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UPDATE: My mum's request to join is still pending.
TLDR: these seem to be groups of women shaming men for talking to/sleeping with other women.
Got rejected on my normal account and a foidfish account when trying to join an "Are We Dating The Same Guy" group.
None of these groups allow men, or anyone suspected to be a man. My normal account was rejected months ago, and my foidfish this morning. Why do they only accept foids? I'm gonna ask my mum or my sister to see if either one of them can join one of these groups. @khvirgin
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Yes, there are groups sprouting around major cities designed by women to “expose men”.
I infiltrated all these groups, and the things I saw were shocking.
I don’t doubt they started off as a way to weed out trash men. I think it was likely to protect women from abusers and genuinely dangerous men. That I very much applaud.
Let me be vehemently clear here. If there are any posts on these channels alleging sexual assault, physical abuse, and criminal activities toward women. These men do not deserve any kind of autonomy of privacy. Bring these cowards to light ASAP so we can get them together!
But if it’s used for other women to claim one guy is a “fuck boy.” Based on something so childish or petty based on no one’s opinions of experiences but her own. I’m not for it. I’m sure she’s extremely objective and unbiased, right? Right?
No.
But now it’s become a petty cesspool of women who are just bitter that they got rejected by a man who simply has more or better options than what he was initially presented with.
Look, I’m not a hater.
I’ve been rejected by plenty of women. To this day, I thank them for it. It made me stronger and understand how dating really works.
But I never have a day in my life posted a picture of a woman on another private Facebook group or any Facebook with 4k+ plus other men without her consent cause she hurt my feelings.
I looked at over 50 posts from some of these private groups, and they all followed this trend:
- I was talking to or went on a few dates with a guy
- Guy ghosted, blocked, canceled a date, or was genuinely a dick on the first date.
- They post a picture of him and say, “do not date him
There is no privacy in dating.
The dating world has changed dramatically over the past decade. With the rise of dating apps, it’s now easier than ever to connect with potential partners, but it’s also easier than ever to experience dating disasters, share information, and have people invade your privacy live at the touch of a button. Online shaming is one of the most disturbing trends in modern dating, where a rejected date takes to social media to publicly trash their former match. But is this kind of behavior acceptable?
It is for women.
There are hundreds of the groups I screenshotted above in different states and countries, and Facebook does nothing to ban them.
This kind of behavior is unacceptable and, in many cases, illegal. However, it’s becoming increasingly common in the world of online dating. But because of that double standard where most modern women seemingly have no consequences for their actions. This weird double standard seems to exist.
She sure showed him, right!?
Unfortunately, it turned out that that wasn’t even the guy; it was a CATFISH! Meaning that poor old sod has had part of his reputation ruined cause another guy stole his pictures and used them to try and lure women.
You see how damaging these groups are. This poor guy was harassed for weeks by women who literally new nothing apart from another womans bitter words, and as it turns out, he had NOTHING TO DO WITH IT.
Call the police! Now!! There’s a guy that speaks to multiple women. He MUST BE STOPPED.
Cause women never speak to multiple men.
Right?
RIGHT!?
Double standard.
TLDR: these seem to be groups of women shaming men for talking to/sleeping with other women.