At what point will people give you compliments and less negative feedback?

[Deleted member 10699]

Is HTN enough for receiving some compliments by people and less negative feedback?

 

[cd.98]

There should be a healthy balance between the two.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

There should be a healthy balance between the two.

Yeah, but at the moment there's no balance. Just negative feedback.

 

[Deleted member 10185]

if you are good looking barely anyone will get you down unless they are jealous as fuck and uglier than you.

 

[ecig]

U need to have an halo for compliments if u are not harmoniously good looking ( body halo,eyes, hair) I am an htn and I get complimented by random people about my eyes and my "fine facial features"

edit : if you mean compliments for your looks not overall

 

[Deleted member 7076]

only negative feedback i get is from my family nowadays tbh

 

[JamesHowlett]

Above average is where compliments will start.

 

[Deleted member 10185]

only negative feedback i get is from my family nowadays tbh

Holy fuck that is brutal.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

High tier normie doesn't get compliments. Even Chad-lites and Chads barely get it.

Good looking men don't really get compliments, period.

All the signs are SUBLIMINAL that you are good looking. The compliments are in the way people treat you.

You're not a foid. Foids will get compliments because women are made to just be. Men are made to become. (Be created)

 

[Deleted member 6908]

Above average is where compliments will start.

Dude nobody gets compliments, no matter how good looking. Let's be honest.

Girls aren't gonna talk to you face to face and say you're hot/cute/handsome or whatever. They may do it online, sure.

Not irl though. Unless you are proper in a relationship and even then it's not direct and more subtle.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

May be on a first date where she wants to impress you, she'll compliment you and tell you how you look.

 

[Deleted member 10185]

High tier normie doesn't get compliments. Even Chad-lites and Chads barely get it.

Good looking men don't really get compliments, period.

All the signs are SUBLIMINAL that you are good looking. The compliments are in the way people treat you.

You're not a foid. Foids will get compliments because women are made to just be. Men are made to become. (Be created)

They will definelty get compliments if you became friends with foids. If they dont say anything about your look its over lol.. but getting compliments from random people are usually very small possibility.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

They will definelty get compliments if you became friends with foids. If they dont say anything about your look its over lol.. but getting compliments from random people are usually very small possibility.

Two members of the opposite sex who find each other attractive can very rarely ever be friends.

Therefore no. Friend Zoning doesn't work like that.

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[Deleted member 10185]

Two members of the opposite sex who find each other attractive can very rarely ever be friends.

Therefore no. Friend Zoning doesn't work like that.

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Yes if they have boyfriend already.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

U need to have an halo for compliments if u are not harmoniously good looking ( body halo,eyes, hair) I am an htn and I get complimented by random people about my eyes and my "fine facial features"

edit : if you mean compliments for your looks not overall

That's my goal. Or, to at least, stop getting called ugly.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

Two members of the opposite sex who find each other attractive can very rarely ever be friends.

Therefore no. Friend Zoning doesn't work like that.

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[Deleted member 10699]

They will definelty get compliments if you became friends with foids. If they dont say anything about your look its over lol.. but getting compliments from random people are usually very small possibility.

Then it has been always over for me. I've been complimented less than 10 times in my whole life.

 

[Deleted member 7076]

Holy fuck that is brutal.

no lol i mean like they roast me for having longer hair thats curly
i get plenty validation from others so ik i look good

 

[Deleted member 10185]

no lol i mean like they roast me for having longer hair thats curly
i get plenty validation from others so ik i look good

Ah that is fine..

 

[Deleted member 10699]

no lol i mean like they roast me for having longer hair thats curly
i get plenty validation from others so ik i look good

I legit feel jealous and angry at people who get validation, not going to lie.

 

[Lars]

Once a 5'4 Guy said to my face "i am happy i dont have your acne"

 

[Deleted member 6908]

Yes if they have boyfriend already.

Dude there are women actually on RECORD who admit to never keeping male friends that they find attractive because they want to avoid sleeping with them. They keep male friends who are unattractive to them. Or just not attractive, so that they can get the "competency" benefits of a man from them. Women look for two types of things in a man. Good genetics (Desire) and how good they are for survival. They don't often find both in one man. Which is why you have beta cucks who wageslave for their wife while she fucks the Chad plumber and you have Chads who cheat on their girlfriends because they know they are desired and our sex-drive can't resist.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Once a 5'4 Guy said to my face "i am happy i dont have your acne"

That's jealous. I've been called ugly almost only by girls for years, actually. It's hard to have self-love and confidence.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Above average is where compliments will start.

Then I'll get the surgeries I need.

 

[Lars]

That's jealous. I've been called ugly almost only by girls for years, actually. It's hard to have self-love and confidence.

Same my friend i wasnt goodlooking in my younger years because always overweight and worst skin

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Same my friend i wasnt goodlooking in my younger years because always overweight and worst skin

I'm not overweight and my skin is smooth. I have gay features and my midface is long and I look very innocent/high trust.

