Being neurodiverse is the worst card you can be given

[Mzcerti]

How your brain works, your social is everything. You can be good looking, whatever, but if ur ND is over.

Honestly, ive had so many brutal interactions at university cos of my ND. You can mask it, but it's always there. The fidgeting, the awkwardness, saying random shit. All of it makes life so hard. I'm not gl by any means, but I'm not chopped (avg rating is mmtn). But honestly, most of my friends are around me or worse, yet cos they r NT they live so much better lives in every aspect. I may make more money than them, have a higher status due to my niche TikTok account and many people know who I am on campus. But I will never live a normal life cos of this condition.

This is a rant, but genuinely it's so hard to deal with, especially knowing why you can't live normal lives cos of the way you operate. People literally ask me if I'm autistic and don't think i chat to any women (which is true to an extent).

Just looking for advice from anyone who can relate and has done anything to change it or improve their life.

 

[Funnyunenjoyer1]

How your brain works, your social is everything. You can be good looking, whatever, but if ur ND is over.

Honestly, ive had so many brutal interactions at university cos of my ND. You can mask it, but it's always there. The fidgeting, the awkwardness, saying random shit. All of it makes life so hard. I'm not gl by any means, but I'm not chopped (avg rating is mmtn). But honestly, most of my friends are around me or worse, yet cos they r NT they live so much better lives in every aspect. I may make more money than them, have a higher status due to my niche TikTok account and many people know who I am on campus. But I will never live a normal life cos of this condition.

This is a rant, but genuinely it's so hard to deal with, especially knowing why you can't live normal lives cos of the way you operate. People literally ask me if I'm autistic and don't think i chat to any women (which is true to an extent).

Just looking for advice from anyone who can relate and has done anything to change it or improve their life.

Agreed but I don't believe in neurodivergence, I only believe in extreme neurodivergence ( when a person has learning disability, can't walk, can't talk etc )

The high functioning neurodivergence is mostly made up, and is probably mistaken for childhood traumas

 

[Mzcerti]

Agreed but I don't believe in neurodivergence, I only believe in extreme neurodivergence ( when a person has learning disability, can't walk, can't talk etc )

The high functioning neurodivergence is mostly made up, and is probably mistaken for childhood traumas

you may be right. ive always been that guy who wasnt part of a weird friendgroup w the nerds, but was always known as the retarded one in the group.

now in university its even worse cos i have friends (made 0 effort somehow got them) but literally i dont see a way where i can actually live a normal life. its actually brutal lol, seeing people live normally while u suffer in silence

 

[joe morgan.121]

This is very true, but your looking at it the wrong way. my whole childhood i was so embarrassed to be ND. if you look at yourself as a miserable reject that’s exactly what you’ll be. i realized that it is truly a blessing to be neurodivergent if you look at it the right way, why do you want to live a normal life? to fit in? that’s not gonna happen. yes awkward interactions are guaranteed to happen every single day if your constantly looking at yourself as an outcast. you are your own god and are better than everyone around you
also have u tried adderal

 

[joe morgan.121]

you may be right. ive always been that guy who wasnt part of a weird friendgroup w the nerds, but was always known as the retarded one in the group.

now in university its even worse cos i have friends (made 0 effort somehow got them) but literally i dont see a way where i can actually live a normal life. its actually brutal lol, seeing people live normally while u suffer in silence

don’t surround yourself with neurotypicals it will rot your head state slowly, especially if your known as the “retarded” one in the group. that was me before i decided i had enough, don’t let urself get bitched around. i found that i am my best self when i have no friends and it’s just me and my decisions, i love myself more than anyone else

 

[Mzcerti]

This is very true, but your looking at it the wrong way. my whole childhood i was so embarrassed to be ND. if you look at yourself as a miserable reject that’s exactly what you’ll be. i realized that it is truly a blessing to be neurodivergent if you look at it the right way, why do you want to live a normal life? to fit in? that’s not gonna happen. yes awkward interactions are guaranteed to happen every single day if your constantly looking at yourself as an outcast. you are your own god and are better than everyone around you
also have u tried adderal

Yeah I’ve tried using that mindset, and in part deep down I am happy I’m ND and not normal. Today was just such a brutal day that it really had me deeping my life

I have never tried any adhd meds before

 

[Mzcerti]

don’t surround yourself with neurotypicals it will rot your head state slowly, especially if your known as the “retarded” one in the group. that was me before i decided i had enough, don’t let urself get bitched around. i found that i am my best self when i have no friends and it’s just me and my decisions, i love myself more than anyone else

In all honesty, they are good people and despite knowing them for only a year in uni they have had my back. I do have a larger frame, beard aswell so I do command some respect, and can lock in when the time is right.

