Atheists whats your explanation

[Mansur]

This isnt a pro religion question but just a theoretical one

What do you think about people, who somehow manage to have matching personalities.

An attraction to each other

Beeing emotionally available at the same time

So happen to be meeting through whatever reason, if its on the train. On a dating app, through friends

If we could take things to the extreme, an actual match of all of these factors could be chances in the trillions of that happening

And somehow managing to date after

Thats happening to as good as every healthy couple out there

It is indeed a crazy phenomenon if you really think about it

 

[Mansur]

These people so happen to have noticed each other, crossing paths. Let alone skipping the awkward stage given the circumstances

Coincidence cant be applied to this I believe as this happens to billions of people

 

[trench]

did god make you an incel with a miserable life

 

[Azi.org]

Coincidence is most likely case here for example if a man falls in love with a women in a specific sequence it is not destiny replace that women and that man would find love in another way and through connection they fall in love you can scientifically explain why people fall in love however if you want to pin point precise points id wiuld be better to look in nature physics and so on as those are universal i am a theists myself

 

[subhumanandrew]

This isnt a pro religion question but just a theoretical one

What do you think about people, who somehow manage to have matching personalities.

An attraction to each other

Beeing emotionally available at the same time

So happen to be meeting through whatever reason, if its on the train. On a dating app, through friends

If we could take things to the extreme, an actual match of all of these factors could be chances in the trillions of that happening

And somehow managing to date after

Thats happening to as good as every healthy couple out there

It is indeed a crazy phenomenon if you really think about it

Eh brother, it is simple: it is not math, it is God. You think train or dating app is random? No way. God make the match, God fix the timing, God put the love in the heart.
Trillions of chances? Maybe for science guy, but for God this is super easy. Every couple is just God making His magic work!

 

[sha]

Eh brother, it is simple: it is not math, it is God. You think train or dating app is random? No way. God make the match, God fix the timing, God put the love in the heart.
Trillions of chances? Maybe for science guy, but for God this is super easy. Every couple is just God making His magic work!

delusional

 

[subhumanandrew]

delusional

Why bro?

 

[Mansur]

Coincidence is most likely case here for example if a man falls in love with a women in a specific sequence it is not destiny replace that women and that man would find love in another way and through connection they fall in love you can scientifically explain why people fall in love however if you want to pin point precise points id wiuld be better to look in nature physics and so on as those are universal i am a theists myself

if that woman would be differently good looking or had a different personality, it simply wouldnt have turned out that way, so that point is invalid

and a coincidence if we are beeing realistic cant be the case as mentioned. As billions of these bonds happen and the chances can be unlimitedly rare

 

[Mansur]

Eh brother, it is simple: it is not math, it is God. You think train or dating app is random? No way. God make the match, God fix the timing, God put the love in the heart.
Trillions of chances? Maybe for science guy, but for God this is super easy. Every couple is just God making His magic work!

Thats what I believe in, thats why Im interested in the stance of Atheists, not to debate religion but their explanation to this phenomenon

 

[Azi.org]

if that woman would be differently good looking or had a different personality, it simply wouldnt have turned out that way, so that point is invalid

and a coincidence if we are beeing realistic cant be the case as mentioned. As billions of these bonds happen and the chances can be unlimitedly rare

The chances of it being specificaly them two as pairs is yes unlimitedly rare however the chance that A man ends up finding love is like 70% depending on factors and the chances he got with that specific women acounting for timing breeding country and all that is astronomicaly low however he still has 70% of finding love and each single women he could have dated have all extremly low probabilty

 

[Azi.org]

Why bro?

Chances dont prove god i am theists and i am saying this

 

[subhumanandrew]

Chances dont prove god i am theists and i am saying this

I was and then God change my life, at leat is happier now

 

[Mansur]

The chances of it being specificaly them two as pairs is yes unlimitedly rare however the chance that A man ends up finding love is like 70% depending on factors and the chances he got with that specific women acounting for timing breeding country and all that is astronomicaly low however he still has 70% of finding love and each single women he could have dated have all extremly low probabilty

The 70% just addresses the chances of a man finding love.

But the topic is actually the reasoning for bonds happening often despite the low chances

And whats the explanation is behind that

 

[Azi.org]

The 70% just addresses the chances of a man finding love.

