Bullying is INHERENTLY more traumatic than non violent adult-child sex

[Deleted member 4612]

Response to this thread by @Gudru

https://looksmax.org/threads/why-does-society-cry-about-people-fucking-kids.249775/

This thread discussed bullying vs sex with children. Most people said sex with children was worse, but here's the question. Why?

Most of you people would probably say "because it's traumatic"

Child sex is not traumatic when it happens. Only much later (Child Sex Trauma Myth #2) | Human Stupidity: Irrationality, Self Deception

Susan Clancy was a firm believer in the conventional wisdom: adult child sex is a profoundly traumatic. devastating terrible experience. As a psychology graduate student, Susan Clancy trusted, that scientist’s unwavering certainty in the childhood trauma theory of sexual abuse was based on firm...

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The truth is, adult child sex isn't INHERENTLY traumatic. In reality, the "trauma" is taught. The sex, if nonviolent, isn't a painful, stressful experience in the same way bullying is (if the sex is nonviolent). However, the "victim" is then later told they were a "victim" and then feels victimized. Then AND ONLY THEN was that adult child sex actually "traumatic".

Bullying, on the other hand, has a clear cut victim, and they don't need to be told they were bullied to understand they were a victim. It's pretty obvious they were

Hence, bullying is INHERENTLY more traumatic than adult-child sex.

@DharkDC @Proex @TraumatisedOgre @bpdandectasy @EreptileDysfunction @OOGABOOGA

 

[OOGABOOGA]

Child? Nah you’re on your own for this one

 

[DharkDC]

Response to this thread by @Gudru

https://looksmax.org/threads/why-does-society-cry-about-people-fucking-kids.249775/

This thread discussed bullying vs sex with children. Most people said sex with children was worse, but here's the question. Why?

Most of you people would probably say "because it's traumatic"

Child sex is not traumatic when it happens. Only much later (Child Sex Trauma Myth #2) | Human Stupidity: Irrationality, Self Deception

Susan Clancy was a firm believer in the conventional wisdom: adult child sex is a profoundly traumatic. devastating terrible experience. As a psychology graduate student, Susan Clancy trusted, that scientist’s unwavering certainty in the childhood trauma theory of sexual abuse was based on firm...

human-stupidity.com

The truth is, adult child sex isn't INHERENTLY traumatic. In reality, the "trauma" is taught. The sex, if nonviolent, isn't a painful, stressful experience in the same way bullying is (if the sex is nonviolent). However, the "victim" is then later told they were a "victim" and then feels victimized. Then AND ONLY THEN was that adult child sex actually "traumatic".

Bullying, on the other hand, has a clear cut victim, and they don't need to be told they were bullied to understand they were a victim. It's pretty obvious they were

Hence, bullying is INHERENTLY more traumatic than adult-child sex.

@DharkDC @Proex @TraumatisedOgre @bpdandectasy @EreptileDysfunction @OOGABOOGA

I can argue that foids who got raped don't even feel like victims, until someone put it in their head.

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

I cant wait for the replies to this one

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Child? Nah you’re on your own for this one

did you even read what I said?

 

[Deleted member 4804]

what do u mean by "kids"

 

[Deleted member 9003]

I’d rather be bullied than be abused by the church pastor

 

[BigBoy]

this nigga is tryna push pedophilia on teens. he started with ephebophilia but is slowly getting there.

 

[Deleted member 6095]

100% accurate tbh. There is nothing wrong with what happened until someone tells you that it was wrong later.

 

[Deleted member 5189]

Bullying is the worst thing that can happen to you aside from someone severely physically harming you.

If someone is bullying you it basically means they wish you want you dead. They will do everything they can to destroy you aside from anything that would get themselves in trouble.

We're living in a concrete jungle. If you're someone who gets bullied, if you were born in caveman times you would've just been killed off. But obviously now that we live in a society and there are laws and consequences and reputation people will do as much as they can to hurt ugly males whilst attempting to avoid any consequences.