I have come to self acceptance, but I really do think what life could’ve been like if I could have normal social interactions

I’m not proud to admit this but I genuinely am incel as a result of this.

 

[joe morgan.121]

Yeah I’ve tried using that mindset, and in part deep down I am happy I’m ND and not normal. Today was just such a brutal day that it really had me deeping my life

I have never tried any adhd meds before

i’ve been there bro, it helps a lot when you have people in ur same situation to relate to, you’ll realize it really isn’t as bad as what your making it out to be.
also i highly recommend that you try adderal or another adhd stim. those will temporarily fix social anxiety and awkwardness. i’m on 40mg adderal daily and it changed my life direction overnight. if ur diagnosed adhd or anything of that matter schedule an appointment with your doctor and ask them about it

 

[Mzcerti]

i’ve been there bro, it helps a lot when you have people in ur same situation to relate to, you’ll realize it really isn’t as bad as what your making it out to be.
also i highly recommend that you try adderal or another adhd stim. those will temporarily fix social anxiety and awkwardness. i’m on 40mg adderal daily and it changed my life direction overnight. if ur diagnosed adhd or anything of that matter schedule an appointment with your doctor and ask them about it

I really appreciate the words bro, it’s rare that I can speak to someone who can actually relate to me.

I think I will schedule an appointment, in the Uk they don’t give adderall but do give vyanse instead

 

[britcig]

How your brain works, your social is everything. You can be good looking, whatever, but if ur ND is over.

Honestly, ive had so many brutal interactions at university cos of my ND. You can mask it, but it's always there. The fidgeting, the awkwardness, saying random shit. All of it makes life so hard. I'm not gl by any means, but I'm not chopped (avg rating is mmtn). But honestly, most of my friends are around me or worse, yet cos they r NT they live so much better lives in every aspect. I may make more money than them, have a higher status due to my niche TikTok account and many people know who I am on campus. But I will never live a normal life cos of this condition.

This is a rant, but genuinely it's so hard to deal with, especially knowing why you can't live normal lives cos of the way you operate. People literally ask me if I'm autistic and don't think i chat to any women (which is true to an extent).

Just looking for advice from anyone who can relate and has done anything to change it or improve their life.

i have adhd and it’s so. bad.

every day i’ll see 80iq NT subs who get crazy grades on a test and just say “study more”
i can’t mf my brain does not work like that at all

as a kid i would constantly wonder what was wrong with me and my mom would yell at me for forgetting shit constantly she never said sorry once i got diagnosed

 

[joe morgan.121]

In all honesty, they are good people and despite knowing them for only a year in uni they have had my back. I do have a larger frame, beard aswell so I do command some respect, and can lock in when the time is right.

I have come to self acceptance, but I really do think what life could’ve been like if I could have normal social interactions

I’m not proud to admit this but I genuinely am incel as a result of this.

i think it’s your head state man, say exactly what you wanna say do exactly what you wanna do instead of always trying to fit in, people will naturally go with it if you are genuine and have confidence in yourself. i feel like women have been more attracted to me as a neurodivergent, ever since a kid women was never the problem it was friends and authority for me

 

[Mzcerti]

i have adhd and it’s so. bad.

every day i’ll see 80iq NT subs who get crazy grades on a test and just say “study more”
i can’t mf my brain does not work like that at all

as a kid i would constantly wonder what was wrong with me and my mom would yell at me for forgetting shit constantly she never said sorry once i got diagnosed

Getting called retarded while being ND is the worst. Because deep down you know that your smarter than them (most of the time), but they wouldn’t understand it when u explain it to them

Yeah after my mum found out about my adhd she valued me more, especially after I got into a top university and with the accolades I’ve achieved while having it

 

[britcig]

Getting called retarded while being ND is the worst. Because deep down you know that your smarter than them (most of the time), but they wouldn’t understand it when u explain it to them

Yeah after my mum found out about my adhd she valued me more, especially after I got into a top university and with the accolades I’ve achieved while having it

dude u HAVE to tell me what you do, i forget to study and do work all the time

i call people retarded sometimes but it comes from a place of self hatred and having to work twice as hard for the same goal

 

