Arrange marriage is a retarded thing

[Chadeep]

so it gives "lower castes" advantages? Like would a dalit be more likely to get a job compared to a brahmin given they had similar qualifications

In government job yes. They get selected in college at lower scores.

 

[supernova..]

expanding on this
@Chadeep @Jason Voorhees @supernova..
If you guys dont live in the west i think you underestimate the advantages of living in an ethnic country. The individiualistic culture in the west sucks, like to a crazy extent.
I'd literally kill to go back in time and have never have moved to the west, besides the passport buff it sucks.

It's just so much more lonely, there is no warmness.

I really want a household where my sisters husband and kids, my parents and my wife and kids, along with some aunties all live in one big shared house, its so much more fulfilling, and its not a thing in the west. Even never getting married in an ethnic country doesnt leave you lonely as there is such an emphasis on family, which doesn't exist in the west in the same way.

Yeah ig it's bad move back to Saudi or some where man

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Yeah ig it's bad move back to Saudi or some where man

100% i will if i dont find a wife in the west, the only thing is that western culture is so embedded into my brain that I might find it hard to have a wife back from egypt. But still, i think western culture is way too individualistic

 

[tertaf]

so youd rather have unmitigated hypergamy running wild?
you prefer the 80/20 dating market where 20% of men get 100% of the women?

Nah arranged marriage has worked for thousand of years for a reason

yeah I would tbh

arranged marrainges fuck over the gene pool

 

[Chadeep]

expanding on this
@Chadeep @Jason Voorhees @supernova..
If you guys dont live in the west i think you underestimate the advantages of living in an ethnic country. The individiualistic culture in the west sucks, like to a crazy extent.
I'd literally kill to go back in time and have never have moved to the west, besides the passport buff it sucks.

It's just so much more lonely, there is no warmness.

I really want a household where my sisters husband and kids, my parents and my wife and kids, along with some aunties all live in one big shared house, its so much more fulfilling, and its not a thing in the west. Even never getting married in an ethnic country doesnt leave you lonely as there is such an emphasis on family, which doesn't exist in the west in the same way.

Ethnic cultures are enriched with people tbh. You have big families in villages. Have cousins or uncle's on speed dial anytime you want. Same can't be said about white people and people living in the west.

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Ethnic cultures are enriched with people tbh. You have big families in villages. Have cousins or uncle's on speed dial anytime you want. Same can't be said about white people and people living in the west.

100% and its the thing I miss most.
honestly the closest thing to it in the west, is when I was really good friends with this Indian family back in early high school I went to their birthdays and diwali and stuff, its so much more wholesome.

If I go back to egypt it will be much harder to get those connections after being away for like 14 years, but i'd love to live a life like that. You just have this massive safety net, it just feels like there is always someone

 

[supernova..]

100% and its the thing I miss most.
honestly the closest thing to it in the west, is when I was really good friends with this Indian family back in early high school I went to their birthdays and diwali and stuff, its so much more wholesome.

If I go back to egypt it will be much harder to get those connections after being away for like 14 years, but i'd love to live a life like that. You just have this massive safety net, it just feels like there is always someone

Atp just go back to Egypt bro and hows the culture in Egypt like dating and etc

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Atp just go back to Egypt bro and hows the culture in Egypt like dating and etc

conservative, probably moreso than India
But I want an Australian degree before I go back, to capitilise fully on the Western Buff, they glaze you if you have a western education. But most of my immediate family from egypt has also scattered across the world, since Egypt was a shithole in the 2000s, hopefully they come back when we are older, and we can live a similar wholesome lifestyle.

Worst case, i'll just work until im like 35 in Australia get a good amount of money, go to egypt arranged marriage, and be wealthy enough to stay home all day

 

[Centurion Hunter]

Yes , you heard me right
In india if you arrange marriage Maxx a woman it's because either
1. You have a lot of money
2.Your parents would have forced you to do so
I have seen when they seek alliance they just ask what is the groom's occupation/ work this is the most retarded thing a person can ask while choosing his partner
Reasons on why this happens :
Many women in India dont go to work they rely on their partners
While doing arrange marriage they just mostly neglect the looks part and go for the money part
Most of the parents think the same too
Only way Indians can improve our genetics is by choosing better genetics to breed and improve our generation
Arrange marriage should be banned in India
Tagging: @Chadeep
@Jason Voorhees @primal_shitmuncher
@Punjabi Waffen

State of the forum
Whats the alternative then?

 

[supernova..]

conservative, probably moreso than India
But I want an Australian degree before I go back, to capitilise fully on the Western Buff, they glaze you if you have a western education. But most of my immediate family from egypt has also scattered across the world, since Egypt was a shithole in the 2000s, hopefully they come back when we are older, and we can live a similar wholesome lifestyle.

Worst case, i'll just work until im like 35 in Australia get a good amount of money, go to egypt arranged marriage, and be wealthy enough to stay home all day

I see man , wish u luck .

 

[supernova..]

State of the forum
Whats the alternative then?

Ascending and making girls choose us solely based on our looks as the first option

 

[JohnDoe]

Without it, Indian men would die incel. Arranged marriage isn't always bad though. It was practiced pretty much globally before modern times. Allowing women the freedom to choose is why we are in our current predicament. Women don't know what's good for them.

