being nd is fucking up my life

gandylite.

gandylite.

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I’m not a bad looking guy, usually get rated like hmtn on these forums, i fraud to 5’11 even though im 5’9. I simply cannot get girls as i dont put myself out there at all and all my nt friends tell me “just put yuh shelf out dere” as if im ever gonna post a thirst trap or something on tiktok or willingly go to parties, I can still talk to girls and stuff fine, ive been homeschooled for 2 years since i had to drop out due to my attendance ( nice level 1 asd coming into play ) and this literally just sucks. Girls don’t even know i exist and when i do go out i actually do often pull some girls however that is rare me actually going out with them and simply i cant be asked. I just want to be isolated my whole life but obviously i cant do that.
 
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same, I'm not great looking but I've been asked out by three different girls
2/3 asked if I was autistic and 3/3 ghosted me
 
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same, I'm not great looking but I've been asked out by three different girls
2/3 asked if I was autistic and 3/3 ghosted me
it’s pretty rough
 
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Why can’t you?
i hypothetically could but then what kind of life would that be, im not an entrepreneur or anything so il likely need to get a job
 
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relatable asf g
 
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I’m not a bad looking guy, usually get rated like hmtn on these forums, i fraud to 5’11 even though im 5’9. I simply cannot get girls as i dont put myself out there at all and all my nt friends tell me “just put yuh shelf out dere” as if im ever gonna post a thirst trap or something on tiktok or willingly go to parties, I can still talk to girls and stuff fine, ive been homeschooled for 2 years since i had to drop out due to my attendance ( nice level 1 asd coming into play ) and this literally just sucks. Girls don’t even know i exist and when i do go out i actually do often pull some girls however that is rare me actually going out with them and simply i cant be asked. I just want to be isolated my whole life but obviously i cant do that.
I mean yeah I fell you, there’s always my homies telling me how much I could “pull” or wtv but I in reality I’m deeply unsatisfied with myself and nd
 
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I’m not a bad looking guy, usually get rated like hmtn on these forums, i fraud to 5’11 even though im 5’9. I simply cannot get girls as i dont put myself out there at all and all my nt friends tell me “just put yuh shelf out dere” as if im ever gonna post a thirst trap or something on tiktok or willingly go to parties, I can still talk to girls and stuff fine, ive been homeschooled for 2 years since i had to drop out due to my attendance ( nice level 1 asd coming into play ) and this literally just sucks. Girls don’t even know i exist and when i do go out i actually do often pull some girls however that is rare me actually going out with them and simply i cant be asked. I just want to be isolated my whole life but obviously i cant do that.
I understand bhai, the only real option for you is dating apps but making one is brutal at first but eventually you get over it
 
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I’m not a bad looking guy, usually get rated like hmtn on these forums, i fraud to 5’11 even though im 5’9. I simply cannot get girls as i dont put myself out there at all and all my nt friends tell me “just put yuh shelf out dere” as if im ever gonna post a thirst trap or something on tiktok or willingly go to parties, I can still talk to girls and stuff fine, ive been homeschooled for 2 years since i had to drop out due to my attendance ( nice level 1 asd coming into play ) and this literally just sucks. Girls don’t even know i exist and when i do go out i actually do often pull some girls however that is rare me actually going out with them and simply i cant be asked. I just want to be isolated my whole life but obviously i cant do that.
Ye ngl im not low inhib enough either to post thirst traps and not cringe.
 
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i hypothetically could but then what kind of life would that be, im not an entrepreneur or anything so il likely need to get a job
Live in the woods and kill animals to survive
 
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Ye ngl im not low inhib enough either to post thirst traps and not cringe.
The thirst traps will be cringe anyways if you're ND, because they will be in motion and involve expressive body language. Hell, autists have trouble looking normal in a picture, never mind a video.
 
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The thirst traps will be cringe anyways if you're ND, because they will be in motion and involve expressive body language. Hell, autists have trouble looking normal in a picture, never mind a video.
yeah it would be really forced
 
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The thirst traps will be cringe anyways if you're ND, because they will be in motion and involve expressive body language. Hell, autists have trouble looking normal in a picture, never mind a video.
I’ve gotten better at it and you gotta make sure you’re not being too intense. The mistake is most high inhib Mfs aren’t relaxed and their eyes are tense. Even when I’ve posted I’ll do my best low inhib stare and smile(no teeth) it’s enough.
 