[Mzcerti]

i think it’s your head state man, say exactly what you wanna say do exactly what you wanna do instead of always trying to fit in, people will naturally go with it if you are genuine and have confidence in yourself. i feel like women have been more attracted to me as a neurodivergent, ever since a kid women was never the problem it was friends and authority for me

Yeah I think I should. Ever since I started uni I’ve been so focused on hiding my ND that it probably makes me look like even more of a creep, and repulsive. Like when I speak to women especially I feel like I’m speaking with 2 brains

Weirdly friends was easy because as guys we are naturally crazy sometimes. And me being retarded does lead to my friends reciprocating the energy, and also saying stupid shit. Only with the right people of course

 

[joe morgan.121]

I really appreciate the words bro, it’s rare that I can speak to someone who can actually relate to me.

I think I will schedule an appointment, in the Uk they don’t give adderall but do give vyanse instead

ofc, vyvanse should work well if you’ve never taken stims before, it’s kinda all up to personal preference at the end of the day ig my fix was adderal .

 

[Mzcerti]

ofc, vyvanse should work well if you’ve never taken stims before, it’s kinda all up to personal preference at the end of the day ig my fix was adderal

Could u specify how it changed u in short

 

[Mzcerti]

dude u HAVE to tell me what you do, i forget to study and do work all the time

i call people retarded sometimes but it comes from a place of self hatred and having to work twice as hard for the same goal

Bro genuinely I got lucky. Just got really good on a subject I was interested in and hyper fixated on. Others I got avg ish grades

I literally have finals in a week and I didn’t do any work for a whole month until the last week

Literally have 3 modules to do

 

[britcig]

Bro genuinely I got lucky. Just got really good on a subject I was interested in and hyper fixated on. Others I got avg ish grades

I literally have finals in a week and I didn’t do any work for a whole month until the last week

Literally have 3 modules to do

only thing i have this level of interest in is fashion bro it’s so over
i love money enough i could be jewish im chilling

 

[Mzcerti]

only thing i have this level of interest in is fashion bro it’s so over
i love money enough i could be jewish im chilling

Bro I actually hate university

I can literally get into finance easily if I lock in, but I’d rather do fucking ugc TikTok content to save up for an amg

 

[joe morgan.121]

Could u specify how it changed u in short

so how it works is it basically floods your brain with dopamine which makes you feel like you can conquer the world at 7am. as a neurodivergent, your dopamine levels are naturally below baseline. which is why you want to do so many things but can’t actually get around to it. but on adderal, your hit with a shit load of dopamine so everything you’ve wanted to get done for weeks, months, could even be years, gets done instantly. i was at rock bottom and a loser stoner, i took adderal and a week later i secured a job paying me $30 an hour, whole house spotless my diet went from straight junk to only whole foods instantly it just makes you make the right decisions when you don’t abuse the drug. one thing i’ve seen ppl say is that the drug loses its effectiveness over time, but i’ve been on the same dose for 7 months now and there hasn’t been a day where improvement hasn’t been made

 

[joe morgan.121]

only thing i have this level of interest in is fashion bro it’s so over
i love money enough i could be jewish im chilling

same

 

[Mzcerti]

so how it works is it basically floods your brain with dopamine which makes you feel like you can conquer the world at 7am. as a neurodivergent, your dopamine levels are naturally below baseline. which is why you want to do so many things but can’t actually get around to it. but on adderal, your hit with a shit load of dopamine so everything you’ve wanted to get done for weeks, months, could even be years, gets done instantly. i was at rock bottom and a loser stoner, i took adderal and a week later i secured a job paying me $30 an hour, whole house spotless my diet went from straight junk to only whole foods instantly it just makes you make the right decisions when you don’t abuse the drug. one thing i’ve seen ppl say is that the drug loses its effectiveness over time, but i’ve been on the same dose for 7 months now and there hasn’t been a day where improvement hasn’t been made

Sounds like heaven lol, imma try get vyanse asap.

 

[joe morgan.121]

Sounds like heaven lol, imma try get vyanse asap.

when you take it for the first time your gonna feel like an engine that got rebuilt after sitting at the bottom of the ocean for decades lol feel free to dm if u got any other questions

 

[Mzcerti]

when you take it for the first time your gonna feel like an engine that got rebuilt after sitting at the bottom of the ocean for decades lol feel free to dm if u got any other questions

Imma dm u rn

 

[stigmaboy]

yo @joe morgan.121 facts. vyanse is legit lifefuel fr. glad ur on the path to feeling like urself again.