But the topic is actually the reasoning for bonds happening often despite the low chances

And whats the explanation behind that

What do you exactly mean bonds specifically is not rare love itself starts by first lust driven by androgen(testosterone/estrogen) then attraction which releases dopamine/adrenaline and attachment(oxytocin) thats the scientific explanation on how love works and it happens often as sex is the primary driver of joy it is made that sex is the one of the greatest feelings someone can feel and euphoric so the fact people fall in love isnt abnormal again i dont understand what you mean by bonds being rare?

 

[Mansur]

What do you exactly mean bonds specifically is not rare love itself starts by first lust driven by androgen(testosterone/estrogen) then attraction which releases dopamine/adrenaline and attachment(oxytocin) thats the scientific explanation on how love works and it happens often as sex is the primary driver of joy it is made that sex is the one of the greatest feelings someone can feel and euphoric so the fact people fall in love isnt abnormal again i dont understand what you mean by bonds being rare?

No dude youre making this a little complicated, simply

Why do bonds so insanely matching exist so often, despite the factual chances of meeting in all of these criterias is super low

 

[Azi.org]

The 70% just addresses the chances of a man finding love.

But the topic is actually the reasoning for bonds happening often despite the low chances

And whats the explanation is behind that

If you mean the chances of both people loving eachother well that isnt a coincednce as usually one side takes action it could be eye contact talking being close maybe seeing each other alot in a hallway a bond doesnt just appear out of nowhere a man could love the shit out of a girl in his town but only look at pics of her and look at her fram far away she probably wouldnt love him back but if he took action then a bond could be created

 

[Mansur]

If you mean the chances of both people loving eachother well that isnt a coincednce as usually one side takes action it could be eye contact talking being close maybe seeing each other alot in a hallway a bond doesnt just appear out of nowhere a man could love the shit out of a girl in his town but only look at pics of her and look at her fram far away she probably wouldnt love him back but if he took action then a bond could be created

True that failed love happens even more often, but that doesnt really address the question

I dont think there really is an explanation for that, besides stopping thinking without any subjectivity

 

[Azi.org]

True that failed love happens even more often, but that doesnt really address the question

I dont think there really is an explanation for that, besides stopping thinking without any subjectivity

In my theory its mostly IOIs from both sides that appear lets say hypothetically your in a class you see a girl who you find attratcive there are also alot of other girls who you find attractive in your class but you notice that she looks at you or signs that she may like you then in some cases you get a dopamine hit thinking about it thats were love starts well thats my theory

 

[isis_Bleach]

thats just nature the species has to reproduce and plus if god is real/loves us then explain Jeremy Meeks

 

[Mansur]

thats just nature the species has to reproduce and plus if god is real/loves us then explain Jeremy Meeks

I mean dude what do I have to say, go rape a dog and then question God why he would let that happen

As stupid as it sounds, thats your point

 

[isis_Bleach]

I mean dude what do I have to say, go rape a dog and then question God why he would let that happen

As stupid as it sounds, thats your point

thats not equivalent because somebody chose to do that whereas meeks was blessed by god blessed before he was born even

 

[Mansur]

thats not equivalent because somebody chose to do that whereas meeks was blessed by god blessed before he was born

God allowing something doesn’t mean God caused it. Humans can make horrible choices, and they’re responsible for those choices. And Jeremy Meeks being born attractive and getting advantages from it is the same idea: people can have different starting points, but that doesn’t mean every outcome is God’s fault or that your choices don’t matter.

 

[isis_Bleach]

God allowing something doesn’t mean God caused it. Humans can make horrible choices, and they’re responsible for those choices. And Jeremy Meeks being born attractive and getting advantages from it is the same idea: people can have different starting points, but that doesn’t mean every outcome is God’s fault or that your choices don’t matter.

god loves jeremy meeks alot more than he loves me so why would i worship something thats gonna play favorites like that i wouldnt ever worship god

 

[Mansur]

god loves jeremy meeks alot more than he loves me so why would i worship something thats gonna play favorites like that i wouldnt ever worship god

That doesnt really follow. People can have completely different circumstances without one being more loved than another. If God exists, the question would be whether He judges people fairly for what they do with their circumstances, not whether everyone gets the same advantages.

Which is what the Afterlife is about