood every day and I grow a beard in like 3 days. Insanely high DHT. Once you have sex with enough women you just stop giving a fuck. It'll happen to you.

 

[edodalic29]

complete opposite experience for me. yall get your hormones in optimal function.
sex feels absolutely insanely good while jerking off is nowhere near as arousing

Do u fuck the same hoe over n over or new

 

[Achilles]

Do u fuck the same hoe over n over or new

usually new girls but ive fucked the same girl like 3+ times a day for a week straight and never got bored/wasnt ready to fuck
I actually prefer fucking the same girl over and over because the sex can be a lot better and you know more about her. ONS can be stressful if you are drunk af or get close to busting too fast or you havent figured out what she likes.

 

[Earth Dollar]

sex does get boring tbh

even when me and my gf try new positions or wild things it gets old pretty quickly and we have to move on to something new

honestly sex is one of the most overrated things. the anticipation leading up to sex is way more exciting than the actual act tbh.

 

[Azonin]

sex does get boring tbh

even when me and my gf try new positions or wild things it gets old pretty quickly and we have to move on to something new

honestly sex is one of the most overrated things. the anticipation leading up to sex is way more exciting than the actual act tbh.

Sure, the feeling of getting hard when a girl touches your cock/plays with your crotch is kinda better than an actual bj or piv tbh.

 

[Earth Dollar]

@dreamcake1mo has better explanations for this probably

 

[Deleted member 57464]

why cant i have these problems?/??

 

[butterworld]

why cant i have these problems?/??

You can, just fuck a few escorts.

 

[dehydrated]

Like I legit feel better watching porn and masturbating than having sex no cap
Even drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes gives me more pleasure than sex
Am I desensitised to sex or is sex genuinely not that interesting/boring ?
@Amnesia @Bojack

You have to get raped as a kid to become hyper sexual to enjoy sex

 

[Jungcuck]

Had only one girlfriend but it was boring as fuck,
She was high ltb 5'0 latina.
Fuck a stacylite escort and was boring too.
Will try to fuck a HTB raw an then if it's boring will give up on sex

 

[5.5psl]

Like I legit feel better watching porn and masturbating than having sex no cap
Even drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes gives me more pleasure than sex
Am I desensitised to sex or is sex genuinely not that interesting/boring ?
@Amnesia @Bojack

@Swarthy Knight
Thoughts ?

 

[5.5psl]

Like I legit feel better watching porn and masturbating than having sex no cap
Even drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes gives me more pleasure than sex
Am I desensitised to sex or is sex genuinely not that interesting/boring ?
@Amnesia @Bojack

@DrTony

 

[Swarthy Knight]

Like I legit feel better watching porn and masturbating than having sex no cap
Even drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes gives me more pleasure than sex
Am I desensitised to sex or is sex genuinely not that interesting/boring ?
@Amnesia @Bojack

Bragging sex haver

 

[SoundnVision]

Destroyed dopamine receptors.
Sex is the pinnacle of all experiences possible to the human male, if he has a healthy brain.

 

[5.5psl]

Destroyed dopamine receptors.
Sex is the pinnacle of all experiences possible to the human male, if he has a healthy brain.

How do I get my dopamine receptors to normal ? And I'm pretty sure sex isnt the pinnacle of all experiences possible to human male especially when done with a condom.

 

[SoundnVision]

How do I get my dopamine receptors to normal ? And I'm pretty sure sex isnt the pinnacle of all experiences possible to human male especially when done with a condom.

Don't watch porn ever again and limit fapping

 

[SoundnVision]

How do I get my dopamine receptors to normal ? And I'm pretty sure sex isnt the pinnacle of all experiences possible to human male especially when done with a condom.

Well most men don't even know these days because kids have fucked up dopamine before they even reach adulthood

 

[5.5psl]

Don't watch porn ever again and limit fapping

Is the pleasure also related to t levels ?

 

[SoundnVision]

Is the pleasure also related to t levels ?