 

[Deleted member 2214]

What do you mean by bullying cause i've gone to schools where beatings and knifefights happen and i've also gone to schools where kids who got called poopyface started crying.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

I’d rather be bullied than be abused by the church pastor

yeah but that's a strawman. I compared bullying to nonviolent sex and the INHERENT TRAUMA

 

[Deleted member 9003]

yeah but that's a strawman. I compared bullying to nonviolent sex and the INHERENT TRAUMA

It doesn’t matter if the trauma is learnt. The person still got abused. And you can’t really speak for rape victims since it hasn’t happened to you.

 

[Deleted member 5189]

What do you mean by bullying cause i've gone to schools where beatings and knifefights happen and i've also gone to schools where kids who got called poopyface started crying.

331 days

 

[Deleted member 5189]

It doesn’t matter if the trauma is learnt. The person still got abused. And you can’t really speak for rape victims since it hasn’t happened to you.

It does matter

 

[getra]

Bullying is the worst thing that can happen to you aside from someone severely physically harming you.

If someone is bullying you it basically means they wish you want you dead. They will do everything they can to destroy you aside from anything that would get themselves in trouble.

We're living in a concrete jungle. If you're someone who gets bullied, if you were born in caveman times you would've just been killed off. But obviously now that we live in a society and there are laws and consequences and reputation people will do as much as they can to hurt ugly males whilst attempting to avoid any consequences.

To be fair some victims are brought up or told to not fight back their whole lives

 

[Deleted member 5189]

What do you mean by bullying cause i've gone to schools where beatings and knifefights happen and i've also gone to schools where kids who got called poopyface started crying.

By bullying he means bullying

 

[Deleted member 2403]

this nigga is tryna push pedophilia on teens. he started with ephebophilia but is slowly getting there.

Ephebophilia is completely normal. Ephebophilia is attraction to 15-19 year old girls. My avi and sig are 18 but does that make me a pedophile?

 

[isis_Bleach]

Response to this thread by @Gudru

https://looksmax.org/threads/why-does-society-cry-about-people-fucking-kids.249775/

This thread discussed bullying vs sex with children. Most people said sex with children was worse, but here's the question. Why?

Most of you people would probably say "because it's traumatic"

Child sex is not traumatic when it happens. Only much later (Child Sex Trauma Myth #2) | Human Stupidity: Irrationality, Self Deception

Susan Clancy was a firm believer in the conventional wisdom: adult child sex is a profoundly traumatic. devastating terrible experience. As a psychology graduate student, Susan Clancy trusted, that scientist’s unwavering certainty in the childhood trauma theory of sexual abuse was based on firm...

human-stupidity.com

The truth is, adult child sex isn't INHERENTLY traumatic. In reality, the "trauma" is taught. The sex, if nonviolent, isn't a painful, stressful experience in the same way bullying is (if the sex is nonviolent). However, the "victim" is then later told they were a "victim" and then feels victimized. Then AND ONLY THEN was that adult child sex actually "traumatic".

Bullying, on the other hand, has a clear cut victim, and they don't need to be told they were bullied to understand they were a victim. It's pretty obvious they were

Hence, bullying is INHERENTLY more traumatic than adult-child sex.

@DharkDC @Proex @TraumatisedOgre @bpdandectasy @EreptileDysfunction @OOGABOOGA

Tbh you’re kinda right, if s guy touches your Dick that’s not really tramautic
But that one guy in the article who got fucked multiple times for baseball cards and even missed the guy when he left, that’s fucked up ngl but u can get over that

 

[sensen]

dude, if you believe bullying is a thing you're a faggot.