 

[Deleted member 10185]

Dude there are women actually on RECORD who admit to never keeping male friends that they find attractive because they want to avoid sleeping with them. They keep male friends who are unattractive to them. Or just not attractive, so that they can get the "competency" benefits of a man from them. Women look for two types of things in a man. Good genetics (Desire) and how good they are for survival. They don't often find both in one man. Which is why you have beta cucks who wageslave for their wife while she fucks the Chad plumber and you have Chads who cheat on their girlfriends because they know they are desired and our sex-drive can't resist.

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So you are saying that women only have ugly friends lol? Its not like man find every women attractive. Men can also friendzone them to another dimension.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

So you are saying that women only have ugly friends lol? Its not like man find every women attractive. Men can also friendzone them to another dimension.

If a woman has a male friend who she finds attractive, you can bet she's fucked him. In 90% of instances.

 

[Deleted member 10185]

That's jealous. I've been called ugly almost only by girls for years, actually. It's hard to have self-love and confidence.

If people roasted you at developing age never take that shit seriously.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

If people roasted you at developing age never take that shit seriously.

They've been keep doing to this day. So since I was 17. I'm 20.

 

[Wallenberg]

High tier normie doesn't get compliments. Even Chad-lites and Chads barely get it.

Good looking men don't really get compliments, period.

All the signs are SUBLIMINAL that you are good looking. The compliments are in the way people treat you.

You're not a foid. Foids will get compliments because women are made to just be. Men are made to become. (Be created)

Spot on. This is true. Good-looking guys get compliments, but not often. It's rare. I'm talking about chadlite and better.

What good-looking guys notice is that
1. Women react to them differently, because, well, they are attracted to good-looking guys
2. Men give them respect, at the very least if they notice that a good-looking guy is getting pussy
3. Gay men approach or behave differently around good-looking guys.

Of course, online girls give compliments sometimes. But offline it's rare.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

They've been keep doing to this day. So since I was 17. I'm 20.

Post pictures and/or videos. This isn't group therapy.

 

[Deleted member 10185]

After finished my softmax.. I have have gotten twice as more looks from Women and Men. Last time I got this shit when I was 18 years old and lean with emo haircut when it was popular..

 

[Deleted member 10699]

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Post pictures and/or videos. This isn't group therapy.

I've some in some other threads.

 

[Deleted member 10185]

They've been keep doing to this day. So since I was 17. I'm 20.

In your school? What they tell you?

 

[Deleted member 10699]

After finished my softmax.. I have have gotten twice as more looks from Women and Men. Last time I got this shit when I was 18 years old and lean with emo haircut when it was popular..

2010?

 

[Deleted member 10699]

In your school? What they tell you?

School, outside of it, etc. They just mention that I'm ugly behind my back.

 

[Deleted member 10185]

2010?

IM 30. SO like 2008-2009. I became more bloated because I thought I WOULD look better fatter.

 

[Deleted member 10185]

School, outside of it, etc. They just mention that I'm ugly behind my back.

Are you sure they are referring to you? What is your height?

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Are you sure they are referring to you?

Yes. They make It obvious. The comments where really obvious. I hace even been pointed at in the street.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

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I've some in some other threads.

Post here.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Post here.

No.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

No.

Pointless then. Can;t help you.

 

[Deleted member 10185]

No.

Ah you are dat guy... You are def not ugly at all.. You have normie face and decent height and base... You can easily to ascend. Just get more leaner and get good hair cut.. Those thing can really improve your look a lot.

 

[ItsOver.com]

I never got negative feedback but I was bullied a lot, after I fixed my personality and barely started looksmaxing I got normie treatment and I even get compliments now

 

[JamesHowlett]

Dude nobody gets compliments, no matter how good looking. Let's be honest.

Girls aren't gonna talk to you face to face and say you're hot/cute/handsome or whatever. They may do it online, sure.

Not irl though. Unless you are proper in a relationship and even then it's not direct and more subtle.

I’ve had girls compliment me on nights out, mostly about my jaw and stubble.

 

[Deleted member 6908]

I’ve had girls compliment me on nights out, mostly about my jaw and stubble.

Yeah I've had "cute", "smile", "eyes" when I were younger, but really it's more rare than anything compared with how much the OP thinks it happens. If you're Chad they definitely won't do it because they feel intimidated. Good looking normies, yeah.

 

[JamesHowlett]

Yeah I've had "cute", "smile", "eyes" when I were younger, but really it's more rare than anything compared with how much the OP thinks it happens. If you're Chad they definitely won't do it because they feel intimidated. Good looking normies, yeah.

Fair enough, it’s not as if I’m always getting complimented, but it does happen. But then again, I have quite a low trust face so being approached at all has got to be a good thing lol

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Ah you are dat guy... You are def not ugly at all.. You have normie face and decent height and base... You can easily to ascend. Just get more leaner and get good hair cut.. Those thing can really improve your look a lot.

I wanna do these things. Then get a lip lift and a neck nipo

 

[Deleted member 10699]

I’ve had girls compliment me on nights out, mostly about my jaw and stubble.

I've had the opposite. Girls laughing at me, pointing at me and at my friends, etc