 

[sonic55555]

yeah I would tbh

arranged marrainges fuck over the gene pool

you wont be caring about the gene pool when youre 55 years old sitting alone in an appartment rotting away because you couldnt live up to the female hypergamous standards, as in you are not a chad and therefore you die alone

Arranged marriage is better

 

[JohnDoe]

conservative, probably moreso than India
But I want an Australian degree before I go back, to capitilise fully on the Western Buff, they glaze you if you have a western education. But most of my immediate family from egypt has also scattered across the world, since Egypt was a shithole in the 2000s, hopefully they come back when we are older, and we can live a similar wholesome lifestyle.

Worst case, i'll just work until im like 35 in Australia get a good amount of money, go to egypt arranged marriage, and be wealthy enough to stay home all day

Sounds like a good plan although 35 is kinda pushing it but I'm aware women in Egypt are not age cucked and a 20-24 year old will marry a 35 year old if he's got money

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Sounds like a good plan although 35 is kinda pushing it but I'm aware women in Egypt are not age cucked and a 20-24 year old will marry a 35 year old if he's got money

yeah probably younger tbh, just as long as i can bare the loneliness JFL.
but yeah age isnt a big factor for men as long as you are under 40ish, if not that, i'd just get my degree work for a couple years and move back at like 27, Australian work experience would probably be glazed there and land me a high paying job

 

[Chadeep]

you wont be caring about the gene pool when youre 55 years old sitting alone in an appartment rotting away because you couldnt live up to the female hypergamous standards, as in you are not a chad and therefore you die alone

Arranged marriage is better

Its a safety net. Most foids marry by obligation and survival not because of choice. Would you want to stay in a marriage where a foid just tolerates you.

 

[Manletsteinberg]

you wont be caring about the gene pool when youre 55 years old sitting alone in an appartment rotting away because you couldnt live up to the female hypergamous standards, as in you are not a chad and therefore you die alone

Arranged marriage is better

I wish I could give this like 40 reps, this is exactly my opinion, fuck the genepool.
If the genepool continues to be like its been for 1000 years its good, people will be happier overall with arranged marriages, if the genepool is bad and arranged marriage is still a thing then the genepool matters fuckall cause you will get a wife either way. Its just a more fulfilling life.

The other argument is that let the genepool filter itself out but then you have people in like 100 years who will be born as a sub 5 due to bad genetic recombinatoin and be an incel, even moreso because everyone else is better looking. It just causes more human suffering in the long run.

Id much rather a shit genepool than people suffering

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Its a safety net. Most foids marry by obligation and survival not because of choice. Would you want to stay in a marriage where a foid just tolerates you.

I agree that in a lot of cases it is just the foid tolerating the husband, but after some time they learn to actually like eachother.

this might sound bluepilled as fuck, but as long as they have compatible personalities and are somewhat looksmatched like within a couple tiers, i'd say after a while they will learn to actually like eachother. Beyond the point of toleration.

But a society where both options exist is best, like in the third world currently, but I do think arranged marriage as an insutution isnt bad, a large portion of love marriages are also just the two tolerating eachother after like 20 years

but this is just what i've gathered from anectodatal experience

 

[sonic55555]

I wish I could give this like 40 reps, this is exactly my opinion, fuck the genepool.
If the genepool continues to be like its been for 1000 years its good, people will be happier overall with arranged marriages, if the genepool is bad and arranged marriage is still a thing then the genepool matters fuckall cause you will get a wife either way. Its just a more fulfilling life.

The other argument is that let the genepool filter itself out but then you have people in like 100 years who will be born as a sub 5 due to bad genetic recombinatoin and be an incel, even moreso because everyone else is better looking. It just causes more human suffering in the long run.

Id much rather a shit genepool than people suffering

Preach

 

[Manletsteinberg]

@tertaf are you ethnic?

 

[sonic55555]

Indians and muslims in the west still have their safety net, they dont know whats its really like to be out of options and unable to get a female. So i dont really want to hear them badmouth arranged marriage, because we damn well know most of them are gonna pick that option in the end anyways

Women only want chad, if you are not a chad then its either betabux for a few years with a woman who barely tolerates you or arranged marriage with a woman who atleast feels obligated to be with you

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Ascending and making girls choose us solely based on our looks as the first option

Besides from be disagreeing with this on an ethical level due to more human suffering, also this would collapse india econoimcally, birthrates are already falling in India, sure you might have a better genepool but it will fuck over the economy, you guys rely on high numbers of people

 

[Chadeep]

I agree that in a lot of cases it is just the foid tolerating the husband, but after some time they learn to actually like eachother.

this might sound bluepilled as fuck, but as long as they have compatible personalities and are somewhat looksmatched like within a couple tiers, i'd say after a while they will learn to actually like eachother. Beyond the point of toleration.