Heavy pedophile vibes my dude

 

[Deleted member 4612]

It doesn’t matter if the trauma is learnt. The person still got abused. And you can’t really speak for rape victims since it hasn’t happened to you.

it does matter. because I was speaking of INHERENT trauma

did you know that in other countries, such as in the middle east, adults engage in sex with minors and there is no trauma because they are never told they were "abused"

 

[sensen]

also, try getting molested as a kid and come back and let us know how you feel while also dealing with your newfound homo potential after your imprinted sexual experience with some old fuck

 

[Deleted member 3323]

Response to this thread by @Gudru

https://looksmax.org/threads/why-does-society-cry-about-people-fucking-kids.249775/

This thread discussed bullying vs sex with children. Most people said sex with children was worse, but here's the question. Why?

Most of you people would probably say "because it's traumatic"

Child sex is not traumatic when it happens. Only much later (Child Sex Trauma Myth #2) | Human Stupidity: Irrationality, Self Deception

Susan Clancy was a firm believer in the conventional wisdom: adult child sex is a profoundly traumatic. devastating terrible experience. As a psychology graduate student, Susan Clancy trusted, that scientist’s unwavering certainty in the childhood trauma theory of sexual abuse was based on firm...

human-stupidity.com

The truth is, adult child sex isn't INHERENTLY traumatic. In reality, the "trauma" is taught. The sex, if nonviolent, isn't a painful, stressful experience in the same way bullying is (if the sex is nonviolent). However, the "victim" is then later told they were a "victim" and then feels victimized. Then AND ONLY THEN was that adult child sex actually "traumatic".

Bullying, on the other hand, has a clear cut victim, and they don't need to be told they were bullied to understand they were a victim. It's pretty obvious they were

Hence, bullying is INHERENTLY more traumatic than adult-child sex.

@DharkDC @Proex @TraumatisedOgre @bpdandectasy @EreptileDysfunction @OOGABOOGA

It can be inherently traumatic if it was forced on you and you didnt want it. Not because of the act itself but because it was forced on you and violated your space.


It can also be traumatic later down the line if you realize were lied to and manipulated into doing sexual acts.


I knew someone who was "raped" by her father at 9 years old. She said her father was nice when he did it and she never told anyone about it. She didn't understood what was going on, she just went along with it. How could she have possibly consented if she didn't even understand what was happening to her? Basically, she was raped by her own father. She didn't understand she was raped but as she got older, when she turned 13-14 she understood what sex was.


Nobody told her she was a victim, she just knew what sex was and what consent was when she got older. Knowing that she realized she was raped and was left with psychological damage that was hard to get rid of, she started being immensely promiscuous to cope with the fact that she was raped. Society had nothing to do with it, its the understanding of sex and consent and realizing you were violated. You can argue that consent is a societal concept but I'd disagree, people inherently have boundaries and dont want their space violated.

Like imagine you didnt know what sex was and some pedo told you to suck his dick. You didnt know what was going on but he manipulated you because you were just a kid. Now imagine, down the line, you remember your childhood and had to live with the fact you were manipulated into sucking another man's dick. Imagine the humilation, the shame you would feel.

Tl;dr: So yes, being told theyre a victim isnt the reason why its traumatic. Its understanding what sex is and consent is as you get older.

 

[Deleted member 2214]

331 days

You're permarotter tbh, you'll probably be around to see it.

By bullying he means bullying

Dedsrs?

 

[Deleted member 5189]

it does matter. because I was speaking of INHERENT trauma

did you know that in other countries, such as in the middle east, adults engage in sex with minors and there is no trauma because they are never told they were "abused"

Ye. A good analogy is with this TikTok trend where basically the parent is holding their baby close to a door and then the parent knocks on the door and then pretends to mistakenly think that the baby hit his head and consoles him even tho nothing happened yet the baby starts crying as if he did hit his head on the door.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

It can be inherently traumatic if it was forced on you and you didnt want it. Not because of the act itself but because it was forced on you and violated your space.


It can also be traumatic later down the line if you realize were lied to and manipulated into doing sexual acts.


I knew someone who was "raped" by her father at 9 years old. She said her father was nice when he did it and she never told anyone about it. She didn't understood what was going on, she just went along with it. How could she have possibly consented if she didn't even understand what was happening to her? Basically, she was raped by her own father. She didn't understand she was raped but as she got older, when she turned 13-14 she understood what sex was.


