BP ruining my relationship

[chadpreetinthemakin]

I used to be super confident with my girlfriend but once I started getting into BP I literally can not feel like that anymore. Every little thing just makes me feel like shit even if she calls me handsome it makes me feel bad cuz I know all my flaws. It got to a point where it was affecting how I act and she got tired of it cuz I was just always sad. How the hell do I fix ts, like it’s impossible to feel like a good guy to her when I feel like she’s doing a favor being with me, even though she asked me out and always tells me stuff that should make me feel good about myself. Been together over a year and it just gets harder not better. I don’t want this to ruin my relationship with her, it’s to the point I can’t even show my face on calls and obviously that’s fucking weird as a guy to do grown ass man. Can’t even show my face to my girl of over a year who I love. It’s cuz we have to long distance for 2 months over the college holidays. It’s causing problems how do I get over this. The thing is too I look better than i did when I met her, but when I met her I was nothing but confident

 

[hax]

you leave her and focus on looksmaxxing full time

 

[copnlarp]

I used to be super confident with my girlfriend but once I started getting into BP I literally can not feel like that anymore. Every little thing just makes me feel like shit even if she calls me handsome it makes me feel bad cuz I know all my flaws. It got to a point where it was affecting how I act and she got tired of it cuz I was just always sad. How the hell do I fix ts, like it’s impossible to feel like a good guy to her when I feel like she’s doing a favor being with me, even though she asked me out and always tells me stuff that should make me feel good about myself. Been together over a year and it just gets harder not better. I don’t want this to ruin my relationship with her, it’s to the point I can’t even show my face on calls and obviously that’s fucking weird as a guy to do grown ass man. Can’t even show my face to my girl of over a year who I love. It’s cuz we have to long distance for 2 months over the college holidays. It’s causing problems how do I get over this. The thing is too I look better than i did when I met her, but when I met her I was nothing but confident

either ascend and forget abt looksmaxing and bp or leave her

 

[chadpreetinthemakin]

you leave her and focus on looksmaxxing full time

Would help me save up for my hardmaxxes

 

[Deleted member 192735]

Indians just be typing anything to distract themselves from a crowded bus

 

[tarkdriad33]

Just think about BP while ur fucking her aggressively

 

[chadpreetinthemakin]

Indians just be typing anything to distract themselves from a crowded bus

Yeap too crowded in here

 

[Deleted member 192735]

Some of the most larp shit I’ve read

 

[chadpreetinthemakin]

Some of the most larp shit I’ve read

Genuinely not larp I’m sure this is happening to lots of people cuz of this.

 

[MoggedSubhuman]

मैं अपनी गर्लफ्रेंड के साथ पहले बहुत आत्मविश्वासी था, लेकिन जब से मैं BP में गया, मैं सच में अब वैसा महसूस नहीं कर पाता। हर छोटी-छोटी बात मुझे बेकार महसूस कराती है, भले ही वह मुझे सुंदर कहे, मुझे बुरा लगता है क्योंकि मुझे अपनी सारी कमियाँ पता हैं। यह उस हद तक पहुँच गया कि इसका असर मेरे व्यवहार पर पड़ने लगा और वह इससे तंग आ गई क्योंकि मैं हमेशा उदास रहता था। मैं इसे कैसे ठीक करूँ, जब मुझे लगता है कि मेरे साथ रहना उसके लिए एक एहसान है, तो उसके लिए एक अच्छा इंसान महसूस करना नामुमकिन हो जाता है, भले ही उसने खुद मुझसे रिश्ता शुरू करने को कहा हो और हमेशा ऐसी बातें करती हो जो मुझे अपने बारे में अच्छा महसूस कराए। हम एक साल से साथ हैं और यह बेहतर होने के बजाय और भी मुश्किल होता जा रहा है। मैं नहीं चाहता कि इससे उसका मेरे साथ रिश्ता खराब हो जाए, यह उस हद तक पहुँच गया है कि मैं कॉल पर अपना चेहरा भी नहीं दिखा पाता और जाहिर है, एक बड़े आदमी के लिए ऐसा करना बहुत अजीब है। मैं अपनी एक साल से ज़्यादा पुरानी गर्लफ्रेंड को भी अपना चेहरा नहीं दिखा पाता, जिससे मैं प्यार करता हूँ। यह इसलिए है क्योंकि हमें कॉलेज की छुट्टियों के दौरान 2 महीने के लिए लॉन्ग डिस्टेंस रिलेशन में रहना पड़ता है। इससे समस्याएं हो रही हैं, मैं इससे कैसे उबरूं। बात यह भी है कि मैं पहले से बेहतर दिखता हूं जब मैं उससे मिला था, लेकिन जब मैं उससे मिला था तो मैं पूरी तरह से आत्मविश्वासी था।

Can you redeem me a gift card saar?

 

[Deleted member 284650]

@Bobbyrino i know your not jfl reacting

 

[Deleted member 192735]

@Bobbyrino i know your not jfl reacting
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Stop

 

[Deleted member 284650]

Stop

stop jfl reacting and ill stop it

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

Jesus your mental is fucked if you’re so looks obsessed that you forget there’s actually more to life than your facial ratios. “Looks” is just another outlet for your insecurity to manifest, and insecurity kills relationships. Either lock in and realize your worth or end the relationship and stop dragging her down with your whining.

 

[Deleted member 192735]

stop jfl reacting and ill stop it

Ok I stopped

 

[chadpreetinthemakin]

Jesus your mental is fucked if you’re so looks obsessed that you forget there’s actually more to life than your facial ratios. “Looks” is just another outlet for your insecurity to manifest, and insecurity kills relationships. Either lock in and realize your worth or end the relationship and stop dragging her down with your whining.

Real advice. Thanks bro

 

[AcromiaI]

End relationship bro it’s not that hard