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I’ve gotten better at it and you gotta make sure you’re not being too intense. The mistake is most high inhib Mfs aren’t relaxed and their eyes are tense. Even when I’ve posted I’ll do my best low inhib stare and smile(no teeth) it’s enough.
I've noticed normies like me more and start more convos when I'm extremely exhausted, like back to back 1 hr a night sleeps. But that's not a sustainable method. I wish there was something to make me less tense and more relaxed. I remember when I was 13 my music teacher told me that I was the opposite of Jazz.

A few years ago I remember after I discovered Zurzolo I'd try to relax my upper eyelid like him in social situations when I could, though nowadays it doesn't cross my mind.
 
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I've noticed normies like me more and start more convos when I'm extremely exhausted, like back to back 1 hr a night sleeps. But that's not a sustainable method. I wish there was something to make me less tense and more relaxed. I remember when I was 13 my music teacher told me that I was the opposite of Jazz.

A few years ago I remember after I discovered Zurzolo I'd try to relax my upper eyelid like him in social situations when I could, though nowadays it doesn't cross my mind.
i wouldn’t even be able to step out the house on 1 hour of sleep, the blast and dark eye circles that not even concealer can cover up would be the end of my confidence
 
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I've noticed normies like me more and start more convos when I'm extremely exhausted, like back to back 1 hr a night sleeps. But that's not a sustainable method. I wish there was something to make me less tense and more relaxed. I remember when I was 13 my music teacher told me that I was the opposite of Jazz.

A few years ago I remember after I discovered Zurzolo I'd try to relax my upper eyelid like him in social situations when I could, though nowadays it doesn't cross my mind.
Don’t take things to seriously and before you respond to them think about it from their POV. Remember normies are also diff so you also have to adjust how you talk to each one. I talk to a few and it’s not that hard but it is harder if it’s someone I’ve never met and I’ve never stalked their online activity to see what type of person they are
 
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I’m not a bad looking guy, usually get rated like hmtn on these forums, i fraud to 5’11 even though im 5’9. I simply cannot get girls as i dont put myself out there at all and all my nt friends tell me “just put yuh shelf out dere” as if im ever gonna post a thirst trap or something on tiktok or willingly go to parties, I can still talk to girls and stuff fine, ive been homeschooled for 2 years since i had to drop out due to my attendance ( nice level 1 asd coming into play ) and this literally just sucks. Girls don’t even know i exist and when i do go out i actually do often pull some girls however that is rare me actually going out with them and simply i cant be asked. I just want to be isolated my whole life but obviously i cant do that.
Nigger we all go through this retard
 
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Still a normie.
 
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I’m not a bad looking guy, usually get rated like hmtn on these forums, i fraud to 5’11 even though im 5’9. I simply cannot get girls as i dont put myself out there at all and all my nt friends tell me “just put yuh shelf out dere” as if im ever gonna post a thirst trap or something on tiktok or willingly go to parties, I can still talk to girls and stuff fine, ive been homeschooled for 2 years since i had to drop out due to my attendance ( nice level 1 asd coming into play ) and this literally just sucks. Girls don’t even know i exist and when i do go out i actually do often pull some girls however that is rare me actually going out with them and simply i cant be asked. I just want to be isolated my whole life but obviously i cant do that.
im nd but don't really have issues with life really, i struggle with anxiety and horrible social anxiety but still live a normal life , nobody really even can tell im anxious only some people can and rarely , i have no trouble with girls really or making friends. just learn to live and try to live as normally as possible despite being nd larp nt. it might be my looks and money that carry me but u never really know
 
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im nd but don't really have issues with life really, i struggle with anxiety and horrible social anxiety but still live a normal life , nobody really even can tell im anxious only some people can and rarely , i have no trouble with girls really or making friends. just learn to live and try to live as normally as possible despite being nd larp nt. it might be my looks and money that carry me but u never really know
used to struggle with that a lot, sometimes still do
 
I’m not a bad looking guy, usually get rated like hmtn on these forums, i fraud to 5’11 even though im 5’9. I simply cannot get girls as i dont put myself out there at all and all my nt friends tell me “just put yuh shelf out dere” as if im ever gonna post a thirst trap or something on tiktok or willingly go to parties, I can still talk to girls and stuff fine, ive been homeschooled for 2 years since i had to drop out due to my attendance ( nice level 1 asd coming into play ) and this literally just sucks. Girls don’t even know i exist and when i do go out i actually do often pull some girls however that is rare me actually going out with them and simply i cant be asked. I just want to be isolated my whole life but obviously i cant do that.
1:1 replicas holyshit
 

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