Autists shouldn’t looksmax

[Deleted member 44222]

You end up with looks that’s not congruent to your personality. People will suddenly expect a better personality from you since they just can’t ignore you anymore

 

[manletmachine]

Looks is your personality, you should know by now

Touch grass

 

[vrilmaxxer]

Touch grass

he is not wrong though

 

[Deleted member 91663]

You end up with looks that’s not congruent to your personality. People will suddenly expect a better personality from you since they just can’t ignore you anymore

Yes, there are too many users here with adequate looks who would be better off trying to socialize instead.

 

[Deleted member 91663]

Looks is your personality, you should know by now

No, not true.
This is a chronically online opinion.

 

[Lefor3Laser]

You end up with looks that’s not congruent to your personality. People will suddenly expect a better personality from you since they just can’t ignore you anymore

People tend to forget that many natural good looking people will always have a good personality, having just proof is not enough.

 

[Lefor3Laser]

Yes, there are too many users here with adequate looks who would be better off trying to socialize instead.

Yeah i don't get it why they always think that only looks is whay matters, it is to some extent but socializing is also very important.

 

[Deleted member 91663]

What counters it? That you saw recessed low tier normies fit into a social circle?

Yes and have active dating lives.

 

[Lefor3Laser]

What counters it? That you saw recessed low tier normies fit into a social circle?

In fact, a lot of people that would be called subhumans here have gf's in my uni, it's not just about looks.

 

[Deleted member 91663]

Yeah i don't get it why they always think that only looks is whay matters, it is to some extent but socializing is also very important.

Both are important. The idea that there’s more than one factor behind something is too much for many .org users.

 

[kazama]

yeah, at this point I could slay some ltb but I was born autis

 

[whitebitchslayer]

You end up with looks that’s not congruent to your personality. People will suddenly expect a better personality from you since they just can’t ignore you anymore

No they will just ignore my personality

 

[Deleted member 91663]

I'm an autist freak.
That still doesn't override lookism.

And lookism doesn’t override austism.
If you think looking good can override not being able to look a person in the eyes or complete a sentence then I don’t know what to tell you.

You’re probably not even clinically autistic if you’re an average .org user - just massively out of practice.

So you hide behind mental illnesses to avoid taking any responsibility.

 

[superpsycho]

Looks is your personality, you should know by now

the positive or negative reinforcement you get for your looks shapes your personality

 

[Part-Time Chad]

I go outside every day

It's so annoying to be gaslighted, like this, all the time. People fail to realize that the reason we are negative is because we already "touched grass" (went outside) and got hostile feedback from foids. So, we're not negative because we haven't touched grass, we're negative because we HAVE.

 

[Deleted member 132430]

Looks is your personality, you should know by now

Yes, we’ve hears this gay indian phrase many times

 

[Deleted member 132430]

Instill it in your head

I’m good. I don’t live in delusion

 

[Orc]

being autistic doesn't mean your personality is bad.

 

[Deleted member 91663]

Exaggerating, I can do all that. Talk like a normal person.
It's mostly miniature gestures (aka how you look or use your body) people pick up on, or some antisocial unfit remark you say.

Anyways

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The thread is just a bunch of chronically online ramblings.
I never said looks weren’t important.

If you’re undersocialized then people can pick up on it. Looks won’t compensate for this in the vast majority of cases.

You need to increase social exposure and improve looks at the same time to get the optimal outcome.

 

[Deleted member 91663]

Can you provide some proof for this impromptu idea of socialization? What exactly is it?

This doesn’t require some complex academic answer. Talking to people on a day to day basis and not spending 5+ hours online is what I mean.

Is it being nice to people? Is it conformity to social ideas?

These are chronically online questions. It’s not complicated and doesn’t require philosophical introspection.

What is it that suddenly makes a low tier man live a dating life of success?

The simple answer is proximity to women.

According to clinical psychologists, proximity is one of the most important factors in attraction along side looks.

In short, being social means meeting more people and therefore more opportunities. That’s why plenty of “lower tier men” have successful dating lives.

 

[Deleted member 91663]

This isn't an answer

It’s in the Oxford dictionary and consistent with what I just said. Look it up.
This is not a complex point and you should stop pretending it is.

Proximity to women or lack of it doesn't mean your "social skills" are lacking

Irrelevant to what I’m saying.

The more you socialize, the more opportunities you have to find a partner.

Someone can pick up on poor eye contact, fidgeting, closed body language etc.. in a second, shutting you out of social settings.
Even the dumb thread you sent me talked about the importance of visual cues.

This isn’t complicated.