Being excluded because of my appearance is awful

[meltrozo]

This happens to me all the time, especially at school when the teacher tells us to do group projects or presentations. I honestly don't know if it's my hair, my nose, or something else about my face—I just want this crap to stop.

 

[Poller]

show your face

 

[Arabica]

This happens to me all the time, especially at school when the teacher tells us to do group projects or presentations. I honestly don't know if it's my hair, my nose, or something else about my face—I just want this crap to stop.

broootal just slay them all

 

[ghoulmania]

show your face

bros complaining and ur asking for the problem

 

[Poller]

but it can be improved

bros complaining and ur asking for the problem

 

[meltrozo]

broootal just slay them all

I've thought about it many times; even my teachers look at me with disgust. It's a shame that it's not so easy to get large firearms in Colombia

 

[bddcoper]

This happens to me all the time, especially at school when the teacher tells us to do group projects or presentations. I honestly don't know if it's my hair, my nose, or something else about my face—I just want this crap to stop.

in what sense are you excluded

 

[smizz]

I've thought about it many times; even my teachers look at me with disgust. It's a shame that it's not so easy to get large firearms in Colombia

Maybe it isn't your face then, everyone's probably disgusted because you're fucking nuts

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

real shit dude

 

[meltrozo]

in what sense are you excluded

No matter how you look at it, none of my “friends” invite me to go to the mall or anything like that; no one messages me on DM; no one wants to work with me on group projects; and it’s not like I’m a social outcast—because when I was 12 and looked good, I didn’t even need to go looking for friends or groups because most people already wanted to hang out with me

 

[niggbomb14538]

This happens to me all the time, especially at school when the teacher tells us to do group projects or presentations. I honestly don't know if it's my hair, my nose, or something else about my face—I just want this crap to stop.

damb bro i think u have to just go ER

 

[FCVOL]

No matter how you look at it, none of my “friends” invite me to go to the mall or anything like that; no one messages me on DM; no one wants to work with me on group projects; and it’s not like I’m a social outcast—because when I was 12 and looked good, I didn’t even need to go looking for friends or groups because most people already wanted to hang out with me

if they are your "friends" and not including you in anything, it might be your looks. there are many other reasons for not being included, perhaps you secluded yourself from the group and they just assume your busy, maybe you arent showing enough confidence, or you just suck to be around. sometimes you need to be the person to reach out and do something, or accentuate your more positive qualities and improve the other areas.

 

[bddcoper]

No matter how you look at it, none of my “friends” invite me to go to the mall or anything like that; no one messages me on DM; no one wants to work with me on group projects; and it’s not like I’m a social outcast—because when I was 12 and looked good, I didn’t even need to go looking for friends or groups because most people already wanted to hang out with me

Bro no one messages me and I’ve been told by foids I look good. The only two people (other than parents/family) that message me are my one friend and my gf.

We are all on here for a reason because we were once social outcasts or ugly or both. I still despise most people I meet irl so I have trouble making friends since I just don’t like anyone and prefer being alone (sub5 trauma). though people still tend to like me compared to when I was subhuman and got indirect or even direct negative comments abt my appearance irl now that shit never happens and I can’t remember the last time I was called weird or annoying by someone i barely knew.

TLDR Basically you can ignore everything I wrote above but what you said strongly resonates with my past. Even though I had more “friends” in high school I was rarely invited to activities except by my closest friends. Even my closest friends wouldn’t respect me and many would just ignore my DMs. It’s not your hair it’s just your face and maybe you are just not lean so no one respects you. For me it was my bulbous fat nose, acne scarring, and facial fat all of which I fixed through pharmaceuticals and injections and that’s when I really felt that my life started to get better. Seems simple but if your skin is ridden with deep red inflamed acne scars all over your cheeks it’s no surprise when people are disgusted by your appearance (speaking about myself). I still have a few but they are extremely shallow and even in the harshest lighting they barely failo me now

Good luck and I hope things get better for you like they did for me

 

[Acquiescence]

I just want this crap to stop.

Ascend to normie looks tier, very achievable for most even if it takes a couple surgeries