Nobody told her she was a victim, she just knew what sex was and what consent was when she got older. Knowing that she realized she was raped and was left with psychological damage that was hard to get rid of, she started being immensely promiscuous to cope with the fact that she was raped. Society had nothing to do with it, its the understanding of sex and consent and realizing you were violated. You can argue that consent is a societal concept but I'd disagree, people inherently have boundaries and dont want their space violated.

Like imagine you didnt know what sex was and some pedo told you to suck his dick. You didnt know what was going on but he manipulated you because you were just a kid. Now imagine, down the line, you remember your childhood and had to live with the fact you were manipulated into sucking another man's dick. Imagine the humilation, the shame you would feel.

the culture taught her that she was abused. in the middle east, there is no "trauma"

 

[Deleted member 2012]

Man, I agree with you that ephebophilia is normal and that the AOC of most western countries is cucked.

But even I am starting to think there’s something wrong when all your threads are about this subject or rape.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

also, try getting molested as a kid and come back and let us know how you feel while also dealing with your newfound homo potential after your imprinted sexual experience with some old fuck

you're speaking hypothetically, while there is clear research that says otherwise. in the middle east, there is no "trauma"

Man, I agree with you that ephebophilia is normal and that the AOC of most western countries is cucked.

But even I am starting to think there’s something wrong when all your threads are about this subject or rape.

yes, that's the cultural indoctrination that still lies in you. do your research

 

[sensen]

the culture taught her that she was abused. in the middle east, there is no "trauma"

yeah, in the middle east there is no trauma, they just bottle it up and suicide bomb entire city blocks you fucking retard.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

yeah, in the middle east there is no trauma, they just bottle it up and suicide bomb entire city blocks you fucking retard.

the men there are the suicide bombers, not the women.

the older men get with the younger women and the women feel no trauma

also, in ancient greece, they had adult child sex and there was no "trauma", it was simply part of the culture

 

[Deleted member 9003]

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[Deleted member 3323]

the culture taught her that she was abused. in the middle east, there is no "trauma"

I see your point, if a society doesnt place a taboo on sex and sees it as just another "thing" then being violated as a child would probably be as traumatic as being bullied. But I don't know any society that doesnt place atleast SOME taboo on sex. Sex isnt just some normal thing people do in public in front of everyone else (Depends on the context, porn, orgies, cuckolds), but you get the point thats a taboo to not have sex in the streets infront of children and strangers. It seems inherent in humans to view sex as something that needs its boundaries.

 

[Ritalincell]

dnrd but fucking children is not okay

 

[Deleted member 9072]

wtf
this is not normal nigga and wrong
teens is something else
since 16yo is aoc in many countries


but children????

 

[sensen]

the men there are the suicide bombers, not the women.

the older men get with the younger women and the women feel no trauma

also, in ancient greece, they had adult child sex and there was no "trauma", it was simply part of the culture

yeah and jews perform studies.

Think I trust studies? Especially when they're written by the most pedophillic culture in human history?

Pederasty was not NEARLY as common as Harvard JEw historians will have you know.

 

[oatmeal]

 

[Deleted member 4612]

I see your point, if a society doesnt place a taboo on sex and sees it as just another "thing" then being violated as a child would probably be as traumatic as being bullied. But I don't know any society that doesnt place atleast SOME taboo on sex. Sex isnt just some normal thing people do in public in front of everyone else (Depends on the context, porn, orgies, cuckolds), but you get the point thats a taboo to not have sex in the streets infront of children and strangers. It seems inherent in humans to view sex as something that needs its boundaries.

yes, it is natural to have some boundaries on sex.

notice i said non violent sex, so i wasnt talking about violenty fucking a child in the ass like a lot of fags do

in ancient societies where adult child sex was normalized, it wasn't traumatic. so therefore the bullying is more INHERENTLY traumatic

 

[Deleted member 4612]

wtf
this is not normal nigga and wrong
teens is something else


but children????

did you read the links?

yeah and jews perform studies.