But a society where both options exist is best, like in the third world currently, but I do think arranged marriage as an insutution isnt bad, a large portion of love marriages are also just the two tolerating eachother after like 20 years

but this is just what i've gathered from anectodatal experience

That existed in India till 2010's after that lots of women are coming into workforce and DEI Hiring for women meant that many men are out of arranged marriage market as foid only want higher earning men. Divorce rape has increased tenfold in last decade. If you're in a Country with Patriarchal Law Structure it's fine to do an Arranged Marriage. I know cuz many of my uncle's got wives way more beautiful than them married before 2010. But now my cousins are getting fat ugly women who have standards of a stacy.

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Indians and muslims in the west still have their safety net, they dont know whats its really like to be out of options and unable to get a female. So i dont really want to hear them badmouth arranged marriage, because we damn well know most of them are gonna pick that option in the end anyways

Women only want chad, if you are not a chad then its either betabux for a few years with a woman who barely tolerates you or arranged marriage with a woman who atleast feels obligated to be with you

i'm so happy for the safety net, I hope arranged marriage still exists for my kids, if i decide to have them. Idk if its even ethical having a son at this height tbh, maybe if i optimise the puberty he could be somewhat near average?

 

[Chadeep]

Indians and muslims in the west still have their safety net, they dont know whats its really like to be out of options and unable to get a female. So i dont really want to hear them badmouth arranged marriage, because we damn well know most of them are gonna pick that option in the end anyways

Women only want chad, if you are not a chad then its either betabux for a few years with a woman who barely tolerates you or arranged marriage with a woman who atleast feels obligated to be with you

Bro Indian women are as hypergamous as western whores didn't you see the clavicular clip

 

[Manletsteinberg]

That existed in India till 2010's after that lots of women are coming into workforce and DEI Hiring for women meant that many men are out of arranged marriage market as foid only want higher earning men. Divorce rape has increased tenfold in last decade. If you're in a Country with Patriarchal Law Structure it's fine to do an Arranged Marriage. I know cuz many of my uncle's got wives way more beautiful than them married before 2010. But now my cousins are getting fat ugly women who have standards of a stacy.

Oh shit really? Why do they not go a caste or two down?
Do women in India also have crazy high standards now?
My closest experience to indian women is probably pakistani women, my pakistani friend's brother is getting an arranged marriage and he is almost as manlet as I am, but his options are all way out of his league facially.
Is Pakistan more patriarchal than India?

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Bro Indian women are as hypergamous as western whores didn't you see the clavicular clip

tbf she was obviously very whitewashed

 

[sonic55555]

Bro Indian women are as hypergamous as western whores didn't you see the clavicular clip

Yes but muslim women are also hypergamous and i still know muslim guys irl who get arranged marriages
so the option is still there. Cant say it will still be there in 10 years, but for now it is

 

[Chadeep]

Oh shit really? Why do they not go a caste or two down?
Do women in India also have crazy high standards now?
My closest experience to indian women is probably pakistani women, my pakistani friend's brother is getting an arranged marriage and he is almost as manlet as I am, but his options are all way out of his league facially.
Is Pakistan more patriarchal than India?

Yes I think so. If they follow some kind of sharia law.There is a law where a foid can jail you for false promise of marriage after a hookup.

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Yes but muslim women are also hypergamous and i still know muslim guys irl who get arranged marriages
so the option is still there. Cant say it will still be there in 10 years, but for now it is

muslim women in the West are more hypergamous than white women from my experience, it's unbelievable the shit i've seen honestly. Unless they grew up overseas then they arent that hypergamous.

I think this will be an option in the third world for at least another 30 years unless something drastically changes

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Yes I think so. If they follow some kind of sharia law.There is a law where a foid can jail you for false promise of marriage after a hookup.

This is a thing in Egypt too

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Yes but muslim women are also hypergamous and i still know muslim guys irl who get arranged marriages
so the option is still there. Cant say it will still be there in 10 years, but for now it is

Do they get arranged married to muslims in the West? Or muslims back in their countries?
Also how old are they?

 

[Chadeep]

Yes but muslim women are also hypergamous and i still know muslim guys irl who get arranged marriages
so the option is still there. Cant say it will still be there in 10 years, but for now it is

Chance of getting divorced raped is much more higher these days. If you're in West getting a foid from back home. You're in no worse position than a white guy who bought his filipina wife to west.

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Chance of getting divorced raped is much more higher these days. If you're in West getting a foid from back home. You're in no worse position than a white guy who bought his filipina wife to west.

what is divorced raped? is it when the wife divorces the husband after coming to the west?

I think a muslim at least is in a better position than a white dude who brought his filipina wife to the west, simply because in muslim society divroce is looked down upon and family is regarded highly, i think the girls family, if they are actually muslim would not be happy if she divorced. But i dont think id bring my foid from egypt to the west probably gonna go saudi

 

[LXR]

Arranged marriage is wealth transfer scheme. You earn by grinding your ass and your reward is a 2 bit whore who couldnt earn 1/10th of what you could and by knocking her up your spawn is a low iq faggot that is as stupid as a baboon. Sanjay Gandhi would have ensured these dehati aurat would never be born

 

[Centurion Hunter]

Ascending and making girls choose us solely based on our looks as the first option

no
ascension is mostly a meme outside of softmaxxes even normies do and hardmaxxes(you need buxx and time for them)