They need to be normal but it's 90% brain

 

[ShawarmaFilth]

sex does get boring tbh

even when me and my gf try new positions or wild things it gets old pretty quickly and we have to move on to something new

honestly sex is one of the most overrated things. the anticipation leading up to sex is way more exciting than the actual act tbh.

Im lowkey scared ts moght happen to me if i ever get a gf

Do you ever ponder leaving eachother because of it?

 

[Earth Dollar]

Im lowkey scared ts moght happen to me if i ever get a gf

Do you ever ponder leaving eachother because of it?

not really we still enjoy each other's company in other ways but it isn't just her

even the previous sex ive had with other girls wasn't all that. it's only the validation and the anticipation building up to it that is the only exciting experience for me. ofc some guys would say different. overall people's opinions on how sex feels varies tbh.

 

[ShawarmaFilth]

not really we still enjoy each other's company in other ways but it isn't just her

even the previous sex ive had with other girls wasn't all that. it's only the validation and the anticipation building up to it that is the only exciting experience for me. ofc some guys would say different. overall people's opinions on how sex feels varies tbh.

So jerking off or girl?

 

[Earth Dollar]

So jerking off or girl?

jerking off for pleasure

girl for validation

 

[Autismcel]

This is what happens after you have enough sex. You just stop giving a fuck about looks or slaying. I'd rather jerk off too. Way less time it takes to do so. I don't have to meet the girl, talk, go to my house, spend forever doing it. I just get instant gratification and I don't have to be bothered. I'm sure you feel the same.

The part about giving up on looks is not true, I agree with the slaying part, at that point you'll just want a LTR

 

[ShawarmaFilth]

jerking off for pleasure

girl for validation

Really??? My fucking hand with some coconut oil feels better than pussy from a girl i love?

I cant believe this tbh, ill have to wait and see for myself

 

[Autismcel]

I feel like I'm desensitized to jerking off, I might enjoy sex more (if I'll ever have it)

 

[Autismcel]

Really??? My fucking hand with some coconut oil feels better than pussy from a girl i love?

I cant believe this tbh, ill have to wait and see for myself

OP is talking about slaying random foids, not having sex with a girl you like because obv that mogs

 

[Earth Dollar]

Really??? My fucking hand with some coconut oil feels better than pussy from a girl i love?

I cant believe this tbh, ill have to wait and see for myself

sex with someone you love feels better emotionally but sex itself only feels a little better from jerking

 

[dopaminebeyondfried]

Both, low t faggot

 

[darkness97]

it could be low t, too much porn, or bad lifestyle but i have been having the same experience. it dawned on me the other day that women like to be taken out on dates. i thought "who the fuck would put that much effort into getting laid?".

i cannot imagine talking to a girl for weeks, taking her out, and trying to seduce for sex. this weird and gross action that could fuck ur life up if you're not careful and you're only really in the mood for once every few months? then deal with the emotional turmoil of having sex with a woman who really likes you and slowly backing away from the situation before she guilts you and slashes your tires.

generally sex is overrated.

 

[tombradylover]

sex mogs when its with someone you really like/love and/or you are physically attracted too even if u have had it quite a lot. nothing tops nutting in a fine asf bitch u pulled through ur mogger looks or fucking someone u have very strong feelings for. But slaying is overplayed and too much work tbh unless ur bagging HTB+ bitches without having to put too much work into it which is impossible for 99% of guys

 

[5.5psl]

Really??? My fucking hand with some coconut oil feels better than pussy from a girl i love?

I cant believe this tbh, ill have to wait and see for myself

yes
coz you can use your imagination while fapping but it would only work if you had sex decent number of times if you are a virgin who has never done sex then sex would ofc feel better in the beginning

 

[optimisticzoomer]

I think for me I've just had so much sex it's gotten boring

 

[5.5psl]

I think for me I've just had so much sex it's gotten boring

Werent you virgin?

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Werent you virgin?

Still am