Think I trust studies? Especially when they're written by the most pedophillic culture in human history?

Pederasty was not NEARLY as common as Harvard JEw historians will have you know.

lmao so you've never trusted a single study ever?

 

[Deleted member 9072]

did you read the links?

lmao so you've never trusted a single study ever?

ok
but
children are different from teens
they can be easily manipulated and it's wrong
most children have not hit puberty

 

[sensen]

did you read the links?

lmao so you've never trusted a single study ever?

Definitely not ones giving passes to fucking pedophiles.

I get the basis of what you're saying. Trauma is something that occurs when the child understands what happened to them. But in normal society, in European based societies, we see sex as a serious act.. Different cultures view things a bit differently but if you're advocating for our societies to function like fucking slave gay sex houses in the Middle East, it's never gonna happen.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

ok
but
children are different from teens
they can be easily manipulated and it's wrong
most children have not hit puberty

yes, but that wasn't the point of the thread.

the point was that the "trauma" isn't inherent, like it is with bullying

Definitely not ones giving passes to fucking pedophiles.

I get the basis of what you're saying. Trauma is something that occurs when the child understands what happened to them. But in normal society, in European based societies, we see sex as a serious act.. Different cultures view things a bit differently but if you're advocating for our societies to function like fucking slave gay sex houses in the Middle East, it's never gonna happen.

I'm not "advocating" for anything. I'm just stating facts.

also, trauma can occur in wars, when you see people get killed, that happens then and there.

the child sex trauma is something they are taught or learn. not inherent

 

[Deleted member 9003]

did you read the links?

Same author

 

[sensen]

yes, but that wasn't the point of the thread.

the point was that the "trauma" isn't inherent, like it is with bullying

I'm not "advocating" for anything. I'm just stating facts.

also, trauma can occur in wars, when you see people get killed, that happens then and there.

the child sex trauma is something they are taught or learn. not inherent

Yeah, when they learn what sex is, it becomes traumatic.

Eventually they'll find out, and they'll feel taken advantage of. Stop reading Jewish studies and go get of age* gf

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Same author

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that article i read. and it actually talks of adults having sex with teens interesting enough. in the comments section you'll even see people pointing out that the article's title is flawed.

 

[Deleted member 5189]

Yeah, when they learn what sex is, it becomes traumatic.

Elab

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Yeah, when they learn what sex is, it becomes traumatic.

disagree, if they are told "that's what sex is btw, you had sex", they won't feel traumatized.

they will be traumatized when they are told "that was an atrocious thing that happened to you"

 

[sensen]

Elab

Im not gonna play your stupid game.
90% of human life agree pedophilia is fucking sick, regardless of culture or upbringing. Just because some Jews and Muslims in the mountains brainwash the kids they fuck into thinking they're fine, doesn't mean any section of actual normal society would think it's normal.

All of this is pedophile fantasy larp because it'll never be a thing for you.

 

[Deleted member 5189]

Definitely not ones giving passes to fucking pedophiles.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Im not gonna play your stupid game.
90% of human life agree pedophilia is fucking sick, regardless of culture or upbringing. Just because some Jews and Muslims in the mountains brainwash the kids they fuck into thinking they're fine, doesn't mean any section of actual normal society would think it's normal.

All of this is pedophile fantasy larp because it'll never be a thing for you.

brainwash the kids into thinking they're fine? how so? they don't say anything. how is that "brainwashing"

i'd argue the brainwashing comes from the society that makes sex "crimes" out to be a "serious" thing.

 

[sensen]

disagree, if they are told "that's what sex is btw, you had sex", they won't feel traumatized.

they will be traumatized when they are told "that was an atrocious thing that happened to you"

Some other Jew study said 2.5% of the world are pedophiles. That mean's 97.5% are not. At least 90% of that 97% obviously think it's sickening. The vast majority of the world would put a gun in the mouth of any kid fucker. So keep coping with your kike study, I hope you get help.