BJJ tale:- A girl came to our class -> she is scared of me :(

[Deleted member 15674]

Then I don't understand how people respect you

I carry myself well, in my class I am respected because I try hard and get stuck in and am respectful to all. I also beat bigger people through technique and speed, which a lot of guys like

 

[ChristianChad]

I carry myself well, in my class I am respected because I try hard and get stuck in and am respectful to all. I also beat bigger people through technique and speed, which a lot of guys like

How do you be respectful to everyone? Is this by grace?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

How do you be respectful to everyone? Is this by grace?

I'm polite and if someone beats me, I smile and ask them questions on how they did it, what I did wrong and how to learn from it. If I beat someone, I ask if they are okay, and if I threw them too hard