Appearing indecisive is probably the worst personality trait

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Indecisive, hesitant people open themselves up to so much judgment and criticism. You can get away with so much more if you do it right away. The second you give people a second to take the initiative away from you, it opens you up to so much shit. You can act like such a dick if you just do it without hesitation, but slight pauses make you have to walk on eggshells. Just another way high inhib aspie lose, I guess.
 
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Indecisive, hesitant people open themselves up to so much judgment and criticism. You can get away with so much more if you do it right away. The second you give people a second to take the initiative away from you, it opens you up to so much shit. You can act like such a dick if you just do it without hesitation, but slight pauses make you have to walk on eggshells. Just another way high inhib aspie lose, I guess.
Fuck. Unfortunately relate a lot.
 
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yes. if your superiors and co-workers see this in you, congrats, you're now an unreliable fucking sped in their eyes. brutal
 
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yes. if your superiors and co-workers see this in you, congrats, you're now an unreliable fucking sped in their eyes. brutal
What’s brutal is that it happens in a second. On the subconscious level, I immediately see someone as a target if there are even slight delays in their behavior.
 
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Idk why but seeing it in real time makes me super angry
 
Indecisive, hesitant people open themselves up to so much judgment and criticism. You can get away with so much more if you do it right away. The second you give people a second to take the initiative away from you, it opens you up to so much shit. You can act like such a dick if you just do it without hesitation, but slight pauses make you have to walk on eggshells. Just another way high inhib aspie lose, I guess.
Good that I act first then think later tbh
 
Idk why but seeing it in real time makes me super angry
On a subconscious level, we think the person is being deceptive/manipulative by trying to pause and strategize. We naturally want to be mean to them to show them it’s not working.
 

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