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The girl thats attracted to me im too much scared to ask her out IRL. Is there any diffrence asking her out on instagram to meet me in person 10mins before class starts?

Asking her out on instagram is much easier but am not sure if it works

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The girl thats attracted to me im too much scared to ask her out IRL. Is there any diffrence asking her out on instagram to meet me in person 10mins before class starts?

Asking her out on instagram is much easier but am not sure if it works

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Lol, if you're asking her out via insta, ask her out on a date straight away, don't bother with asking her out just to meet up.
Just message her after school (if you're still too high inhib) asking her whether she wants to see a movie with you or some shit.

Asking her to meet you in school is just awkward.
 
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Lol, if you're asking her out via insta, ask her out on a date straight away, don't bother with asking her out just to meet up.
Just message her after school (if you're still too high inhib) asking her whether she wants to see a movie with you or some shit.

Asking her to meet you in school is just awkward.
I agree with this, yeah
 
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Lol, if you're asking her out via insta, ask her out on a date straight away, don't bother with asking her out just to meet up.
Just message her after school (if you're still too high inhib) asking her whether she wants to see a movie with you or some shit.

Asking her to meet you in school is just awkward.
Whats wrong with meeting her tbh in school a bit?
 
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Whats wrong with meeting her tbh in school a bit?
It just seems like you're forcing it.
If you really want to meet her in school, look for her (don't tell her you were looking for her) and strike up a conversation, and then just see where it takes you and ask her on a date tbh.
 
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Literally just stop giving a fuck, that's what I do. I really don't give a fuck, like I really don't tho bro like I really dont
 
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The girl thats attracted to me im too much scared to ask her out IRL. Is there any diffrence asking her out on instagram to meet me in person 10mins before class starts?

Asking her out on instagram is much easier but am not sure if it works

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Ask her out you got nothing to lose bro
 
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It just seems like you're forcing it.
If you really want to meet her in school, look for her (don't tell her you were looking for her) and strike up a conversation, and then just see where it takes you and ask her on a date tbh.
This is my issue tbh, today I saw her at lunch and she was close to me but I procasitanted and pussied out. Not sure what to say really as its all new to me
Ask her out you got nothing to lose bro
Yeh Im gonna but idk if to wait on wednsday or tommorow or If I should do it on instagram. Just nervous is all.
 
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This is my issue tbh, today I saw her at lunch and she was close to me but I procasitanted and pussied out. Not sure what to say really as its all new to me
Ask you male friends if they want to see some movie, and then next time you see her say "Hey, me and some of my friends are seeing x movie, want to come along?" If she says "no" just say something along the lines of "come on, it'll be fun, better than sitting at home all day"

Or just ask her straight up, "hey I've really wanted to see x movie and thought that you might want to tag along?"
 
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Literally just stop giving a fuck, that's what I do. I really don't give a fuck, like I really don't tho bro like I really dont
I heard you don't give a fuck? Is this true?
 
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She likes you already. Just don't be stupid or an asshole and she'll make it easy
Nah definitly can't put myself to being an asshole. Just corious if it ruins my chance if I try to ask her on instagram as I wont delay it there
its all about looks.
Yes well I attracted her, after looks other things matter aswell
 
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its all about looks.
Looks don't matter that much bro, just hold frame and lurk r/asktrp every evening while gl guys are slaying effortlessly. I promise you will ascend trough lifting and trp if you just hold frame and be dominant alpha male bro.
 
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Looks don't matter that much bro, just hold frame and lurk r/asktrp every evening while gl guys are slaying effortlessly. I promise you will ascend trough lifting and trp if you just hold frame and be dominant alpha male bro.
cope
 
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Ask you male friends if they want to see some movie, and then next time you see her say "Hey, me and some of my friends are seeing x movie, want to come along?" If she says "no" just say something along the lines of "come on, it'll be fun, better than sitting at home all day"

Or just ask her straight up, "hey I've really wanted to see x movie and thought that you might want to tag along?"
Does it have to be a gathering or can it just be a date? What if I say hi to her irl and tell her I want to meet her
 
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Yeah, just have something lined up for the date before you ask her out.
Like a meal or a movie or some drinks tbh.
Nvm I see, lets say drinks and were good
 
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if you know she is attracted, then you will have no fear to ask her out
the fact that you scare to ask her out is because you still think she is not attracted:feelsthink:
no matter what method you use, it has no differences
 
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if you know she is attracted, then you will have no fear to ask her out
the fact that you scare to ask her out is because you still think she is not attracted:feelsthink:
no matter what method you use, it has no differences
Thanks man,I guess years of insecurity got to me.

I pretty much know she had some sort of crush on me, probably still has and Im really scared it would somehow kill attraction if I hit her up on instagram or smth
 
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Yeah, just have something lined up for the date before you ask her out.
Like a meal or a movie or some drinks tbh.
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Bro all you have to do is be yourself and stay confident girls like confidence and also take cold showers and girls will notice this and you'd be fine bro believe me :bluepill:
 
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Major cope dude c'mon. If she likes you it'll be easy for u
I guess, so I know she likes me atleast a bit, it shoudnt make a huge diffrence how I contact her?
Bro all you have to do is be yourself and stay confident girls like confidence and also take cold showers and girls will notice this and you'd be fine bro believe me :bluepill:
Yeh true thing is shes already attracted to me I just dont want to mess it up.
 
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Major cope dude c'mon. If she likes you it'll be easy for u
cope. yes im agreeing with u .
I guess, so I know she likes me atleast a bit, it shoudnt make a huge diffrence how I contact her?

Yeh true thing is shes already attracted to me I just dont want to mess it up.
w.e u feel is ok If calling feels wierd don't do it. if social media feels good then do it. Go with ur gut feeling imo.
 
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w.e u feel is ok If calling feels wierd don't do it. if social media feels good then do it. Go with ur gut feeling imo.
Thanks man, guess ill go with guts. Just scared as I looksmaxxed hard and I developed feels for her.
 
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So to sum up theres no diffrence between asking online and thru normal? She insta responds to my messages
 
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Lol even after all this looksmaxing you’re still a high inhib beta? Lmao dude just don’t give a shit. Play life like it’s an video game dude doesn’t matter if you mess up lmao. Just don’t give a fuck.
 
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dont be a pussy bitch and talk ot that slut
 
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dont be a pussy bitch and talk ot that slut
What if I say I want to meetup in instagram and talk to her irl ofc
Lol even after all this looksmaxing you’re still a high inhib beta? Lmao dude just don’t give a shit. Play life like it’s an video game dude doesn’t matter if you mess up lmao. Just don’t give a fuck.
Only high inhib to real oneitises (very outgoing to anyone else)
 
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What if I say I want to meetup in instagram and talk to her irl ofc
would be possible but if shes attracted to you might aswell speak in person
and continue conversation on whatsapp/instgram
 
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would be possible but if shes attracted to you might aswell speak in person
Im trying that aswell but get shy. Is there a diffrence really?
 
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You should send her pm in instagram and ask her hang out, she will refuse if she is not attracted to you.
 
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Im trying that aswell but get shy. Is there a diffrence really?
omg, just pm her now with watever apps
-hey its me
-i wanna ask you out
-you free on xxxx?
-great, see u soon
if she reject...
-ok, got it
 
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Brah just listen. If she is into you, asking her out would not hurt ANYTHING it may just add value as opposed to asking her out on insta ( makes you look scared). Go on and just finish it, take it on easy mode and don't give a damn fuck lol.
 

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